Safe breath control idea

Here's an idea I had (not tried yet - no partner ATM) about an pretty safe form of breath control. Actually it appeals more than traditional brealth play to me, as it is much more intimate and embodies the phychology of dominant/submissive play perfectly. To me (I think I read this idea somewhere but I can't remember where), the beauty of this type of play is that the submissive is always in absolute control, but voluntarily relinquishes that control to the dominant partner. At any point the sub can reassert control with a single (safe)word. The fact that (s)he chooses not to do so is one of the most intimate and precious gifts anybody can give.

Anyhow, my idea is that the dom commands the sub not to breathe unless she is breathing his breath (genders fit my own orientation for convenience). The sub must hold her breath until the dom breathes out into her mouth, allowing her to inhale. She may or may not be forbidden from exhaling unless into the mouth of the dom. This idea grew out of the "breath sharing" tantric kiss, which I find absolutely fascinating.

Just a note to add that for me this is much more about trust than about denial. It is the dom's responsibility to almost literally breathe for the sub while simultaneouly pleasuring her. I find this giving/accepting of trust incredibly erotic.

Enough jong people died from breath play in France and Belgium , think safety before .

Some members can have a misunderstanding about " how to do " or because bad translation .

Like a colleg write with reason : " Play Safe " and enjoy .

Sorry - didn't think about the possiblity of mistranslation when I posted this. If you think I shouldn't have posted it feel free to remove it, or ask me to do so.

Just in case I didn't make it clear - there is NO mask, bag, holding nose or mouth closed or any restriction of breathing at all involved in this idea. It is NOTtraditional breath play. The sub simply chooses to hold their breath. If they want to stop all they have to do is start breathing again. Even when the dom is sharing breath with them, if they want to stop they simply start breathing through their nose and close their mouth.

Apollo,

I don't see a problem with your post at all, in fact I think it's a very good alternative to the methods that are used. I would think the worst that could happen is one or the other would pass out, and then you start breathing again normal anyway. Actually sounds very erotic.

maybe314

Defignately a much safer way to practice this fetish and adds abit of a twist as well.

Anything tied or leashed can lead to big problems if not done in a controlled situation

So a simple hand over the mouth and nose or around the throat while maintaining eye contact

Is about the only other safe way that I know of .. Kudos on the idea though..