Is this feeling "normal"?

First let me state tha i am STRAIGHT AND ALITTLE CURIOUS. Now i love females and want to F*ck one BUT, BUT everytime i give myself an enema, i get this strong felling for guys but not like a "im going gay and want to mary a guy" fell but a feeling that if i could butt fuck one, my life would be 100% better! is this normal???

That's why they call it "bi-curious"! Normal is a relative term but I think a lot of people here would confess to at least a passing curiosity about being sexual with a person of the same gender.

This is what is known as "life experience".

If this is something you want to try...you had better find a way to try it. Once you see it's something you enjoy it (or you don't) and need it to make your life complete then you better find a way to incorporate into your living your life. You do know this is not a dress rehersal??

The saying is "you start dying the day you're born". As dirtman says, if you want to make this happen, find a way to do it safely while you're young and have the luxury of time on your side. Once you get older, the options diminish.

Learn to put all the "labels" our uptight society uses in their proper place and enjoy your life if you can.....

Does "normal" still matter?

When it comes to human sexuality, EVERYTHING is like homosexuality was in the 1970s. Because they can't actually change it, and there is nothing they can do about it, they eventually decide that it's "normal"

Normal for who? I suppose for many, enemas are not "normal", just as Bungee Jumping and extreme Rock Climbing aren't normal for me. However, enemas were normal for my folks who introduced me to them over 60 years ago, and today they're normal for me. Just because enemas aren't a topic that we generally discuss with all our friends and associates at cocktail parties, doesn't mean that they're non-normal. They're just part of our more private lives, as many things are.

I used to think that I was the only one in the world that liked enemas. When the Penthouse Forum came out in the 70, I found I was not alone. I didn't know how to get from private enemas to shared enemas. I finally talked a girl into letting me give her an enema. It was very enjoyable for me, but afterward she said is that it? It took me a long time to make the enema flow into sex as one experience. Now that I know everything, I don't have a partner. figures

I honestly believe everyone is at least somewhat bisexual, "normal" is just a setting on a dryer...

Let's just assume it's NOT. This is a problem BECAUSE???

One thing I have learned over the last few years is, "no regrets". I have decided that if there is something I want to do, see, try, or experience, then come hell or high water, I'm going to do it. I spent 37 years saying, "I wish I had, or I should have done", well, not any more. So if you want to do it, then do it, and remember, no regrets.

Mashie

I have found that it is not the things you do that you regret but the things you didn't do. Even if it was something that didn't turn out quite what I was expecting then you just move on. With me it came from reaching those "milestone" ages and starting to worry about ones mortality. At the time I was doing a bit of diving and decided if was going to die I would prefer to do it in a coral blue ocean. Given that your life is supposed flash before you like a movie I decided to make sure that, if it was going to be the last thing I saw then it better be X rated.

People seem to get thrills from doing all sorts of bizarre things so I would check them all out just in case you are missing out on something really good.

I could not agree more with the idea of doing what you want so there are no regrets later. My favorite mantra which really guides me as I age is "This is not a dress rehearsal."

Mashie and Miss Marcia: No one on their death bed ever said, "I wish I'd have spent more time at the office."

Well folk, I gotta tell ya...I've had a fantastic life! Its gonna have to be a 'closed casket funeral' cuz they ain't gonna get that shit-eatin' grin off my face!

I realized my childhood ambition to become a fighter pilot at the age of 21.....drove race cars for seven years, have had two great fantastic wifes (a couple of not-so-great...butt WTFO!)

And now turning 80 next month....I still have one of those fantastic wives (my former Veterinary Nurse) who loves to give me enemas.....a working jazz trio and most of my health.

I try to tell my kids that you can do/have ANYTHING ya want if you're willing to work for it. And if you don't like what you're doing.....DO SOmething else!

Peace and love to you all and thanx for being my friend....you know who you are.

the boxcar

I think if I started having bisexual thoughts I'd have to take a few enemas and see if they went away! :😃

Normal is what is normal to you not what is normal to someone else. I agree that one should go for what they want to try. You are going to either like what you tried, not like what you tried, or not be really sure. But, at least you didn't just wish to do it, you did it.

Bill

I used to think that anything to do with your butt was gay, then my mind was changed forever.

Wildbill, a karmic bump for you on your blunt, to the point, and truthful post.

The older I get the more I realize that I don't want to have any regrets. I don't want to be on my death bed thinking, "I wish I would have......" No regrets man, life's too short.

Mashie

Is it "normal" for a male after an enema to want to have a more solid anal penetration-maybe another male performing anal sex? Sometimes an enema brings on these and other anal desires-anyone else?

I agree with William 2009, After receiving an enema I always have a strong desire to receive anal sex.

I'm bisexual. I really find sex with guys, especially enema sex, to be incredibly erotic. That said, I'm attracted to the sex only. I have never felt attracted to a male either emotionally or romantically the way I'm attracted to women. I think all males are anally erotic, they just won't admit it because many in our society say that anything sexual having to do with a male's anus and rectum is forbidden, dirty, sinful, and perverse. Well, I've gotten over that. I absolutely love the feeling of my anus and rectum being stimulated by a man or a woman, whether it's by a finger, a tongue, and enema nozzle, dildo, vibrator, a strapon, or a hard cock. Men in our culture really have to let themselves go. Just because you like to feel something pleasurable slide in and out of your ass doesn't mean you're gay.

I'm gonna agree with you Fill, I'm not emotionally attracted to men, but now find that I would love to explore my bisexual feelings with another man. Some hot anal sex, maybe a little oral and finish off with a nice big enema. Something I now think about, now that I'm older and less worried about my sexuality.