Enemas and Male Chastity

Hello everyone. I am curious how many other men on this site are involved with male chastity. My wife became the dominant partner in our relationship about five years ago. It was after we had gotten the Internet and began reading erotic stories together. I slowly and as discretely as I could slowly "steered" our searches for stories to sites that contained many Dominant Wife/submissive Hubby type stories. She was intrigued by these stories right away. A common theme in many of these stories was wives who used enemas to keep their husbands "in line" as well as stories about Teasing and Denial. In these stories the dominant wife would be in charge of deciding or "scheduling" when her hubby would be permitted supervised ejaculations.

My wife wanted to try enemas first and so on Saturday nights I would perform oral sex for my wife while I was being given a thorough soapy enema. My wife has some of her strongest orgasms on these nights. Since these nights evolved into her night to receive pleasure I would not be permitted to cum. Since due to our schedules we often only had sex one to two nights a week I would be left waiting to ejaculate until our next love making session. This then led to our making an agreement that I promised not to ever ejaculate by myself. I agreed to let my wife control it. No cheating. And I honestly don't cheat because I felt very guilty after cumming when I was by myself.

These leads us up to the present and we have ordered a chastity cage type device for me to wear with my wife holding the key. I would love to discuss this with other married couples on Yahoo Instant Messenger. My Yahoo ID is : nj_hubby_in_chastity

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My lady often keeps me in chastity and gives me enemas. We both enjoy it quite a bit.

Hi I was in a situation such as yours. I married my first wife when I was 21. I WAS A VIRGIN, SHE WASN'T. SHE LIKED THE IDEA OF ME BEING A VIRGIN. She did not allow me to have sex with her, but she had a good sex life. We decided since she was active she would be allowed to continue in her normal way, but I must remain a virgin till our wedding night. This excited me so I didn't complain. She would never tell me when or with whom she had sex,,,but it was understood that she did. I was not allowed sex or to touch myself. She bought a plastic cage that locked on me. when we married, she didn't allow me vaginal sex at first. We did oral and she masturbated me for the first year. I would give her oral sex and was punished if I didn't do it right. This continued for the first year of our marriage. If it stayed like that we would still be married. but one night when the cage was taken off for me to be masturbated, i pushed her down and jumped on her. She got mad we had a fight about me not respecting her wishes. we got divorced shortly after

I.also can relate to your post. I have had an interest in enemas for quite some time and my wife, although not much into enemas herself has been quite happy to allow me to give myself enemas and she has also sometimes given some to me. We occasionally get a pleasure weekend away from home when we simply indulge ourselves with sexual playtime together and I have often spent some time during these weekends pleasuring her orally while holding enemas. We have also recently purchased some male chastity devices and have started wearing one of these on our getaway weekend so that I spend most of my time insuring she has multiple orgasms and, if I am good enough, she may unlock me and allow me to cum. I can see me wearing my chastity cage more and more in the future. In fact, I am wearing a chastity cage right now as I post this.

Male chastity?

WTF???

@LisaK - I don't understand your WTF response. Just one of many fetishes on Zity.

@LisaK Male chastity is one of the most effective ways to dominate a male.

Locking his cock in a cage and removing his ability to easily touch or play with himself for pleasure puts the ball firmly in his parter's court. His parter chooses if, when and how his penis will be stimulated. The idea is that the male will maintain interest in doing anything they can to please their Mistress or Master and so 'earn' an orgasm. It also works on the premise that males interest levels drop after an orgasm and take time to rebuild. For this reason many people suggest that orgasms should be denied for significant periods to ensure male arousal, and therefore interest levels remain high. This links directly with tie and tease and edging practises.

It is a much more common fetish these days with some practitioners preventing their male from orgasming for extremely long periods.

Hope that fills in some gaps.

My husband and I role play as the dominant partner. He is dominant for two weeks and I am dominant two weeks during my cycle. I always act as the dominant partner when I am with a women. I prefer to dominate men if I can.

I love (and at the same time hate) chastity play. I have a steel cock cage that I regularly wear. Wearing during enemas is fun and can lengthen my ability to retain as once I've orgasmed during an enema I usually just really want to release it afterwards. If I'm in chastity there's no chance of an orgasm but I'm still really aroused so I can retain the enema for longer. Sadly I have no one to hold my key for me at this point in time.