Submission and enemas

The very nature of receiving an enema from another person is submission. The person administering has complete control whether it is in a caring situation or a punishment scenario. A very erotic scene.

I was just ordered to purchase some enema equipment from my new Domme. This includes Colon Tubes, retention nozzles and a 4 qt bag. Our 1st meeting a few weeks a go went well and she brought an old drug store enema bag with a douche nozzle. She enjoys spanking but had never given a punishment enema. She loved it and when I see her next week she will be carrying a ton of equipment from Christine Amelong.

I think I created a monster!

Ahh, good, another newly revived thread here from last prior entry 4.5 years ago. A lot of the older threads still have topics of interest to current members. I've given myself enemas and loved them including all the potentially submissive feelings of being invaded by nozzles and water since being a teen. However a few years later in in my 20's discovered even how much more I get out if it if I'm truly acting as a sub to my Domme wife or GF who is giving me the enema. We're both always switches but both enjoy both roles and would trade frequently. We would have a "normal" equal relationship outside the bedroom or bathroom, but trust each other enough to thoroughly enjoy indulging the others D/s kinks during our enema/sex D/s playing time, reverting to equals again at the end. Which means we can feel and act and talk about being as completely submissive or dominant as we like for the full emotional effect but know it's totally private and only between us.

So as a sub I can willingly submit to her and moan, groan, complain, comment and beg for leniency to feel extremely submissive to her while she's forcing enema(s) into me along with forcing me into enduring our other kinks including rubber, sneakers, restraints and occasional spanking during my enemas. The normal invasion/submission to enemas feelings are even more deliciously magnified as she works her dominant desires onto (and into) me. Our kinks align well, and she knows all of them and that I like her to push my limits frequently with respect to all those kinks especially enemas. So she's in complete control and I never know what she'll put me through but know that a) I'm safe before and after with her and b) I'll get an intense session of enema(s) restrained and dressed in rubber and sneakers. I'm very vocal and love the back and forth discussion while she's domming me, knowing that whatever I beg and complain about will just get me more of the same, as she loves to hear me telling her how submissive and struggling I am to please her, amplify her orgasms, and if I'm lucky, eventually earn my own orgasm after a long session of filling and struggling to hold the enema she's enjoying forcing into me.

Add to this her constant commentary about reminding me what she's doing to me and what I'm going to have to keep enduring, like more and more water, different positions and tasks I need to do to show my submission like giving her orgasms while I'm still full of water and her edging me but never letting me come until much later, she's very good at making me feel and physically endure being as submissive as possible. Not knowing exactly what's coming but that she'll be enjoying every minute of my embarrassment and humiliation with her and do as much as possible to push my kink limits is extremely exciting and rewarding for both. Occasionally she'd even extend it to overnight, making me hold a big enema still dressed in rubber even after my climax, sleeping next to her knowing she can either give me more water or start masturbating me or instruct me to service her anytime during the night. We had many wonderful D/s enemas together, mostly with me as sub, but sometimes indulging her submissive side too and letting me creatively and intensely Dom her with the same kinks. Great memories. More to come I hope.

Eric

First, knee-chest is a very vulnerable position!

Although I self administer in private, i am totally vulnerable during the enema itself

When you go into relax mode and insert that nozzle, there is really nothing protecting you.

The only way to get an effective enema is to totally submit to it. once you crack that valve, YOU ARE NOT IN CHARGE! The enema is in control after that!

I have to agree all the way. To be told by your Domme that you ARE about to get an enema and if she describes what kind (High, Hot & Huge or a warm extra soapy enema) just hearing those words truly gets my attention. If you are to wait for a while before she will administer it only adds to the excitement. Then she would have me strip down to nothing and have me lay down on my stomach. Sometimes a couple dozen spanks with her hand or paddle would "warm" me up. Then she would open her dresser drawer and choose which bag she would like to use at the moment. Usually it is the almost translucent amber latex bag. They are never pre assembled. Part of her enjoyment (and mine too) is to be laying there as she takes the enema bag and accessories out and starts to assemble it in front of me. At times she would think aloud how she is going to prepare the enema and what it will do as it is filling me. She attaches the amber hose to the open top bag then slides the steel pinch clamp onto the hose. Then she would close it making the familiar metallic "click". Then she would choose which nozzle she wants to use. Usually it is either the regular douche or rectal nozzle carefully attaching it to the open end of the hose. With a very sadistic look on her face she carries the bag in one hand and the hose and nozzle in the other and disappears into the bathroom. I lay there all bare feeling the cool breeze on my very exposed buttocks. I hear her moving about in the bathroom, cabinet door opening and slamming. Then the squeak of the faucet opening and the water running. You can hear the bag filling up then the faucet ic once again closed. Then the sound of a plastic cap being opened then snapped shut. Then silence. You hear footsteps grow louder and louder then she appears at the door holding a now bulging full enema bag in her left hand and the hose and nozzle in the right hand. She smiles at me and the look on her face is "oh boy, I am going to make you as uncomfortable as I can in a few minutes with this hot, soapy enema. She walks over to me and hangs the bag on the hook in the wall installed just for holding an enema bag. I look at the nozzle and do not see any fluid dripping from the tip meaning that she did not clear the air from the hose making the enema more gassy. As I lay there, I can smell the peppermint castile soap emanating from the bag. I also look back and see some suds dripping from the top of the bag. Then I hear her open the night stand drawer and she takes out a tube of K-Y jelly and removes the top from it. Then she tells me to look forward and NOT to turn around!!!!. I see her hand pick up the hose and nozzle then nothing else. I hear the top put back on the tube of K-Y then a pair of fingers spread my buttocks apart. Then I feel her finger slightly slide into my tight hole. I jump from the feeling of the cold lube at first. Then I feel the nozzle penetrate my hole and be pushed up as far as it will go. Sometimes she will tease me and move the nozzle in and out a few times. Then I just lay there with the white nozzle deep in me followed by the amber hose leading up to the full enema bag. The only thing keeping back the hot soapy water is the steel pinch clamp. She lets me lay there for what feels like an eternity then I feel her grab the hose then the metallic "CLICK" it sounds like a gun shot and then in the silence of the room I hear a slight gurgle then the sound of water flowing. In a nano second I feel the coolness of the water that was in the hose then the hot jet of water starting to fill me. It hits my prostrate gland and that only adds to the excitement and feeling as I get filled. I am at her complete mercy as to when and if she will stop the flowing enema as I start to cramp. I am completely helpless and can not stop the flow as she is in COMPLETE CONTROL. I know she is totally enjoying this and can just picture the expression on her face as she administers my enema. Now the soapy water is starting to do what it was meant to do, cause cramping. I sak her to slow or stop the flow and she just says NO this is what you need. Between the pressure inside of me and my rock hard cock, I start to get that feeling but do not dare to cum as I will be punished. Finally I hear a faint slurp as the last of the soapy water fills me then I hear the clamp being closed. Then she pinches my buttocks together and removes the nozzle and quickly replaces it with one of her butt plugs. I feel the sharp pain as she pushes it up. Then she makes me turn over on my back then mounts me and I can not cum until she does first.

..........You hear footsteps grow louder and louder then she appears at the door holding a now bulging full enema bag in her left hand and the hose and nozzle in the right hand. She smiles at me and the look on her face is "oh boy, I am going to make you as uncomfortable as I can in a few minutes with this hot, soapy enema. She walks over to me and hangs the bag on the hook in the wall installed just for holding an enema bag. I look at the nozzle and do not see any fluid dripping from the tip meaning that she did not clear the air from the hose making the enema more gassy...............

Stingr,

Exactly. In addition to those thoughts, if she were my Domme ex she'd also probably be telling me some things out loud about her plans for me. Like that the whole point of this exercise is to stimulate HER own arousal and orgasms by making me as submissive and humiliated as possible with the soapy enema and our other kinks she'd make me do along with it (rubber suit, sneakers, restraints). So the more I convince her that she's humiliating me, the better her arousal and (maybe) the faster I'll get it over with (but don't expect any leniency and do expect to be here holding an enema for a long time!). Therefore, the more I squirm around and moan and complain and beg for leniency, the more aroused she gets. She'd love to hear all about how much I'm struggling, too hot and sweaty under my rubber, sneakers too tight, too much enema, please no more, too much cramping, too much belly pressure or distention, holding too long, don't make me change position, don't make me give you PIV while I'm full, you can't humiliate me by telling anyone else you're doing this to me, dear God, don't make me hold this enema all night, etc., etc., etc. Of course, all of which she ignores and does whatever she wants to me (remember what she said above, "Oh boy, I am going to make you as uncomfortable as I can in a few minutes with this hot, soapy enema.") Believe me, she meant it! And no matter how much I squirm and beg, she knows we're both enjoying her dominance and my intense submission.

I gather your Domme is similarly insistent and Dominant! Enjoy yourself.

Eric

I agree with part of it as to waiting for the nozzle to be inserted. After that, I do have some control as I lie on my back while my wife is filling me up. I have control of the latex or silicone hose and I have the hose in my hand and control the flow of the warm/soapy enema filling my guts. I even let her know that I love getting an enema and love her watching me take it. She always say that "she knows" as I tell her every time.

The only part of the enema that is not totally about submission is the retention.

There you have to fight your body's attempts to spontaneously expel. Then it eventually does. You can't do anything but relax and let it happen!

Even the insertion is pretty uncomfortable if you are tense, and certainly if you clench up, you are asking for trouble.

So, enemas are about first surrendering control, then quickly totally submitting.

There are a lot of great posts here that get me hot and hard. I love the feelings of surrender, so intimate a surrender, so invasive and potentially eruptive, blasts of discharge if there are laxatives mixed in, and the submission, the obedience to the will of another who knows how to embarrass and bring blood to the face and distention to the bowels.

It's a glorious form of sexual discovery and celebration.

For me it's laying over mommy's lap getting breastfed in a diaper and rubber pants while receiving an enema. I generally know what daddy or mommy is going to do to based upon who gives me the enema and which type i get. If I receive it from the bag from mommy, then I know its a nice big boy enema. If its from the bag from daddy, its either just a big boy enema or I'm about to receive his cock after I expel. If I receive it with a bulb syringe after being slowly and thoroughly lubricated inside and out, I know, depending upon who gave it to me, I will be receiving daddy's cock or mommy's strap-on.

Of course, I love it from the bag. Because it's so enjoyable to fight a full bag churning away inside me while I slowly drink mommy's milk. I try to be a good boy, but I know must be a bad boy because I can't always fight the enema. But mommy and daddy love me so much that they spank the badness out me.