This used to be a huge issue for me.
Before Doc and I decided to try the heavier side of Dom/sub, and when I say heavy, I mean for us, shaving was never thought of really.
One day when he was driving down to see me, the plan was that he would stop, spend the night someplace, get some sleep, then pick me up later in the day. I worked third shift then. Well, I had been working a lot, time was running short and I figured I would go home, get a few hours of sleep myself, then get up and get shaved. Because up until then, I always had everything nice and shaved for him.
Well, he decided to drive straight through that trip, and to be honest with you, I don't ever shave my legs or anything else for that matter unless I am going to see him. I have no reason to actually, I wear scrubs all day everyday, no one sees my legs, lol.
So anyway, it had been a good long 2 months at least. When I found out he was driving straight through, panic struck. And I actually told him about it and my feelings. His reply way, "Sweetie, I'm a doctor, I see hairy legs everyday, hair doesn't bother me." At that point there really wasn't much I could do about it anyway, but it still bothered me.
When we later got to the hotel, I took a shower, and he came in and told me NOT to shave, he would take care of it later. I didn't quite understand what he meant, but later on, he did in fact take care of it. He shaved my legs for me, that was a first for us.
Now I gotta tell you, him shaving my legs for the first few minutes was an odd feeling, but as I watched him, his delicate nature of holding the razor, almost like a surgeon holding a scalpel actually, the way he was caressing my leg, wow! It was very intimate for both of us and remains one of our favorite things to do to date. And he has not knicked me once, lol.
And this is where the story takes a bit of a turn, lol. About a week later, after we were both home and he had had some time to process the things we did, he sent me a text message telling me that he didn't want me shaving my legs again. He loved it very much, and that he considered shaving my legs as "his job". I agreed. However, I didn't know what I was agreeing to.
A month or so later I had to go to the doctor for something. So sort of jokingly I asked him if I could shave my legs for my doctors appointment, he said "no". We ended up having a huge discussion about it, and I mean huge.
Long story short, I do not shave my legs anymore, he won that argument. Needless to say, once I did shave my legs without his permission, I didn't get spanked like I thought I would have, and probably should have, instead when he saw my shaved legs, I saw the hurt on his face, and in his eyes. Trust me when I tell you, that hurt me more than any spanking ever would have. I will never do that again.
And to answer the question, I love that I can be that submissive to him. Love it!
Mashie