Womans first exam

Ladies what was the first thing you remember thinking about when you had your first medical exam?

Mine was I was terrified. I wasn't told what was going to happen, just what to do.

The relax and breathe sign on the ceiling

I was panicked that I would forget to shave. When I was there, I just kept thinking "just do it and get out of me." I think he was asking me stupid questions about vacations, etc., to keep me preoccupied but I didn't answer anything.

I was made to feel very awkward and my doctor made me feel like she could care less about my health or really about anything other than getting in and getting out.

I was very afraid at first, but as I started to take my clothes off I was surprised that I began to felt sexy and liked it a lot

I was terrified, and couldn't believe this was really happening to me.

I remember my doctor (he was a guy) telling me a dirty joke, about a homeless on a park bench and a lady...blah blah blah, and I thought that it was totally inappropriate to tell me this while examining my insides...what a jerk!

I was scared....relax relax i must of heard that 50000 times

I was scared to death! the doctor helped me relax though, and now i trust her with my life.

I was so nervous about my first exam. so my mom take me with her to her doctor. it was so embaressement

I was terrified and extremely embarressed...

It was awful since I being examined for not being able to go on intercourse. The doctor was a real jerk, and he could not put the speculum in, and then put his fingers and said that I had I real problem because of a narrow vagine chanel, and that I NEVER would be able to have SEXUAL PLEASURE but, anyway, I would always have to do it and think about my male partner´s necessities...Do you believe this??

Turns that I had a rigid hymen, which was surgically removed by, off course, another doctor, and then a vaginism because of the all trauma, but finally some years later I was able to slowly get regular until the complete satisfaction. And I´m not that narrow afterwards!!

Now I have a female doctor. But, even after this, I don´t think that´s a gender issue. My playdoctor is my husband, the most gentil man I ever meet.

Being very nervous and scared, plus totally embarrassed. and so surprised at just how thorough and personal it was.

Sitting on the exam table waiting for the doctor to come in and not knowing exactly what to expect. I was very nervous, but also a bit excited.

Fear. I had no idea what was going to happen just the horror stories that i was making up in my head.

I was terrified. i had never had anything inserted into my vagina before and i knew it would hurt

My first thoughts were; " Will I die of embarrassment? " and " I wonder if it will hurt?"

My first thoughts were how odd to be touched in a non-sexual way but to be spread wide, with everything right at eye level. Very strange indeed ... but I wasn't afraid or a bit shy. Just intrigued.

I was fifteen during my first exam and I had no idea what to expect. I had chosen a Doctor at random from the local phone book and he turned out to be an older man with a small office.

I was so young and so naive as well as scared! He was very through and spent quite a long time examining and palpating my large firm breasts and then, spent an equally long time on the Gyno exam. No nurse was in the room at the time, either. I just didn't know what to expect!

Heather, Portland, OR and Los Angles, CA

I was very nervous and the doctor (my mother's gynecologist) was a real asshole. >😢

All I recall was that I had NO choice: I wanted a Diaphragm! I was first having sex (age 1😎 so a female friend took me to Planned Parenthood. I had to take a Valium someone gave me; there was no Xanax back then (ok now I'm showing my age LOL)

I recall that I kept closing my legs, no matter how many times the Nurse Practitioner said to let my knees fall open. It was as if they had a mind of their own. Finally, my female friend who had been holding my hand helped to hold my left leg down and then I found it easier to allow the right one to relax. Talk about humiliating. It wasn't at all a sexually stimulating experience for me.....wasted fun LOL.

The other part that stands out was when she had me insert the diaphragm into myself in front of her and my friend to see that I had the idea of how to do it. I had three fingers inside myself as I stood in a semi-squatting position, pushing the thingie in. I thought it was in right so the N.P then had to feel inside to made sure it was against my pubic bone. All this while my friend watched.

When I think back on it and right this....wow....what a turn no, but at the time....NOT SO MUCH!!!

-blissy

I remember being nervous.. but also very excited at the same time, because my friends were talking about their experiences and I was curious about how it actually was. When I was in the doctor's office for the first time, I was anxious waiting.. and wanted it to get started. I undressed and then the doctor came in. I will always remember the first time that I was asked to scoot down to the bottom of the table and to spread my legs.. wider wider.. for him right before he spread my labia apart..

I was very scared about my first. I was quite young and having problem with periods so that was also scary and other then mum saying she will look at privates had no clue what was going on.

But she was really nice and took time so was not a completely bad experience

I was at school and I had to stand there topless with 19 other girls waiting to be examined. I wished a big hole would swallow me up.

Horribly nervous, went to get birthcontrol and was shaking. fortunatly the doctor was female and really tried to make it as relazing as possible

I was absolutely petrified. He did all of the preliminaries and then said he was going to pull the gown, one that opened in back, down for my breast exam. I had tied it so tight that the nurse had to work on it for few seconds to get it untied. When she did the doctor pulled it down and I almost died when I saw it go down past my breasts exposing them.

I was a little nervous but not too bad at my first exam. It was a very little bit exciting, too. I had been examined before, but never with a speculum and in the stirrups, so that was novel for me. It hurt a bit, but the pain was kind of pleasurable as I think back on it now.