The need to have an accident

Is it unnatural to crave the feelings of loosing control and using one's nappy?

Not unnatural at all - it's a wonderful feeling to just let it happen without any control in the diaper/nappy. Comfort, safe, and secure, and such a release when it happens.

Yes the thought of loosing control that is until it gets hot out. Sometimes when put on a diaper it just happnes, that is I wet with little to no effort.

If it was unnatural to crave for loss of control, I suppose the use of a diaper would be somewhat wasted. I love the feeling of warmth spreading in my nappy when wetting. I have also experienced pooping my nappy, but find the mess a bit revolting.

My solution is fake pooping using a slush-filled condom "plug", feels like the real thing, but no mess, and can be repeated endlessly by pushing it back in for new use.

Saves on the diaper bill too. But the loss of control excitement is not quite the same.

I love that lose of control and feeling of helplessness while wearing diapers. Being locked into a diaper and feeling like i'm going to lose control and poop my diapers at any minute.

Regarding loosing control.

I find if I am wearing Pads or pullupsI find myself Peeing with out control. 😳

But if I do not have them on I am OK for most of the day..

I think it is something to do with the brain that says it is OK when to pee or not?? 😄

I think it's pretty normal. All part of the experience, I guess.

Wear loose fitting clothing over your diaper. I prefer what is called "warm-up" pants in the XXX large size, and a long pullover style shirt. If you go out in public dressed like that, your diaper will be concealed, and people will think you're just overweight.

I don't think so.

It is far more arousing when loosing control is in the hands of someone else (a nurse etc) who won't ridicule you. But of course if loosing control is accidental or self inflicted it is still ok.

My fantasy is a medical scenario where nappies are used as part of the nursing regime. Full bowels and/or full bladders cause the inevitable accidents as do the administration of stimulants.

In order to realize the need to have an accident you should swallow 2 oz castor oil, this early in the morning, not having breakfasted: In no case you will be able to hold back when the urge will begin.

I don't know if this is exactly what you're asking, but I tried some loss-of-control hypnosis and, while I haven't exactly lost any control I couldn't get back, voiding is a lot more pleasant now. I used to have a hell of a time using the toilet for anything and a bit less of a hell of a time using diapers. Now, because I've used loss-of-control hypnosis while using diapers, I can void quite easily while wearing diapers (although voiding in the toilet is still just as tough and probably will remain so).

Unnatural? maybe, to crave the feelings?? For me the loss of control is just that out of my control. Like the difference of being touched by someone else or touching my self. If I am wearing and take a laxative or enema or suppository and hold on until I have a accident, loosing control is the best feeling. It is like an orgasm but much better..

Not in the least. Its a wonderful feeling. Nothing else quite like it...

"The need to have an accident Is it unnatural to crave the feelings of loosing control and using one's nappy?"

I suppose the question is 'does one want to feel desperate to the point of having an accident'?

I remember as a young child - maybe 5 or 6 year old - needing to poop while playing out. Being too interested in playing than going home I would put off the inevitable until it was too late. Of course, once my bowel movement had started I simply stooped and filled my pants. Many times I would go home with a lump in the seat of my pants.

Nowadays I use a laxative to induce a state of desperation at a time of my choosing or simply wait until I am too full. In the later case my bowel control is so good I can put off the inevitable for a very long time. (It is a well known fact that a body subjected to extreme stress shuts down the pee/poo need.)

I suppose my craving is for an anus stretching movement such as when using a laxative to cure a dose of constipation when one can't help but help one's bowel spasms by bearing down. Heaven for me is that sort of nappy/diaper poop in public.

I think a lot of people love the feeling of helplessly losing control. Me? Well, I prefer being naughty and doing it on purpose. But both are perfectly natural.

Of course it's unnatural, but that's half the fun, doing something so taboo (but harmless) that most people would think you're deranged. It's just so naughty! But if I can have so much enjoyment doing something so reviled, then I don't really care. In fact, while writing this post, my suppository finally kicked in, and I just made an almost-uncontrollable massive mess in my diaper. The feeling is so intense, and it feels so good.

I do not think it is unnatural to want to fill your pants if you are wearing a diaper and rubber pants to start with,I am incontinent as most know that have looked at my profile,so the question I ask myself is when will I poop them and will I know it at the time,not all the times I have filled my pants did I know it was happening and never found out till after the fact..but a few times I have found this out while it was happening and the only reason that I knew at the time is because I have wore them for a long time now and have fully excepted them,I check my diapers (discreetly of course)

a lot..and when I do find that I am loading my pants,a feeling of being back in my babyhood years where I filled my diapers everywhere I went and in front of whoever was there comes to mind..most times it was my mother and it to me is a very nice memory always,and now that I wear what a baby wears everyday..and when that memory fades the adult diapered baby thoughts kick in..and I am in no way ashamed or embarrassed that it is happening..my shower is never to far away and if it happens while I am not home and in front of some women while talking to her in some social setting.. it is a part of my life now..but I have also been caught by many women pooping and wetting in my diapers..most all have been mothers both young and older that have little ones in diapers and plastic pants at home,and they seem to always know when they are filling their pants..by the facial expressions they give off..well I was caught the very same way..seems I give off those near same expressions as well..although I did not know that at the time till one day I asked the women how she knew I was going potty in my pants..met a great friend that day..we still to this day are good friends

No it is not unnatural to love filling ones diaper. This is what a diaper is for anyway.

I love having the freedom to go potty in my diaper no matter the circumstances. No longer do I participate In the per dance, I go whenever I need to.

Pooping is also done in my diaper, I love the feeling of this warm mushy poo adding extra weight to my diaper. And again the freedom to do it.

Having just yesterday had another No 2 accident whilst out I will say the feeling when walking back home was very nice and I could understand why people actually enjoy the feeling.

What I did notice was the PUL pants did not contain the smell this time even though I did not have any leaks and of course 10 minutes earlier I had put on a clean nappy so I was not a happy nappy wearer and the "cleanup" was awful leaving that slight stinky nappy smell in my clothes, had to wash everything.

I bow to all Bowel incontinent persons who have to deal with this problem on a daily basis.

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A be graceful this fetish of having an accident in your diaper is not illegal.... so embrace the beauty of loading your nappy.

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This is something completely new to me but having having had a couple of accidents recently when I’ve messed my diaper unintentionally I find myself suddenly and unexpectedly quite turned on by the thought of it happening again. I’m really not sure how to interpret this sudden change and what to do about it as I hate having to clean up after having an accident....

Having had a couple of accidents recently when I’ve messed my diaper unintentionally Il. I’m really not sure how to interpret this sudden change and what to do about it as I hate having to clean up after having an accident....[/quote]

As I'm urinary incontinent only, l have awakened to have messed myself three times in a months time overnight lately. I hate messing my diaper and have no idea why or what is causing this. Maybe its a sign of getting older. I have no desire to intentionally mess my diaper.

"The need to have an accident Is it unnatural to crave the feelings of loosing control and using one's nappy?"

I suppose the question is 'does one want to feel desperate to the point of having an accident'?

Yeah, I do want to feel desperate to the point of having an accident. I don't know if it's "unnatural" or not but it's not like a feeling I just "created". It seemed to come naturally out of my childhood behaviors. Because like Nappiednow said I, I was potty trained but even after that when I was older I used to hate going poop or pee when I was a kid. I really didn't want to use the potty and would do everything I could to not go have to stop what I was doing to go for a poo, waiting for ages until of course couldn't control my need anymore and I'd stop and poop my pants. Going home with a big bulge in my pants or a big wet spot on the front of my jeans happened a lot.

I didn't usually do it on purpose at the time but something about the building desperation, the waiting for ages and trying so hard not to have to go, and then the loss of control as I filled my pants I guess hooked me into doing it on purpose for fun later.

So it might be "unusual" or "odd" to feel that need to "have an accident" but I guess it's hard for me to say it's unnatural because it's almost like a feeling that has always been there for me and not really something I consciously decided on.

I used to wet my pants often.........I always found it hot.... But I wear a diaper and plastic pants 24-7 now....Dan