Sharbrian,
You are not alone in your thoughts and feelings concerning his cum coming out. For some reason I really like that too. There is just something really cool about that feeling.
I know some women who make their men wear condoms even though they are on birth control for the simple fact that they hate it and the feeling of their combined juices coming out. I just can't understand that.
Now I know as a medical professional I should probably advocate for using condoms, but, well, okay, if you are sleeping with multiple people, are not taking a form of birth control, or if you are not sure you or your partner are clean, then by all means, yes, you need to. But, honestly, I hate them. I don't at all like they way they feel. And in my personal opinion, from a womans standpoint anyway, anyone woman who says she can't tell the difference when her man is wearing a condom and when he isn't, is either not in tune with her own body, or is, ummm, lets see, how do I put this delicately without offending anyone,....maybe she's a little "not as tight as she once was?" To me there is just nothing better than skin on skin contact in that department. I think Doc would agree with me there too.
Mashie