I am a 37 year old male straight married. I have been using diapers on and off for the past year or so and I find them fun you can say. I don't go number 2 in the diapers I just wet them and wet them only I mainly use in conjunction with wearing a diaper.
Straight Male...Maybe a little Heteroflexible for some things. Married, mid forties. Diaper Lover that has been incredibly aroused by wearing and seeing a female wear and wet for decades.
I am straight myself.First, I also thought that the percentage of gay people was higher in ABDL community, but reading most of these posts, it seems I was wrong.
I'm a straight male so far as I know. However, I do fantasize about being with a transsexual (MTF) and enjoying their cock. When I watch porn, it generally involves guys being with transsexuals. So, I am likely bi-curious.
Mostly straight, but definitely heteroflexible when it comes to diapers. Outside of diapers, I'll occasionally find myself sexually attracted to another guy, but it's pretty rare and usually more about their personality. I can potentially see myself in a relationship with a guy, but I'm more likely to pursue a relationship with a girl.As far as diapers go, I'm much more adventurous. I've never had a partner interested in diaper play, so I can't say for certain what I'd enjoy (or be comfortable with), but I feel like I'd be more comfortable being a sub with a guy. I think I'd prefer being diapered by a guy (probably older, to fill a daddy role), whereas I'd rather be the dominant one if I'm with a girl. Perhaps an older lady could play the mommy role, but I don't think I'd be comfortable having a girl my age change my diapers. I think it's mostly a trust thing; a few bad relationships and now I'm scared of making myself vulnerable to a significant other. Can't think of many things more vulnerable than a diaper change.
@SAP no. It is just that looking at other forums, it looked like there were a lot of gay people on it (more than I see in real life).For me, it doesn't matter which orientation an Abdl person has. Most things I do with ABDL is without a partner anyway.
I'm an occasional wearer of diapers and interested in all things D/L, I would describe myself as heteroflexible or bi. curious...
Straight. I love the idea/fantasy of a sexy young lady wearing nothing but sexy lingerie putting me in a diaper!
Just wondering why people think because you like to wear diapers that makes or that you must be gay. Why would liking to wear diapers making you to be gay?I wear diapers 24/7 for my incontinence, I also enjoy wearing diapers and consider myself a DL. Does that make me gay? Or is it that people want to label me as a gay, bisexual or whatever because I wear and enjoy diapers.Maybe it's because I wear diapers and use them for their intended purposes. SO WHAT if you are gay, straight, bisexual or whatever. If you want to wear diapers then do it! I don't care which way you are. Just do it in a adult reasonable way is all I ask.
I'm straight and love wearing diapers and rubber pants. My own experience has been that most who are DL are straight men. Personally I don't care what one's sexual preference or identification is. We all have at least one thing in common to bring us together-diapers. Also, I've never met a girl who assumed I was gay because I told her I liked to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet myself. I've always made it clear I really enjoy have sex with girls while wearing diapers.
I'm gay but will say the majority of diaper people are male.its just very common with guys, including younger people too.more of the male gender predominantly displays an interest in wearing diapers.
Male, gay.DL (well, sort of - main goal is not wearing diapers, but achieve "urinary incontinence" to the biggest extent, possible for initially healthy person), and a bit of AB (not full-fledged kink, but as submissive person, being aroused by certain elements of it).
I’m bi and love wearing diapers, I’m sure my sub sissy side is what attracted me to keep wearing past my initial humiliation introduction to them. Amanda always likes to introduce something new to our dynamic/lifestyle. She decided last January that I was to wear them to bed, well little did she or myself know it would become a permanent change.
I'm straight, adore women and femininity, and love using nappies. The feeling of a soft bulky nappy is wonderful, and makes me feel secure, even though I'm not incontinent.
I’ve been involved with the diaper community since the 1970s. It was an underground fetish and very difficult to find. It was nearly 100% gay, as kink was still taboo and mainstream straight people were mostly unwilling to realize their fetishes. As new generations matured, that began to change. But with the Internet, all taboos finally broke down. I was involved with the earliest chat rooms via IRC (internet relay chat) and asfd (alt.sex.fetish.diapers). That was my first contact with straight diaper users. Mostly men but some women and a combination of both incontinent and fetish diaper users. Some ambitious reading is “Everybody Lies,” a 2017 book by Seth Stephen’s-Davidowitz. The author uncovers the power of collecting digital search data, which reveals regression and the use of diapers to be one of the largest search topics worldwide.