Shaving and submission

I would love to be naughty and have to lie down and have my pubic hair shaved and be spanked for been so naughty

If I act like a child, then I'm made to look like one down there, plus I'm usually given a spanking in addition to the shaving.

A swift paddling, a through shave and a large enema. It makes me submit everytime

I have shaved myself before but have also been shaved by dominate not necessarily as punishment but as a reminder who was in charge. One time my legs were raised and I was spanked for squirming during a shaving

I prefer to be hairless and my partner likes me to get waxed completely. Also he knows it is painful and that is part of the pleasure for him.

Loved having my wives submit to a full shave in past,but love the smoothness of a wax. Now have a wax heater and love to wax her every 4-6 weeks.

A long long time ago, in a Galaxy far far away now, I had an "Encounter" with the "Friend of a Friend" who was visiting for a short while. As things would have it back then, the encounter became very sexual!! At first when she invited me to stay with her that first evening although there was no "intent" for things to turn to "Sex," they did!! At first when we were lying in bed she was wearing a robe and after a while, she "parted' the seams and allowed me to "roam." 'Touching her "lips" I noticed and said, "You Shaved!" She said "No, I have 'Alopatia' (Spelling???). (A condition where the fast growing cells in your body (like hair) don't) She was as smooth as silk down there!!!! This was several years before ladies' shaving, Brazilian waxing and all became "Popular" so you might imagine my "delight!!"

Just smiles!!!......,

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My wife prefers to shave / wax everything. I actually like her to keep just a little patch or landing strip. She keeps a little patch in front but waxes everything underneath and back. She like the smoother feel and sex is better for her like that. I agree. I do a little manscaping but I don't shave everything off. She says she likes me to look like a man.

I shave all my pubic and anal hair about twice a week. I wear silk thongs and the feeling of silk on my shaved cock and balls is very erotic. I get erections just walking around in my thongs. My wife likes me shaved and powdered so her hands run smoothly over my cock and balls.

I used to shave but moved on to waxing a while back. I have a friendly female who does it for me at her salon. I notice that in other topics people talk about getting erect when examined. I don't get an erection but find that sometimes I start to leak precum. This is dealt with by discreetly being handed a tissue which in some ways is rather disappointing!! No doubt if it was met with anything else the reputation of the salon might be at risk. The feeling of being smooth is really good although eventually it starts to get a little rough when the hair starts to come back through. I have it done every five weeks . How frequently do others wax?

I've been getting waxes for a while and I have to say, it really isn't as bad as people think! For ladies - just make sure you don't go a week before your period as skin is more sensitive then (unless you like that extra dose of pain). Otherwise it's very manageable. Nothing beats the feeling of freshly-waxed lady parts!

Shaving and waxing have NOTHING to do with being submissive if you want to be hairless.

Shaving is only submissive if you DON'T want to do it.

I second Susie's train of thought. While forced shaving can be part of being submissive, by itself, it's nothing more than a personal preference. Just because you see someone with shaved genitals (or more), don't assume that they're submissive.

I recently started growing. I was told to. After years of shaving, I am growing and do not necessarily like it. That is being more submissive than shaving just because.

@kinkytanya Thanks for an interesting observation on requiring a sub to *not* shave/wax and how the sub can perceive it as enhanced submission. Very interesting and informative, appreciate your sharing. I can see how being requiring a submissive who has been hairless to experience the discomfort of hair stubble growing back and the extra effort required to maintain excellent hygiene with hair now in the equation as a new degree of control.

Well not sure what I am yet but I do shave because it just feels right and good.. maybe if someone told me not to I would have to think about it.

I have posted on other threads regarding shaving. Yes it means different things to different people. Yes it can be interpreted as being submissive if that is what you want it to be.

BUT for me it is just nice to have clean smooth healthy skin- I had laser hair removal from the shoulders down to my feet. I love the look of having no hair- it completely reveals your body. I love the feeling of climbing into bed and feeling my skin on clean 400 count sheets. I love the feeling of my body on my wife's body without the interference of hair- skin on skin is so sexy and feels great. I feel my body is super clean when I shower and wash my skin.

So shaving and submission can be associated. But for me it doesn't apply. I am certainly not submissive sexually. I just love the look of being smooth and what it feels like.

Shaving has become somewhat the norm these days. I do not view this act as much of a submissive gesture anymore, however, I do require my subs to be hairless. Years ago, shaving was such a new deal that I would shave only one side of her genital area. This served to humiliate and create a very submissive situation having this grown woman with her pubic hair clear around over her anus to be bald on one side and grown out on the other. She admitted that it kept her really off balance and quite worried that someone might see her that way. It bothered her so much that I kept her that way for quite awhile. I know that her hope was that as she sought to please me as a sub, that I would one day reward her efforts and shave her completely. This was quite the psychological edge I had with her and we both got a lot of D/s fun out of her perplexity over this.. I even think I got an erotic kick out of the look myself

I go through phases where I shave and don't shave. Sir requires me to be shaved, so I am. I was extremely nervous the first time he checked to see how well I did.

I like wielding the razor. It is very intimate to shave the nether regions and then the legs.

I always shave myself for a role play medical exam, especially the genital and anal area. It's very exciting when the Doctor explicitly require it.

When I was the submissive my dom shaved me that was one of his things he like to groom me.

Now that I'm the dom sometimes I shaved my submissive my self. I expect them to be ready if I don't though.

Some good rules of thumb is of course no pubic hair no hair on the face a short haircut. And any other shaving that you like to do.

For a regular, more clinical, non-sexual exam, however the patient chooses to present herself is, of course, fine with me.

For a more BDSM-focused exam, I may issue the patient specific instructions regarding her pubic hair (trimmed, shaved, landing strip, etc.). As we move into the pelvic portion, the patient's work and compliance with my instructions will be evaluated, and this provides another opportunity for the use of rewards & corrective measures. If I am working with a nurse/assistant, I also like to have her shave or clean-up/touch-up the patient while I work on her elsewhere or get prepped for the next phase of the exam.

Years back I spent a sizeable amount to have my wife lasered from her neck down....it was the best investment ever. While there is still a little hair from time to time that gets cleaned up with a razor.....the bulk of her skin remains hairless. She loves it! Best investment ever. I should have done it for myself too

I've a long overdue caning coming in September. It's something that should have happened last month but had to be postponed. My punisher requires me to be smooth back and front and has instructed me to remain in that state until we meet in September. I have to send photographs every two weeks (holding a piece of paper with a message I am given a couple days earlier written on it) to prove I am appropriately shaved.

There is no need to think submissively to really like shaving. I keep everything neatly with the actual penis shaved. This is a super appearance for my wife and me