My colon therapist

I had to re-word this question a little as it has become allot more important recently...

How do I tell my colon therapist that her treatment blew my mind?

Do I keep on going and don't say anything and enjoy it?

Do I come right out and admit that the treatment rang my chimes and possibly jeopardize our therapist - patient relationship?

Do I just say what the hell, and ask her to marry me?

Seriously though.. I am having a major dilemma, and would appreciate a woman's perspective on this...

I should add that I "perceive" that she has some interest in me beyond the scope of my treatments and as opened conversations which could lead to more intimate topics, albeit, presented in a delicate, professional, yet somehow open manor.

Sincere comments truly appreciated

Thank you

DO NOT say any of those things.

Just say you feel wonderful when she's done.

Smile and be polite. If really feel you have to say something, write it down in a letter form. That way you can get it out and put it into words. Then quickly burn or tear it up into the tiniest pieces possible. That way it is out, but won't be seen and ruin the relationship you have.

Thanks Susie and Mistress. This is a very important issue for me.

You have a good therapist - client relationship, do what is required to preserve it, do nothing to jeopardize it. By your own admission, you "perceive that she has some interest in you beyond the scope of your treatments", it would be wise to take the time to find out if that is indeed a fact or a perception with no fact on her behalf. Better to retain a good colon therapist and friend than risk losing it altogether. You state that she has initiated conversations that show the potential of leading to more personal topics, she evidently by your information, feels comfortable being the one to initiate that; it could be an aspect of professionalism or a combination of that and 'possible' personal interest. She has taken the initiative, let her keep it, be polite,courteous, be the gentleman, and by all means follow the suggestions Switchablesusie & MissStress have made, be patient, take your time.

G.N.

Why don't you invite her to have coffee, wine, or lunch? Timing is everything, DON'T do it while you're on the table; DO make it about her; DO make it clear that you respect the professional nature of her services; and, be prepared for a polite "no thank-you" at first; and finally, if your interest is truly about HER - then it might be a fair trade to give her up as a therapist and accept her as a friend or even a lover in time.

There's no reward without risk.

I thank my colon therapist everytime I visit her for a job well done. I wouldn't dare elude to something sexual, because most of these women give colonics out of a genuine passion for health and not sexual thrills. I'll admit to being a little aroused the first couple times, because it's a new experience having an attractive female shove a big pipe up your butt and massage your lower belly. I'm over that now, she's seen my winker and stuck a speculum up it dozens of times. I go for colonics regularly because it helps me maintain a healthy weight, and I feel like a million bucks afterward. I let her know she's my favorite colon therapist in town (she's the only one), and she says "I know I am darling." 😃

Are you still referring to the therapists at Detox for Life? I will be in Phoenix/Scottsdale and would love to indulge in a good cleansing session. I'm open to other suggestions in the area.

I would tell my theaipist right right off, I'm A kLISMO AND LET HER TAKE IT FROM THERE. Then she would know all the facts. With that info she should know what to do. Always be honest and up front, it has worked for me.

After a piticular good session with my colon therapist I said that I feel like having a cigarette , she was laughing so much as I went to the bathroom . It's a great feeling, we known it and so do they but I'm sure that most therapist like to know that there clients do feel good after a session , as long as you do over do it

My take on the personal interest in you by your colon therapist:

I don't know quite what the questions were, but some colon therapists' holistic approach to their treatment is to gently explore a client's personal life. This is out of belief in the mind-body connection and wanting to treat the whole person. I had one colon therapist who was like that. In our first session she asked me a lot about other health issues and from there began to explore life stressors. I think she felt that to not address those things--even though her primary speciality was colonics--would be not not fully address the physical problem I was dealing with.

In most places I know of, a colon therapist has to be certified. The certification process involves training, and it's quite likely that ethics would be a part of that training. From the point of view of someone interested in seeing respect and integrity develop in their profession (especially one that many mainstream medical practitioners disagree with), a situation where colon therapists are dating their patients would be viewed as a huge breach of professionalism. My guess is that colon therapists are very well aware of the sexual feelings that come up for many people in such a treatment, and for the therapist to be seen as taking advantage of such sexual feelings that the patient--well, I'm assuming that the overwhelming majority of such therapists don't want to go there.

Here's another question; how often are your instincts correct when it comes to sensing what a person you're attracted to thinks of you? For me, I tend to read people very well, but I know that one exception is in reading the intentions of someone I'm very attracted to. That's because I'm not just perceiving ther, but also desiring her, and perhaps even developing an attachment to the possibility of romance with that person.

My guess is that the women who have responded to this post probably have a more accurate view of your situation than anyone else on this forum does. Otherwise, if you can't let go of the possibility of something happening between you and your colon therapist, maybe you can casually ask your colon therapist about her training and certification process. My guess is that a code of ethics is involved. If she doesn't mention it, ask her about it. In any case, be very, very careful about jumping to concusions about her interests.

I have had a lot of colonics over the years by many different women and every one of them was a total professional. i would suggest that you keep your sexual excitemnet to yourself....she is not going to do anything about it and if you tell her outright it will probably ruin your relationship with her. she does not need to know anyway....just enjoy it as you can.

I have found in both my professional career and private life that a heartfelt , open, and frank discussion seldom leaves any problems. My guess is that she has had your feelings before and hopefully she will be able to at least verify that your colonic treatments certainly can cause the "erotic you" to come to a reality. She might even embrace it and make the treatments especially "special" for you. Good luck and best wishes.

I wish I could find one I was even comfortable thinking about telling, mine are nice but normally not enjoyable...no personalities. Sad really.

I think the advice that others who have said keeping the conversation professional when at the clinic is best. If your colon therapist is available as a single woman and you are a single guy, then maybe pursue a regular relationship by asking her out. If this happens, you can then begin to share your more secret desires and hope for the best in terms of a reaction form her.

But from what I have heard about colon therapy and clinics, they are not a place for sexual expression and the employees take their jobs seriously in terms of helping to improve the health of the patients. So it would not be good cross that line in that environment.