Spankees fight back!!

This post may invite people to disipine me?!!! in anger! but here goes, why should the spankee conform to what the spanker wants? eg i will clench my bottom its a natural thing to do, i will also kick,wriggle,shout,swear stamp my feet put my hands in the way ect and totaly fight it when a hard hairbrush is comming down on your bottom! i will fight it let the spanker work for it i am not going to make it easy for them.and give in submissvly!!!

Nice fight during spanking

So, if you act like this when you're spanked, how do you expect the women you spank to behave during a spanking? Is it acceptable for THEM to fight back against what YOU'RE doing or are they supposed to submit completely to it?

(Checks "Official Rules on BDSM.")

As far as my quick glance at the reference manual, I don't see anywhere that it says the Spankee has to conform to the Spanker. It's only if you want to submit. Personally, I've found that if I fight in the ways that are described, it leads to more spanking, a harder spanking, more painful implements being used to deliver the spanking. So it's all a matter of how much you really want and how much you're going to fight it.

Every person reacts differently to a spanking. The spanker will meet the spankee's reaction with a different action in order to get the desired results that he wants.

It's hard for me to hold still, sometimes I fight and wriggle away, but my spanker is a lot stronger than me, so he always wins 😉

I think it's natural to fight back, when I know I'm going to be spanked or getting spanked I know it's meant to hurt and I earned it, fighting almost always results in a worse spanking only when it's fighting the spanking, trying to cover my butt or wiggle away, a couple times arguing about the fact I was getting spanked, only to be told to stand in the corner and was greeted by the paddle for mouthing off, but wiggling and such is normal. If I'd listened in the first place I wouldn't be getting spanked to start with, wish it worked all the time and I didn't get spanked as often as I do sometimes.

I will sometimes resist, stomp my feet, and yell NO! No Spanking! All this before I submit to a spanking, I think I do this to get my wife to spank me harder & longer! During a spanking I will move away from a standing position or lying down on the bed move away, my wife wants me to have control & stay in position, but I want to be restrained & kept in position, OTK, legs locked by her leg, hand pinned behind my back, etc. She does at times hold my thigh when standing for a spanking to keep me in place! I was also spanked 1 time in the diaper position, wish she would do it again!!

Oh when I get spanked by my female dominant love, I shout ,squeal and wriggle.She's younger,stronger and weighs more than me so i m kicking my legs when over her lap and when she pulls my frilly panties down in front of our kinky friends I'm yelling that

-Your a fat cow.

And of course i get spanked harder and harder and wriggle more which leads to a tearfull climax 😃.

Growing up in the early baby boom yrs---getting spanked or in our case paddled on the bare butt was common--it happened to my friends and of course to my brothers---thru high school. We had great parents but they did paddle and we did not fight back---It was certainly disliked cause it hurt our naked butts---but it was just considered part of a parents 'job' as well as football coach'es----I doubt my friends fought back it would have just been considered wrong----I guess I can not explain---Other children of the 50's/60's will understand----It was like not talking back to your parents or coach