I want to tell others about my diapers

I want others to know I wear diapers. In the hot weather all I have on is a diaper and plastic pants. I do not cover up when people come to the house.

Well, that is your wish. If you're not harming anyone then do it.

Lately my urges for wearing diapers have gone up. i want to wear them most of the day now. also i reallly want to tell someone (female friend) but i dont know who. sigh

Many of my online friends know of my love for diapers and stuffed animals. My family has known of my diaper fetish for at least 26 years. Stevie

Well I'm incontinent. So it's impossible to hide it at work . Took a lot of bs from. So I ranted on fb that I told my friends about it. They were very accepting of and thought I was were wearing diapers.

I am incontinent also ,look at it this way the more people you tell the fewer that will have questions about diapers .my friends appreciate and respect my diapers as things that protect there property . It all works out in the end .

I think most all of us--on some level--wish or fantasize about this, but for most of us it's just not practical. Especially those of us who only wear them for fun and don't have an underlying medical issue that requires us to wear them. Also having kids complicates this even further!

There are lots of people here who very much believe that one should keep one's kinks at home and to one's self. That's part of my "deal" with my wife--that I can wear my diapers whenever I want to when I'm around her, but it's nobody else's business.

I also don't think that my friends need to know about it, either--though in the past I have had one or two that knew, they were mostly fascinated by this as a kink and were curious about "Do you wet them? Do you poop them? What do you do while wearing them?" etc. One former male roommate even said "I don't care if you wear them around the apartment" but I never did. I'm straight, so was he, it just seemed too weird to do--like walking around in my jockey shorts or something.

Now I have, in the past, had some fun going out diapered, without going to a lot of trouble to hide my diapers, running errands and such and enjoying when some occasional woman will notice and have that look of amused disbelief--but these were all people that I'll never see again. That's not the same thing as having it be friends / family.

The only two other people whom I told were a former girlfriend and my wife (before I married her). The former girlfriend later "came out" as a lesbian. I've often thought that every lesbian in my home town has probably heard all about me and my diapers. LOL.

But, to each his/her own. If you want to tell people, have at it. Just think through all the possible consequences first.

At this point in my life, only my wife knows. However, if anyone else discovered I wore diapers I'd simply lie to them by telling them I suffer incontinence as a result of prostate cancer surgery. I believe that would end the conversation (at least any possible judgement); and, I'd not have any reason to explain I'm a DL and derive great pleasure from wearing diapers and pissing in them all day long. A little white lie that does no harm is not a mortal sin.

My love of diapers has been of only tangential interest to most people over the last 50 years or so.

I really only expose my diaper wearing to girls/women. Every woman to whom I have exposed my love of diapers to

has been supportive or at least neutral in their responses.

I have one female friend who is completely supportive, and even tells her friends about my diaper wearing.

None of it matters.

Wearing diapers is neither illegal nor immoral.

I'll bet that deep down, most of us would love to come clean with our diaper urges to at least one person, or perhaps a few people. As diaperpailpat said though, we need to think through the possible consequences. The fear that those could be quite negative keeps us from going there.

I would truly love to share my love of diapers and plastic pants with others, but I believe this would cause more problems for me than I want, so for now it stays between me and all of you!

Stay diapered my friends.

Due to working from home my diaper wearing has increased and my wife content in knowing but no else knows. I'd love to go out shopping while wearing a diaper but I wouldn't want anyone else knowing.

You can go out shopping in your diapers, just wear them under your clothes and depending on how daring you are, you can make them more / less obvious by choosing how thick your diapers and how tight your pants are. For example, I've gone out in mine wearing very tight sweatpants and it's obvious to anyone who looks that I have on bulky, usually wet, drooping diapers. But with them under my clothes, it's not like I'm flaunting it. You can also wear a shirt that hangs low and covers most of them up (this also gives you the option of making them more obvious by lifting up your shirt or tucking it into your sweatpants if you dare).

Same thing in the summer with wearing shorts. I actually have one pair of athletic "mesh" shorts (with those little holes to allow "breathing" to keep you cool) that I removed the liner from and with those on (especially over a pair of colorful babyish plastic pants) it's even more obvious.

One thing - the first few times you go out wearing your diapers, you'll likely be extremely self-conscious about it and think that everybody knows. I mean, the first time I ever did this--I was probably about 20 years old--it was nighttime, it was in the late fall, I had on loose jeans and a low-hanging overcoat on. There's no way anybody could have known that I was wearing diapers. Still, I was nervous and paranoid and felt like it was completely obvious--like I was standing next to a big bright flashing neon sign with an arrow pointing to me and the sign said "HE'S WEARING DIAPERS!!!!"

But the more you do it and realize that most people pay no attention to you, that you can control how obvious you are, etc. you get to where you can do it without thinking about it much.

Careful who you tell and make sure they understand the wishes you express for diaper wearing. Things can get really messed up if people do not understand your special likes. I have seen many complicated situations with folks coming out with their diaper fetish. Even to the point of violence from non understanding people.

Numerous years ago we had a couple friends from our group that got targeted for a beating. This was simply for the membership they had in our group of friends. Both folks loved the adult baby end of the fetish and dressed accordingly. A group invaded their home and assaulted them with what they think were baseball bats. They both died in the emergency later that night from their injuries.

Please be careful, there are a lot of stupid people out there that don't understand this wonderful fetish life.

Tell your friends one by one before hand.

So whats the issue? If you are comfortable with who and what you are; and do not care about the reactions of friends, family and the vanilla world...then just do it.

If you chose to receal all. then be prepared to defend your lifestyle amid accusations of child abuser and pervert. Main stream society is vanilla and not ready for the culture shock...ARE YOU READY???

Sharing with others that you wear diapers is so liberating! I speak from personal experience, and I wonder if there are others here who can also share the same sentiment. It is incredibly satisfying to no longer have to worry about hiding it when you're around friends, coworkers, or family members who know that you wear diapers. It's also a relief to no longer have to hide your diaper stash at home. I can only see advantages in being open about it!

@eddyj hit the nail on the head in my opinion. My incontinence and my love of wearing diapers isn't everybody's business. If I want to share it I will.

I have shared with all of you Zity members. I'm not ashamed of it in no way shape or form. I don't think everybody needs to know.

In fact I meet up with a Zity friend and we simply talked about each other's experiences. It was a great time and just talking about it was great.

In fact when the meeting was over, I believe we both felt good about it and wanting to do it again. To this day we still keep in touch once in awhile.

What makes it even better is when I left the meeting, I was definitely sure that what was said would stay between us. To this day I still believe that.

It was definitely worth time and travel to do this. Our situation wasn't exactly the same, but we still connected for the most part. With all the stigma in today's world, it felt good to share with a non judging person. To this day I wouldn't call them just a Zity friend, but a true friend. Thank you friend!!

In my opinion only tell someone if it adds to your relationships with that person (your partner for example). If it doesn’t, then why take the risk of that person telling it to people that don’t need to know. Also it isn’t wrong to be in diapers and also not wrong to tell anyone, but our world still isn’t ready when it comes to accepting certain things. If it gives you a lot of negative reactions that would be a shame. You can never turn that back …

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