Do you prefer the first orgasm by penetration or being licked.

Ladies, real ladies with a vagina, please. (Tucking that 5 pounds of meat between your legs does not qualify.)

Do you prefer the first orgasm by penetration or being licked.

I was with a couple, the wife was very open about what she liked and disliked. She wanted to orgasm during penetration before oral sex. Just got me to thinking, what do other ladies like?

Now I already know the guys would like 3 sucks, a beer and the TV remote, in that order.

I love a good licking, sometimes accompanied by finger fucking, then intercourse to orgasm followed by another licking to another orgasm. After that, I'll do anything else a man wants.

If it's a quickie, just fuck me and make me scream.

^^^^ Ditto that, what she said, Amen sistah!

Being licked properly just drives me wild. What more can I say?

I disagree with you skybear. I would like a suck then a fuck then a suck me clean THEN the beer and remote in that order. Sorry just had to clear that up.

My husband's tongue feels really good on my clitoris. But to be honest, I need penetration to have a really satisfying orgasm. I have a very sensitive G-spot. It takes something of some girth.....the thick glans of my husband's penis or a vibrator with a curved tip to rub up against that spot just right to send me over the edge.

For me I enjoy being fingered just to get me going, but then I love my first orgasm from receiving oral especially when my clit is gently sucked. Like Nikki though I think my best orgasms come from deep vaginal sex. I tend to be more excited when we don't use condoms and the feeling of a volume of semen inside. Right now I'm still nursing our newest addition so it is condoms for awhile until I go back on the pill..

I don't orgasm at all by being 'licked'. It's actually a turn off for me. Never figured it out, but I don't mind. LOL! Also, the two different types of orgasms I experience from different stimulation are mind blowing in their own right, and I guess my preference would change depending on my mood and possibly even who I was with. I don't usually orgasm with penetration from anything but a man's penis, so the man would definitely be a factor in deciding to go with clitoral stimulation first, or penetration. Don't get me wrong, now... fingering and toys are good, but a truly good orgasm only comes from real sex with a real human, or from my Hitachi on my clit. You're more than welcome to try it the other ways, but please don't be let down if it doesn't work. If it does? Congratulations to you! *giggles*

Skybear - I got a big kick out of the "Tucking that 5 pounds...".

I can't speak for everyone here, but if I had five pounds, I'd buy time on CNN Prime Time to show it - and I damn sure wouldn't tuck it. Hell I don't even tuck the "quarter pounder"...LOL

I prefer whatever daddy decides to give me.