What does prostate massage feel like?

@Norton I believe that the prostate massage you received was not performed correctly. When done right the pleasure is awesome!!! Really AWESOME!

I just did a self prostate massage with my small g-spot vibrator. I oozed lots of precum swallowing it all. And previously mentioned, while totally soft. I wasn’t soft for the happy ending though.

What Does Prostate Massage Feel Like?

That's like trying to describe what color the number 7 sounds like. It can be ecstatic, mundane, painful, or anything else. When done properly by the right person - for most it feels pretty damn good!!!

Had prostate massage only done by woman in sexual settings. Loved the way the was moving her finger around my anys and then without saying anything sliding finger inside, she had no problem locating my prostate. It felt amazing even though I did not get orgasm but was fully hard and had some discharge from penis. It was her first time performing prostate exam, day before massage she read information about such massage on the internet.

It’s an amazing feeling- really hard to describe. You feel a sense of fullness, a sense of pleasure waves each time a finger/dildo is gently pushed in and out. The best way is when it is inserted and gently pushed back and forth. This brings waves of pleasure to my cock, and all it needs is very gentle touching/stroking to bring me to a hands free massage. I say hands free , because what I love to feel is that as I am reaching orgasm, the gentle cock stroking stops , and I just have a strapon or cock thrusting inside me , bringing me to cum.

From the times I've given my husband a prostate massage, I can say that's as close to complete, sexual euphoria as he can get. The orgasms a man can experience often equals or greatly exceeds sexual intercourse. I've noticed a couple posts here that mentioned the massage wasn't given properly. From experience, I think it has more to do with how a finger is inserted up his rectum. Or perhaps a dildo or toy was used, which I don't recommend for a good prostate massage. Use your finger because you can pinpoint where his gland is, and it's more intimate. It's safer too because you can gauge the amount of pressure to apply one you're inside him. You just can't really do this with a plastic stimulation device.

Before putting a finger inside him, I think it's essential to trim those nails as much as possible. I keep mine around 1/4" anyway because of nursing regulations. It's more intimate not to use an exam glove, but a glove makes your finger glide into the anus much easier and it feels a little more comfortable during the initial penetration. I give him a cleansing enema or two before I do a prostate massage, regardless of a glove or no glove, but you'll definitely want him cleaned out if you don't use a glove for cleanliness sake. The enema also helps to relax the backdoor for penetration. It's best to have him lying on his back with his hips elevated on a large pillow or two, or a folded bedspread or yoga mat. Also, it helps tremendously if you sit between his thighs to keep them apart. This keeps his pelvic floor open, allowing you more direct access to the prostate. It also allows you to suspend his prostate on the movements of the pad of your finger. If it's comfortable for him, pulling his knees back to his chest help a lot too. The more intimately he surrenders his body to you the better.

Never use any kind of lube but water soluble like K-Y or Surgilube. Never use petroleum jelly if you're using a latex glove. You'll find that K-Y with glove helps that finger slide right into him. Your finger shouldn't hurt him the tiniest bit if you use the right amount of lube. It will help to apply pressure at his anus with the pad of your index or middle finger and hold it gently there. Even if he's nervous, you'll feel his external sphincter open, then gently apply a little more pressure. You'll get to a point where the internal sphincter opens and it feels almost as if your finger is drawn the rest of the way in. He'll probably have heavier breathing, getting use to the sensation of being penetrated. It's a big even for a man to let his significant other do this to him, so enjoy the experience with him. You'll want to be about 2" to 2- 1/2" in his rectum.

When he's settled down a little, gently curve your finger upwards so the pad is resting against the rectal wall in the direction of his penis. You'll feel a walnut size soft lump along the rectal wall. When you find it, he'll probably gasp or cry out with ecstasy. He's sensitive there, but if you're gentle it'll feel so good to him. Don't be alarmed if he ejaculates immediately if it's his first couple of times. Just wait a while and start over again. The technique to use on him when he gets over the initial first massage jitters is to rhythmically work your finger in a come hither movement. Not too fast, just once every three or four seconds. If it's done right he'll go over the edge into an orgasmic state......chill bumps......crying (yes men sometimes cry when this happens. An emotional release).....an almost trance like state of euphoria. A prostate orgasm often has nothing to do with stimulation of the penis, but giving him a handjob or blowjob only increases the pleasure.

He'll have an ejaculation at some point right before or during his state of orgasm. He'll need a recovery time, physical, emotional, and mentally to take in what just happened. This is a good time to caress him and talk softly to him about his experience. IMO, prostate massage is a key element in keeping my husband and I happily married. It's also healthy for him to get his prostate manually flushed out with a massage to reduce the chances of getting cancer. I also want to know how he’s doing down there. A prostate massage is a great opportunity to make sure his isn’t swollen or developing lumps. I’m paranoid about him getting prostate cancer because the men on his side of the family seem to get it in their early to mid 50s. I want to help prevent it if I can.

@Nurse_Nikki Excellent post and description of how to give a prostate massage! I can vouch for the technique you described.

For sure @Nurse_Nikki. Prostate massage from my wife surpasses regular penetration sex of any kind when it comes to the euphoria I receive. It is such a level of incredible sensation, I give thanks to my Creator I was born a male each time my sweet wife gives me one. She knows every single inch of my body and without a doubt, when she gives me a prostate massage, I feel we become one person. One body and one soul.

In my case, she always gives me two 3 quart enemas. The enemas set in motion the mental state of complete surrender of my body to her. I open my mind, as well as, my body to every single thing she is doing to me. The sensations of the enemas, and nozzles we use, bring my prostate to a state of excitement and anticipation of what I know is to come. Our enemas are extremely intimate. Lots of deep, long eye contact. Lots of talking. Such as, her asking me how my enemas feel and her telling me what she is going to do to me. She will give me head with a 20” long colon tube fully inserted and enema slowly flowing deep inside me. Or, insert a sound into my cock and let it reach my prostate. Slowly pulling it up and down. This technique massages my prostate from the inside of the gland. A sound inside my cock, an enema inside my body, the colon tube in my ass, her slowly jerking me, brings my prostate into a complete state of readiness for her actual prostate massage.

After my enemas have been expelled, some cuddling, me massaging her and telling her how much I love her and how grateful I am to have such a wonderful woman in my life, she will tell me she wants to get the come out of me. This whole process up till now has, taken at least 2 hours. Two hours of complete surrender of my body to her. I love when she says something like, “I think it’s time we drain the come out of your prostate.” OMG. My body and mind sometimes can’t believe what is happening.

My prostate massage is always given in one of two positions. Either on my back, with me pulling my legs up to my chest, or, on my hands and knees. With her well lubricated index finger, she will slowly play with my asshole. Circling my opening, then dipping her finger in and out of my ass. During my enemas, and especially at this point, I am moaning, sighing (sometimes crying) breathing heavily, mumbling things and thanking her for what she is doing to me.

Then it happens. She inserts her finger, as far as it will go, deep into my ass. When her finger slides over my prostate, she senses my reaction and gently rolls the tip of her finger onto my prostate. Usually at this point, I begin to milk. Milking, for me at least, is a sensation all in itself. Not an orgasm, but a sensation of intense intimacy between myself and my wife. It is totally euphoric in every sense of the word. When it is happening, time stands still. Come will begin to drip, or at times, shoot out of my cock. I have absolutely no control over this. My wife does. And she enjoys it. She loves the fact she has brought me to a place only she knows she can bring me.

When she decides,(and she always knows when) it is time for my orgasm, she will say something like, “ I think it is time you come for me.” At this point, I am an unabashed, unleashed, primal man begging for an orgasm. She will give me head, or jerk me for a few minutes, then she will look me in the eye and say, “ come for me.” This is my cue to grab my cock and start jerking myself off. With her finger held softly in place on my prostate (no movement) I begin to jerk myself to orgasm. Our eyes are glued together as she is saying “go ahead and come.” My God, her smiling sweet face, me jerking off in front of my wife, her finger in my ass on my prostate, it happens. She senses my impending orgasm and withdraws her finger. I erupt into a withering, moaning, convulsing lump of flesh and muscle shooting come all over the place. My mind and body mesh together and push as much come out of me as possible. Euphoria, happiness, no word can really describe it. As I lay there and think about it, I think the word is “gratitude” Gratitude for my wife, to be alive, and to share such an experience together.

Recovery time. I’m a mess and pretty useless for most of the day. I guess it could be referenced to the Lion. I am emotionally and physically drained.

Traditional sex is wonderful. A prostate message, at least for us, takes sex to a higher place.

@Nurse Nikki wow, fantastic posting and technique. Your husband is one lucky guy!!!

@beebe and you are a very lucky guy!!

I once had what I thought was a prostate orgasm, and it was quite spectacular and odd. At least I think that’s what it was? It was with my post high school girlfriend on our first go at sex together; I hadn’t had any for quite some time prior to that night.

My erection started vibrating and quivering violently (out of control)! It was like a hammer speedily pounding in invisible nails! She saw that and said, “I want that!” She grabbed it and immediately stuffed it into herself where it continued for some time. It seemed it would never stop, although it only lasted around forty seconds to a minute, which is an eternity when your erection is doing startling new tricks! I’ve never orgasmed that hard in my life, and it quite impressed her too! Not for lack of trying, we never managed to get it to happen quite like that again.

It usually is something best done slowly; the repetition of - say - a prostate toy back and forth will invoke a built up pressure… almost as if you have to pee. Then, eventually, you will explode in a fountain of fluid of the most watery type. The sensation is amazing. I’m still trying to chase my first one…

I was 13 years old, probing myself in my bedroom with a part from a toy I had lying around… my cock as hard as a rock, exploding all over the place… first time masturbating actually.

IMHO, the best prostate massage can be when you have sex in missionary position and the girl gently inserts her finger into your ass. It's incredible. And doing prostate massage during blowjob is also great. But it's very difficult to find a "special" girl who can do it without prejudice.

Wonderful as it is just like masturbation but pleasure from inside my ass until cant hold back and anal o is taken from me and can be repeated a couple times, wet, warm, wild and still can enjoy at my age

I feel the most intense orgasm during the massage spewing cum a foot in the air. The closest thing to a near death experience.

Wow! @Nurse_Nikki

What an exceptional, thorough description of a prostate massage including not only the actual massage, but also the preparation down to your trimmed nails and gloves versus bare hand both being better than a dildo or buttplug because of the intimacy of the fingers.

Thank you!!

Prostate massage feels so relaxing and satisfying when it's leaks lots of fluids and very yummy 🤤

Wonderful if you're receiving oral with it!😜

Wonderful if you're receiving oral with it!😜

It is wonderful with oral….also wonderful with manual stimulation from your partner….or yourself….or just only with your partners finger(s).

IF it’s done right!!!!!

@Nurse_Nikki Some years have passed since i have read the book "Female ejaculation and the G-spot" from "Deborah Sundahl". What you have described in you post pretty for the massage pretty much sums up the G-spot massage from her book. In there she also states that the female ejaculation fluid is chemically the same as the prostate fluid. Yes, they did some chemical analysis.

As for the trance like state of euphoria. As i have no active helper, i use my inflatable DBD to reach that state. Condom over the inner ballon, Hose clamped down. Inflat the ballon and do some pelvic muscle excercises. It does take some time but omg does this feel amazing.