Ladies was your first Rectal/Anal experience at doctors or in your personal life

For my wife, her first anal penetration was by me, a gloved and well lubricated finger, before we were married. For a while, it was only a finger, and not very often. Then she had her first rectovaginal/rectal exam by our doctor during a physical. It happened to be the first time I had attended one of her physicals. Shortly after witnessing that exam, she let me give her anal sex. Now we include ass play during sex sessions quite often, and during play exams a rectal exam is always included, for both of us.

She has only ever used a gloved and well lubricated finger to penetrate me for a rectal exam during a play exam, or to stimulate my prostate while performing fellatio on me. It feels incredibly good, especially while I'm coming. I have fantasized about her using a dildo or vibrator to stimulate my prostate, and lately even having her peg me with a strapon. But I don't know if I'll ever be ready to take that next step. I know she would be willing to try.

My first rectal experience was at a doctors office when I was 10 or 11. He had me laying on my side, with my pants and panties around my ankles when he put a finger in my butt. I was so embarrassed about the whole thing.

My first and only time trying anal sex was when I was 16, my boyfriend would sometime slide his finger into my ass when we’d have sex and he said why don’t we try anal. So I rolled over onto my stomach and he started to slide his cock back and forth between my butt cheeks. He put some lube on his cock and stuck the head into my ass, it hurt so bad that I thought I was gonna pass out. He kept sliding it in and out of my ass several times before I told him that I couldn’t take it anymore.

Ccm93: Do you recall the reason why this examination ?

I really had to think about this. I am pretty sure I was examined by my gynecologist and pretty sure she fingeared my rump. But nothing that triggered a response.

The sexual anal was a bit rough. The guy who I dated in college was an older upper class and. And he told me if i wanted to date him he would be my master and blah blah blah...you know the drill of idiots that think they know shit.

I was a little late getting to his place so my punishment was being bent over the back of the sofa. My pants roughly yanked down and a hard dry penetration.

Man that hurt. Brought tears to my eyes. But he didn't last long. It was quick.

I did learn that if I was going to run late I should take time and lube up some deep.

But I learned to really enjoy giving and receiving good deep anal with my next partner. She was good at these things.

I was a little late getting to his place so my punishment was being bent over the back of the sofa. My pants roughly yanked down and a hard dry penetration.

Man that hurt. Brought tears to my eyes. But he didn't last long. It was quick.

Ouch master or not I am not letting anyone take my anus dry.

Seeking male perspective does not hurt your cock forcing it in dry?

Glad your next knew how to treat your bum.

@molliewhite - Back in the seventies, my wife and I occasionally stayed with friends in another town on the weekends. Their downstairs bathroom off the master bedroom had a linen closet, tub, and a large full shower. The two upstairs bedrooms had a bathroom between them with access to both bedrooms and the hall way. The upstairs bathroom was equipped exactly as the master bathroom downstairs with a linen closet, tub, and a large full shower.

The first time we stayed overnight at their house, one summer weekend, my wife and I got real horney and went up to bed early, skipped our shower, so we could get into bed and take care of each other’s needs. We both as a rule slepted nude, and that night was no different. Once in bed things got real hot and heavy, and one thing lead to the next, and after having vaginal intercourse several times my wife wanted anal intercourse, because she is as anal erotic as I am.

At home before we have anal intercourse, we give each other an enema, I lube her anus with my index finger, she lubes my anus with her index finger, then I put on a prelubed condom. This wasn’t possible that night, because we didn’t have lube, our enema bag, nor any prelubed condoms. We had both seen our friends enema bag hanging in their master bathroom shower, but were both chicken to go ask, if we could use it. We decided to give it a try anyway, because, I was still slick from our previous vaginal intercourse sessions, and I was able to insert my penis in her anus without difficulty. However, things started to go wrong pretty quickly. The lube leftover from our vaginal intercourse didn’t last long, and it started to hurt my penis a little as I moved in her anus. Then she started to complained that her anus was getting sore. Unfortunately, in the heat of the moment, we didn’t stop soon enough.

The next morning when we woke up, I had a sore penis and she had a sore anus. We got out of bed and washed up, put on our bath robes and went down to breakfast, walking kind of funny. When we got to the kitchen, our friends ask, before we even got to the table, what we had been doing the night before and why we were walking funny, now realizing we been over heard, we told them what had happen.

After breakfast our friends wife said, “I want to show you something upstairs.” We followed her upstairs into the bathroom and she opened the linen closet door. The linen closet had all the normal things you find in a linen closet, plus two enema bags, lube, and a box of prelubed condoms. My wife and I looked at each other as our friend apologized for not showing us the linen closet the evening before. I just couldn’t resist asking her, why they had equipped their upstairs bathroom linen closet that way. She said that, something similar had happened to them, and they didn’t want it to happen to any of their friends that stayed overnight, therefore, the box of condoms, lube, and two enema bags... one for each bedroom.

After we took a shower and while getting dressed, we saw hooks on the wall in the right places for giving enemas on the beds. We checked the other bedroom and found hooks there as well for giving enemas on the beds. Over the years we spent many weekends with them, even after we had kids. To this day I miss the weekends we spend with them, because the four of us had many good times together.

My pediatrician examined my anus each year, which was profoundly embarrassing (and exciting) but never anything penetrative. My first experience with penetration in my bottom was with my friend when we were young teens. She made it also very very embarrassing but so wonderful and gentle and arousing. She had me reciprocate which was a first for me as well.

@GraceT This is cute and gentle and certainly not a rude awakening like those who experienced it from a physician!

I appreciate this original question was aimed at the ladies but whenever I hear of some guy having anal with a female partner 'dry' it makes me quite angry. Inconsiderate bastard & I can't imagine 'no lube' being pleasurable for him either. I certainly wouldn't want to try it. Please don't tell me there are women out there who like it that way?

My first anal experience like ever ever was at the doctors office for my first obgyn appt. While I was in the stirrups and after he did the digital vaginal exam he let me know he would be doing a rectal exam as well. I was very young and shocked that that had to happen and maybe mumbled ok because before I knew it he was pushing a finger up there and pressing on my belly at the same time. It was extremely uncomfortable, bordering on painful because I couldn’t relax.

I ended up moving and switching doctors but I’ve never had another obgyn examine my rectum so I always wonder about that.

As a kid I used to try and find things I could stick in my anus. I used to pretend someone was giving me a rectal temperature.

The first experience with someone else was in the ER when I was 23 and the doctor thought I had appendicitis. He told me he was going to do a digital exam but it was over very fast. That’s still the only time I’ve ever had any type of rectal exam from a doctor.