Pleasurable Rectal Exams

I had a very attractive primary care physician. I looked forward to my annual physical, which included genital and rectal exams. The exam started with me fully clothed. When the head, chest, and belly exams were finished she told me to take off my pants and underwear, sit on the exam table, and place a paper sheet on my lap. Then she left the room. That's when things became most enjoyable. I liked sitting my bare butt on the exam table. She would knock and come into the exam room with a chaperone, always female, usually a medical assistant. After checking my legs, feet, and reflexes she would sit down on a stool and instructed me to stand up in front of her, handing the paper sheet to the chaperone, who would use it to block her view of my intimate anatomy. The last time I saw her however, I inadvertently placed the sheet on the exam table so that the chaperone had a full view of my examination, but nobody said anything about it. She then proceeded to examine my penis and testicles and check for hernia. Then I would turn around and bend over the exam table and she would Lube up her finger and insert it into my rectum. I still get a little thrill to remember that the chaperone was watching my anal penetration.

Later that night a friend came over for dinner and a movie and I told her about my exam. She had seen me naked on several occasions while sunbathing, so I asked her if she had ever felt a prostate gland and she said no and I asked her if she would like to feel mine and she said yes she would love to. So I brought her a glove and some lube, dropped my pants and underwear, and bent over the coffee table. I told her how to find my prostate. She kept her finger in there way longer than the doctor had and felt my little walnut through my rectal wall, finally pulling her finger out after a couple of minutes. Then she thanked for the anatomy lesson.

Have not had a real one yet.

The play exams have all been very gentle and arousing.

I know that I've posted here before, but I guess I'm fortunate that my doctor is gentle when he does my DRE's. The sensation of his finger pressing against my prostate usually results in me getting an erection.

I had a prostrate exam at the urologist office a couple years ago. He was so fast in and out I barely knew it happened. It was actually disappointing. I don't know what knowledge he could have gained from it. Cleanup took longer.

I’ve often wondered if rectals are pleasurable for women. Had a few, pretty sure I got hard.

My wife and I both enjoy ass play, penetration, fingers, toys and anal sex. It’s pleasurable. Can’t say the same when I see a doctor and get a DRE, it’s clinical separate from our sex play. So I can’t say a real doctors rectal exam is pleasurable, and none have been uncomfortable. I guess it’s the enviroment, mindset, and reason someone is sticking something up my butt as to whether it’s pleasurable or not.

My only rectal exam was over 10 years ago.

It was for prostate cancer (which I thankfully didn't have). Since then, the exam has been done with a simple blood test.

Yet, I still remember that exam vividly

. It was my female doctor who asked me to bend over deeply.

Looking back, I still find that arousing, but certainly not at the time. I felt embarrassed.

Especially when she probably pressed on my bladder, giving me a very strong feeling that I needed to pee. Simply embarrassing.

That exam should be painless, but I still felt a slight pain

And although it probably didn't last long, I still felt like she had her finger(s?) inside me for an eternity.

I haven't had a rectal exam in many years, but I'd enjoy one!

I often get a thrill when the prostate is hit, but it is usually very brief. I have had others where I doubt that they even reached the prostate, and I have had a few, usually the first time a new doctor or my urologist does one. They are always deep and thorough, and I feel almost like I will either urinate or ejaculate. Only once was expressing fluid been the actual goal, but they usually cause a reaction. (Bit of prostate fluid/pre-cum on the head, not necessarily "dripping.")

I was apprehensive before my first rectal exam. My doctor was a petite asian woman in her 30s. The moment she started touching me, I relaxed a little. It was so gentle, almost sensual. When she inserted her finger, it did feel uncomfortable. Once it was in, it felt good. I felt myself getting hard and had to control myself. I used to fantasize about her doing more.

Yes, my boyfriend sometimes loves to deeply finger me anally with lots of warm oil (calling them regular anal oil checks). Starts with stroking and massaging the butt crack with the warm oil, followed by circling, fingering and teasing the anus and slowly going deeper and deeper, alternating it with clitoral fingering and massages. It's heaven! I am left moaning

I like the picture you paint @Aura1

I like the picture you paint @Aura1

Thank you 😃

Hemorrhoids are not pleasurable. When the rectal exam is being done to check out hemorrhoids, it's most certainly not pleasurable.

I can’t say that I have ever had a bad rectal exam. Some of them were a bit rough and fast but some others have been the opposite. My urologist a younger female, took her time sweeping back and forth across my prostate with a lot of pressure. Twisting her finger as I bent over the exam table. It was far from unpleasant

I’ve had a play session once that involved some prostate play experimenting. It really just wasn’t enjoyable though. I can’t tell if it was just a bad experience with this person or what. I leaked a little fluid but this appeared to be a purely biological reaction to force being applied to my prostate. No feeling of “pleasure” as I’ve previously experienced.

I had a prostate exam by a female PA a year or so ago. She was very gentle, spending a lot of time applying lube around my anus before plunging in. The external “prep” was relaxing and I could say enjoyable. Maybe for both of us!

It would be nice if more doctors spent some time spreading the lube around the anus and slowly inserting their finger instead of going on at "ramming speed"!

My first one when I was a teenager. She had me lie on my side and because my complaint was general rectal pain she was very thorough. She inserted slowly and circled her finger quite gently all around my rectum. When she got to the prostate she spent quite a bit of time palpating it and I had to concentrate to avoid orgasming on the table. I left an embarrassingly large wet spot on the table where my penis had laid which she absolutely saw.

Hemorrhoids are not pleasurable. When the rectal exam is being done to check out hemorrhoids, it's most certainly not pleasurable.

I had some rubber banded a few years back. That procedure was..... and interesting experience to say the least.

A vacuum tube was inserted in my anus, and the hemorrhoid was sucked into the tube, before the rubber band was pushed over it. This felt so weird!

When I got back home, the irritating feeling of an urge to expel began. I could really feel the tension in my colon, which, at the time, was kind of hard to bear. Thankfully some Paracetamol took the edges off of it.

What remains until now, is, that when I have to go #2, the urge just suddenly hits me, very strong. It used to be more gradual, allowing me to hold it back quite easily if I wasn't near a toilet. Now, I need to plank hard. I am sure it's because some tissue was pulled in by the rubber bands, and expelled after it died off. For some reason, the sensitivity has remained.

I can recall one or two rectal exams that may have been “gentle” or caring. One in particular was in association with a diagnosis for appendicitis and I was in considerable pain and discomfort at the time. The doctor was very concerned, very careful and very gentle at the time, even reassuring me he would go slow. The roughness with the way my current primary care physician executes a rectal exam is becoming more intolerable and certainly a cause to consider changing.

Not a real rectal exam but play ones yes especially when brought to orgasm

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In the past 25 years, I've had at least eight rectal exams, the last three being with a female urologist, who sadly retired as of December 2025, and all of the exams have been mostly pleasurable.

In 1985, when I was 27 years old, I saw the movie Fletch, starring Chevy Chase. In spite of Chevy’s negative rectal-exam experience portrayed in the movie, I very much looked forward to the day when I would have a digital rectal exam, but, alas, I would have to wait another 15 years, until I started having problems with hemorrhoids. For the record, I do not recommend getting hemorrhoids just so you can have a digital rectal examination. It is much easier and less painful to just tell your doctor that you would like to have your prostate gland checked.

With the hemorrhoid issues, I got several digital rectal exams, but when the doctor roots around the anus checking hemorrhoids and slipping rubber bands on hemorrhoids to squeeze them to death, literally, it’s not so pleasurable, unless you are into severe pain in the butt.

If you are really into severe pain in the butt, I highly recommend getting hemorrhoids, conveniently and readily available on Amazon. Wait, scratch the acquisition of hemorrhoids at Amazon.com. I think the proper and preferred way to develop hemorrhoids is as follows: Eat little to no fiber and lots of junk food and fast food, resulting in convenient and constant constipation. Avoid enemas and suppositories at all costs, although enemas are virtually free once you have the equipment. Strain and push and then strain and push some more to have every bowel movement. After each bowel movement, strain and push and then strain and push some more, just in case there might be another bowel movement. Repeat the exercise in futility once, or, better yet, twice, after each bowel movement, maybe even thrice.

If you really like and really want more pain in the butt, read the next paragraph.

If you play your cards and constipation correctly, you could end up needing a hemorrhoidectomy and in the six-week recovery, you will become intimately and acutely and painfully aware of the true meaning of pain in the butt. After most surgeries, you can reduce or eliminate pain by resting or avoiding the use of that part of your anatomy upon which the surgeon operated. For example, after my rotator-cuff surgery, I could reduce the pain by resting or not using my rotator cuff to reach high above my head for something on the top shelf in the master closet. Similarly, after my carpel-tunnel-release surgeries, I could reduce the pain by resting or not using my wrists to type at the computer or not lifting 40-pounds of grocery bags. The same works well with all my back and neck surgeries and fusions and other surgeries.

Unfortunately, this strategy does not apply so well after the hemorrhoidectomy. Just try no using that part of your anatomy, your anus, and that’s not the planet Uranus, for six weeks or for just one week or even for one day or try three times a day. The surgeon will load you up with an incredibly massive concoction of stool softeners and laxatives that will make you poop loose, watery stools three times a day. The loose, watery stools are there for one important reason: The surgeon does not want you straining and tearing out the stitches and ruining her or his beautiful cosmetic surgery that made your anus look twice as attractive as it did before surgery. However, even with all the stool softeners and laxatives on board, and even you if you can avoid straining, which you can’t, the bowel-movement-exit process is going to kill you—three times a day—thanks to the incredibly massive concoction of stool softeners and laxatives. Every time you poop—three times a day—it feels like you are ripping and tearing yourself a new butthole from your toenails to your tonsils. Did I mention that you repeat the ordeal three times a day?

“Take a warm sitz bath afterwards,” the well-meaning, deranged nurse told you. “It’ll relieve the pain.”

“It’ll relieve the pain, my ass!!” you should have huffed indignantly. Or perhaps, “Up yours!!” would have been more to the point.

But I digress.

After the hemorrhoidectomy, I looked forward to and enjoyed every digital rectal exam. I even stayed up late the night before every exam, studying diligently so I would do well on the exam.

And I’ve noticed something odd every time a doctor does a DRE. The doctor always apologizes for having to stick a finger up my caboose, as if the DRE is something dreadful to be avoided at all costs. Are you kidding doc? I see several instruments and objects in this room that I would love to have you shove up my heinie. After all, I am paying for the appointment, right? Why not take this brief appointment and turn it into a comprehensive or extended appointment? You get more moolah; I get more fun!! You get a five-star review; I get five stars up the wazoo!”

Everybody wins!

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I've had quite a few: some with doctors. The best ones were with a massage therapist who gave me prostate treatment weekly. I didn't have any sort of orgasm, but she made me feel much better. And I am completely confident and comfortable having someone do this for me.

I had pleasurable rectal exams and in fact most recent ones was for a pelvic floor treatment and I did enjoy it and every time I get a hard on.

I had pleasurable rectal exams and in fact most recent ones was for a pelvic floor treatment and I did enjoy it and every time I get a hard on.

Pelvic floor therapy, particularly with a female therapist, sounds like a great deal of fun.

Pelvic floor therapy, particularly with a female therapist, sounds like a great deal of fun.

It is disturbing when it happens but thinking about it in my alone time after gives me some great orgasms!