Gays and Enemas

Of course they do. I'm bi, and wouldn't think of letting anyone penetrate me if I were dirty up there. It could be VERY embarrassing and nasty. I learned this the hard way when I was young and was at the Baths. By the way, I'm totally bi sexual. I was playing with a guy and things got very hot and heavy, as they say. I'm sub with men, and he bent me over, and started to fuck me vigorously. We both realized right away that his cock was getting covered in my excrement (I really don't like being so graphic when it comes to this subject, but it's really called for here, I think), and, although he fucked me wonderfully and we both enjoyed it, it took away from what should have been a totally extraordinary experience. I learned a good lesson that day.

I would be way too embarrassed to not have had a good enema before anal sex. It sounds too gross for me to think anyone would like that.

Just in case, I always clean out before being sexual with another guy

I've never done enemas before anal sex, not in years. Never been a poop problem. However, if someone has to go, would be a good idea to do a quick enema, just the rectum. Probably the choice of who is doing whom and what they want. I'm not scat, but I have a really filthy mind!

I always take at least two enemas before I have anal sex. And yes, I'm interested in giving any male - gay, straight or bi - an enema. I've given many men enemas and also been the recipient on many occasions.

Hey, I always do an enema, 2qt before I have any kind of sex with guys

If you are close I would love to give you a series of enemas.

You don't need a full enema. Just a good douching is all you need. That will prevent any little accidents and smells.

I never do any kind of butt stuff without a good douche first.

Now if you're going to take a fist up to the elbow, yeah, you want a full enema.

You don't need a full enema. Just a good douching is all you need. That will prevent any little accidents and smells.

In fact, a large-volume enema can cause exactly the opposite of what you’re trying to achieve. You get things moving in the transverse and ascending colon. So it will take a while until you’re ready.

Your rectum should be empty unless you haven’t had a bowel movement in a while. So no enema required before anal sex! You can do a quick rinse with a bulb syringe if that makes you more comfortable and relaxed.

New here but would love a enema from a guy!

As has been noted you often don't have to have an enema to receive anal sex, whether you're gay or not. If you pay attention to your body you can get a feel for how it works, and how much cleaning is needed to prevent embarassing incidents.

Enemas can be fun, though, so whether or not you NEED them you might want to bring them into your play.

On your second question,

Would a straight or bi-sexual male be interested in giving a gay male enemas?

Possibly, depends on the person. Some gay guys might not be interested no matter how hot they find you. I'd probably be willing as long as we set boundaries first. That and if you were willing to give one to me as well 😉

According to studies done in the last five years, a majority of men in the US who have RAI (receptive anal intercourse) with other men douche before sex. That typically means rinsing out the rectum rather than a full blown enema. I almost always rinse out with a bulb syringe or a few brief squirts from a shower shot before sex. I never do a real enema before sex unless it is to relieve constipation. The key is to avoid getting the water beyond the sigmoid colon and triggering the mass peristalsis that unloads the colon.

Being an enema enthusiast, I would give a man or woman an enema before anal sex if they wanted one. But as others have said, an anal flushing of the rectum is sufficient if you are not penetrating beyond the rectum. Doing enemas that go well up into the colon would best be done an hour or two before so that the person can fully expel the enema before the anal sex starts.

Overall it is best to clean the playground before the play begins.

I've never had anal sex with another man, BUT I love deep anal play beyond my rectum, usually on my own but often with my wife's help. I love my wife to deeply fist me, fuck me anally with 12 inches of a huge double dong, or pound my butt with a long fat dildo in her strap on harness. I have no doubt that I would really enjoy swinging bisexually with another couple if she would agree to try it once. She might be coming around. She doesn't get mad anymore when I bring it up.

I almost always get ready for deep anal play beyond the rectum with 60 to 90 minutes of deep colon cleaning. This is very pleasurable in itself. I resist the urge to masturbate. My clean out routine consists of at least 4 enemas with a gallon bag of just hot water followed immediately with a 5-minute tub expulsion using various body positions, external abdominal pressure, and abdominal massage. Most of the gallon bag (and whatever it brings along) comes out with each expulsion. I get very empty. My waistline drops 2 or 3 inches. The fourth and any following expulsions are nearly clear. After the final gallon bag, I do a very thorough, 15-minute expulsion to get almost all the water out. Then I insert a butt plug and wait 20 minutes or so to let my colon absorb whatever water I was unable to expel.

When I remove the butt plug, I'm ready for deep, clean and dry anal play with no worries about making a mess. The cleaning process totally relaxes me, and puts me into an intensely horny state, especially anally. My ass gets hungry for something really big and long inside. Either I or my wife almost always give my horny ass exactly what it wants.

My wife and I just discovered a new kind (for us) of deep anal play that we both really enjoy. She gets me ready to fuck her by pushing into me my SNCMAX3 enema nozzle, which varies from 3 to 2.5 inches in diameter over its 12-inch length. As I fuck her, my hip movements produce sensations from my rectum, prostate, inner sphincter, and lower sigmoid that are so intense that I have to fight the whole time to hold back so she can cum her usual 2 or 3 times before I cum. She senses my intense arousal, which makes her cum quickly and violently. When I let go, I absolutely explode and she always cums again with me. Fun!

I'm gay and I enjoy anal play — being on the receiving end of anal sex, toy play, and fisting. I always give myself an enema before having sex. Sometimes it's just a few ounces of water, enough to flush out my rectum. Sometimes it will involve more water, enough to clean out my sigmoid colon. This takes a few flushes and more time on the toilet.

If I have enough time, I will do a large-volume enema session in which I'll flush out my whole colon with at about 3 quarts of water, usually four to six times until the water that comes out is clear. The process takes me about 90 minutes to 2 hours, and ideally there will be at least 30 more minutes before sexual activity (to make sure any remaining water has a chance to come out or get absorbed). It's worth the trouble though, because I like to be 100% confident that we won't encounter any stinky brown mess during sex. The sex is more enjoyable without the anxiety of worrying that an accident could happen. Although I probably wouldn't go through all the trouble if I didn't get some enjoyment out of the enema process.

After a thorough flush I'm good to go for at least 24 hours (often 48 hours). If my guy wants to fuck again the next morning, no worries. For a few years I dated a guy who lived in a different city and we'd only get to visit each other on weekends. I would prepare for a visit with a thorough enema session so that we could fuck spontaneously at any time during the weekend.

I've always been pretty private about my enema regimen and assume that my sex partners don't want to hear about it. I've never incorporated the enema process into the sexual encounter, or done an enema with another guy, although I'm open to the idea of it.

As far as I know, gay guys typically do use enemas before anal sex, but don't routinely share the process with others unless they're into it in a kinky way. And it doesn't seem to be a very common or widespread kink.

I'm interested in giving anyone an enema, societal labels be damned. Being gay doesn't affect the pleasures I derive by giving someone an enema series. All that matters is that my partner looks forward to his/her enema series and enjoys the ride of erotica.

I think if you are an enema enthusiast, then receiving or giving an enema transcends sexual orientation. What is important is the two people are totally into enemas and want to share the experience with someone who likes doing them as much as they do.

So I could give/receive an enema from either a man or woman. I met another zity member once and they were into enemas as much as I am. That meeting was so cool to be able to talk and yes give enemas to that person who was totally into enemas. It is rare when that happens, but the thrill of sharing an enema fetish with someone who is likeminded is so exciting.

I grew up with a kid who was openly gay from the time he was 10 or so. His parents thought he would GROW OUT OF IT, but the last time I saw Ronny, He was very much Gay at 50. Being exposed to him a lot during my teen years, he offered himself to me frequently, and I continuously turned him down. One night we were cruising around, drinking beer and the conversation, of course, went to sex. Being teens, it seems it's all we talked about. Ronny volunteered to have sex with all of us. There were 5 of us in the car. We quickly found a good spot and Ronny started making his rounds. I was just drunk enough that I thought "what the hell", so when my turn came I got in the back seat, and immediately got back out. I just couldn't stand the smell. For some strange reason, Ronny didn't take enemas. No particular reason, as I found out later, he just didn't, and hadn't thought of it. So I introduced him to the pleasures you can attain, and at the same time get a good clean out. He is, as of the last time we talked, a staunch advocate. He told me sometime after that, that many of his gay friends don't take enemas. Go figure.

neologism wrote:

I'm gay and I enjoy anal play — being on the receiving end of anal sex, toy play, and fisting. I always give myself an enema before having sex. Sometimes it's just a few ounces of water..., Sometimes ... enough to clean out my sigmoid colon. ... I will do a large-volume enema session in which I'll flush out my whole colon with at about 3 quarts of water...

....As far as I know, gay guys typically do use enemas before anal sex, but don't routinely share the process with others unless they're into it in a kinky way. And it doesn't seem to be a very common or widespread kink.

Thanks, neologism, for the authoritative word on this. I'm surprised it's unusual for gay guys to share enema stories or help each other with enemas. I thought in the pre-HIV days during the heyday of gay bath houses, guys liked to give each other enemas. I guess they mainly did their enemas in private and then came out into group areas to play.

Buttwoman who is bi and enjoys anal sex exclusively has a very similar method of using enemas before sex, (frequent small enemas and occasional full colon clean outs.) To her, enemas are more a means to good anal sex, than an end in themselves, although she does have some good enema stories.

I’m gay. I’m the submissive/bottom in the relationship and my boyfriend helps me with my enemas before we have sex. Although we’re very close and he wouldn’t judge me I’d be super embarrassed if he found any shit up there. So he always has me lay over his lap as he inserts the liquid into my rectum.

I can answer the ‘straight male giving another male enemas’ part. No a straight male does NOT want to give another man enemas! I (we) have no desire to do anything sexual with men... hence the definition of ‘straight.’

Nor would i ever want to receive one from a male. From a female or solo is my only choices.

Most certainly, unless dirty sex is the plan. I started anal sex at age 13, my buddy was 13 also. we did not know anything but dirty ass fucking, and that was very hot, all a part of the "forbidden" thing. Later I learned about enemas, and LOVE giving them to my partner and making that part of the sex play, especially putting them on the toilet to chew on my nipples while I punch them in the stomach, POW!! Since then I have enjoyed dirty sex under certain circumstances, i.e. LOTS of nasty taboo chat. If you enjoy trading voluntary early experiences (ANY kind, any gender) as above, please let me know here or on Skype, houttbud. Also, if you enjoy trading HRD nipple work, lemme know.

I always have an enema, or series of enemas before anal sex. For one, I really enjoy a good enema. For another, I need to be clean and empty before anal sex of any kind, whether by myself or with my friend. The whole experience is that much more enjoyable!

For the longest time they really weren't for sexual pleasure if I was going to fuck somebody or vice versa we'd take a shower together and clean each other out

Not always here when it comes to this but it really makes the experience better for both sides i feel.