Okay, for all of you and your kinksters and kinkster friends out there, I have an idea.
Now, I can't speak for everyone out there, but I know a lot of us have families, friends, kids, children's who are not up to speed with out kink ways of living and lifestyle. So while you really love the kinky person you are with and want to celebrate the holidays with them and buy them nice kinky gifts, presenting these gifts with so many eyes watching you open gifts, so many family around ect, kids snooping or in my case husband snooping, I am throwing up an idea out to the rest of my kinksters.
How about we all come together, meaning that we put our heads together to come up with a different kink holiday. Totally separate from Christmas or Hanuka or how every you spell that Jewish celebration of the lights. I say we start our own. Can be any day we all want. Maybe the day can have some significant meaning like the death date of Ron Tyler, or something of the like. It can be a party where you and your kinky friends decide to all come together to have wine, share a little food, have some penis or vagina cake. The things could be endless. I am not saying it needs to be come an orgy or anything, just people getting together on a certain date to share stories, have a beverage of your choice and discuss toys that work, don't work, maybe others have ones that have want see first hand for simple things like dimensions of toys, creams, lubes etc.
It would be nice to get some outside companies to help sponsor some of these events for us, meaning that they might be willing to send us some samples, flip cards/chart on some of the mechanics of their devices and what not. Yes, I know that there are trade shows that have these sorts of things, but we need them on a much smaller scale, along the lines of the Mary Kay parties, or Tupperware parties, but with mixed company. Also may I mention again, it isn't an orgi, or should't be anyway, but jsut a group of people being able to get together to share our real thoughts on toys, what we would like to see different and what we alread love.
These parties could go on at any time of the year, but then we could have a set day not all that unlike Christmas, birthdays, sweatiest day or the like that could be set up for us kigsters. Our own special holiday where we could either celebrate together with a few close personal friends who are aware of our kinks, or simply celebrate together with the one we love. Giving us our own special day, away from all the hoopla of the normal holiday with thing are often marked up in price anyways. Which would also mean more private time shipping, less crowds looking over our shoulders wondering what and whom we were buying for especially when the person standing in line behind you happens to be the deacon of your church, or the mother of you sons best friend. Sometimes things like that are a little hard to explain, especially to the deacon of the church lol. Some things could be explained rather easy, like flavored condoms.others maybe not so much, like what sex seen you tow have just been wanting to try for years/
Or, it would be something as simple as the two of you getting together on our "kink holiiday" making the time for some much neded kink to happen. Like on your anniversary, no one thinks twice of getting a sitter to watch the kids then, so who or why would anythihng think of this as being any differeht? And as an added bonus, in the following weeks, it shoud provide the forum with pleanty of reading material for a bit anyway, also provide up members with taking ideas from others and incorporating them into their own a bit.
So, folks, what are your thoughts on having a national kink day. A day we can call our own, a day that belongs ot no other but ourselves? And I know what you have got to be thinking to yourself, "we already have, as far as women are concerned parties like the ones mentioned above. Women get together to eat penis sucker, cake and punch, then the rep gets out her bag of goodies. Everyone of our vanilla Friends are all exacted, while us true kinksters are quite and highly disappointed. What is it? And you can name off every product she has in her case and whether or not it works, works well, or not at all. I have been to a few of these parties, and yes, they can and are fun, but for me, the most fun is watching my vanilla friends discuss the products they see before them and how naughty they are, meanwhile us true kinksters are just sitting back watching and enjoying the show lol. We come away from those parties usually empty handed because whether we are way past what they have to offer and sell us, or the newer products work better with your toys we already own.
So again, I beg the question. What do you guys as a board think about coming up with a "holiday" of our own? A day connected to no other holiday but one that we can make into our own. It would be a time of celebratrion, learning, give given of the "approbriate" gifts without all the hoopla and prying eyes around. And yes, if you feel you must, you may hand up penis or vagina light outside of he house just to give it that special extra kinky feel.
Please send me your thoughts on the topic and let me know what you think. Personally I feel like there are enough of us around here to make it happen. We can all do a little part, we all have so many different talents. I am pretty good at writing cards that would be perfect for the occasion.
So, looking forward to feedback on this. Come on folks, lest give ourselves our own special day. Thoughts please, much, any and all will be grealy appreciated.
Mashie