SPH = small penis humiliation

Was always embarrassed by having a little dick (4 inches fully erect) when I was younger and often dreaded "the reveal" during encounters with women, wondering about their reaction. One was so dissatisfied with my performance she broke out a tape measure to humiliate me.

It led me to mostly frequent sex workers in my 20s. I was a regular at an Asian massage parlor some 35 years ago. The older ladies there often told me I shouldn't be doing this and should find a girlfriend because I'm good-looking. One time I grew tired a lady asking me why I don't have a girlfriend, so I just blurted out "We broke up. She said my dick is too small." fabricating a story just to get her to quit asking. She was extremely sympathetic, telling me my dick isn't small. "Nice ding-dong, like mushroom," she said of the head, which does stand out. She proceeded to tell me this imaginary girlfriend surely wasn't good enough for me and that I should seek a "nice girl." Then she gave me one of the best handjobs I had gotten there as I exploded in a thundering climax in her fist and all over my stomach.

Fast forward to today, several years after a longtime marriage dissolved (not related to me having a small cock), I've learned to compensate by being a fantastic pussy-eater. Two years ago started eating ass and ladies have enjoyed that, too. Still seeing only sex workers, but I'm confident if and when I date again I will thoroughly satisfy the lady.

I think men worry much more about penis size than women do.

Before I was married I had partners who were, shall we say, very well endowed, and some who certainly weren't. It's not what you have, it's what you do with it.

I'm not into sissification/feminization (even though my big sister dressed me up in her girls clothes on several occasions when I was a toddler) but I do jerk off to sph when I'm feeling depressed(which only makes me feel even more depressed so I dont do it often).

I got into sph due to my sister catching me masturbating when I was 12 and a half and she was 16. A few days later she had a sleepover with two friends and since our rooms were right next to each other I overheard her tell them my penis was small before they all laughed hysterically(I posted a more detailed account of this in the "Have you ever been caught masturbating?" thread).

I remember it felt like I had been stabbed in the heart and then I wondered if my mom and other female relatives cared about penis size which made me feel like throwing up. I dont know what they were expecting from me at that age. I would estimate that it was only 4 to 4.5 inches hard back then. Now its 6.5 inches hard but I'm still insecure about it thanks to my sister and all the movies I saw with sph scenes even when I was a boy.

I am only 2 inches hard and one wide. I love humiliation, the best oart is when my wife compares it to her lovers

Mine is maybe two inches soft. I like going to showers at the gym or gay bathhouses. Other people see it and think it's small I'm sure, but in the gay world it marks me as a bottom which really turns me on!

Me and my master (male dom, female sub) have started meeting up with another couple (female switch, male sub) for group sex we call a heaven and hell sandwich. My master has a huge penis and is given as much pleasure as possible all night by us girls. The sub male (bitch boy) has his little dick mocked and is kept in a tiny chastity cage all night. He is forbidden from touching his little dick and is made to assist us two girls in giving the master as much pleasure as possible. We mainly use him to apply lube and to hold us to help us fuck the master in certain positions. All night both girls are worshipping the masters huge cock whilst mocking the little bitch boys tiny one.

We often order a takeaway after sex (the girls and master eat in whilst cuddling naked in bed, bitch boy eats whilst sat in the corner still in chastity and has to serve us by collecting it at the door and getting us anything we need). Last time we decided to humiliate bitch boy by squirting cold mayo all over his little caged cock and making him sit there eating his food with it on, obviously we were mocking him from the bed.

@courtneylouxxx I like the name “Heaven and Hell Sandwich. Well crafted. I also like the way your group play with this couple has 3 levels of hierarchy. One at the top, 2 in the middle, one at the bottom. Fun for everyone.

@Hookajoe The dynamic works really well, makes us two girls competitive too. We‘re competing to serve and pleasure the master but also to be cruel to the sub. It‘s always a challenge to see who can make the master cum the most, last time I won and got his load in my ass. Made bitch boy lick it out and tell us how good it tasted.

@courtneylouxxx I’m glad to hear you have found another way to let him physically participate in your fun get togethers. When SPH is just verbal from a distance it is can become rather dull. Assigning him clean up duties is a great way to engage with him. Cleaning up is a very important step, and I’m sure he is honored to help you in that way. 😉😈

@Hookajoe If you have any more ideas for us to try out feel free to let me know, I love suggestions. Most of the humiliation is done by us two girls but recently master has been more involved.