Masturbate to Orgasm without Erection

I'm getting towards 60 and can't have a full erection any longer, so this is the only way for me to have some fun.

A few of the orgasms have been really, really nice--ten or fifteen seconds after I cum, an equally intense burst of feeling emerges (with no fluid).

As a teen, I read (in a fairly reliable primer on sex, for adolescent boys) that a lot of guys can have an orgasm without an erection, if they use thumb and forefinger to massage the frenulum, which for many is the most sensitive area. I gave it a try, with surprisingly intense success, and sometimes use the same approach, even now.

I'm lucky in not having any trouble getting erections, but the sensations from stimulating the frenulum directly, rather than in the lengthwise sliding or friction involved in penetrations and hand jobs, are different and very intense, and the orgasms are often sweet and intense, too, frequently accompanied by an electric sensation on my hips.

Coming this way is also tailor-made for those times when one needs a climax soonest and waiting until you get home doesn't feel like an option. The procedure is pretty much silent (perfect for a restroom stall without alerting anyone else who enters the facility), and there's little risk of making a mess, given that you can aim exactly.

Combining frenulum massage with prostate massage (NOT in a restroom...) has produced some of the most intense climaxes I've ever had. Your mileage may vary, but it's definitely worth a try.

After recent TURP and radiation treatment, I was happy to discover the depth of orgasm feelings that occur now without ejaculation - as many posts have described here. The ability to do this with or without an erection is nice. I prefer working up the erection (helps to maintain the circulatory system) but sometimes it just won't happen...

Time to repeat this from 4 years ago -

Erections, orgasm and ejaculations are three separate events that frequently happen in concert, but don't have to.

I just stumbled upon this thread because this happened to me. I was completely flaccid and nothing I was doing was getting it up--including my gf sucking it, trying to fuck it. I wanted an orgasm badly, because who doesn't, so I told her to suck on it and get it wet. I then vigorously started jacking off. My penis stayed in this flaccid state and it was a pathetic sight to see. However, I started feeling a climb towards climax happening so I didn't stop. However, there was not one flinch in my 2-inch flaccid penis or indication that it would grow. Soon enough, I had an orgasm, absolutely completely flaccid. My cum was pure clear and had no sticky consistency to it--literally a water. Obviously, I am bewildered so I found this thread. After reading all that, note that I have been doing meth which all my friends tell me meth sex is phenomenal. It lasts forever and the orgasm is outerworldly. Why couldn't I even get hard--YET ejaculated a substance seemingly void of sperm. I've looked many places and could not find anything like this. To humor your confusion, I'll drive it home: I yanked up and down on a flaccid 2 inch penis that didn't flinch until it ejaculated water. PS--the orgasm was okay, not the best, but was a different animal than the ones I'm used to. Any thoughts?

I just stumbled upon this thread because this happened to me. I was completely flaccid and nothing I was doing was getting it up

I hate that when it gets that idea in its head that it is not going to grow no matter what. You need to show that little bugger who is boss and not have sex for at least three days as punishment. After that It will be begging your forgiveness for its nonsensical defiance.

As for the orgasm without erection - never did that? I have cum without erection.... was not even thinking about sex, just a random glitch, very rare, and it was not pleasant.

Here’s a way I can masturbate anytime I want with a totally flaccid penis. Check out these images.

Images>Feminization and Cross-Dressing>Feminization>Taping and Stuffing

My penis is stuffed into itself and into the abdominal cavity behind its base. Only the top of my penis head is visible. My balls are stuffed into their abdominal cavities too, and everything is taped up securely to almost totally flatten out my pubes. Cross-dressers use this technique or a similar method called taping and tucking to totally flatten out their pubes so they can wear clothes or swimsuits that are skin tight in the crotch and still look feminine down there. I just do it for fun and to cum a lot.

I leave a small hole in the tape over the center of my penis head where my urethra ends. This lets me pee through the tape so I can stay taped up all day if I want. I’ve gone as long as 36 hours. I find it highly arousing to be taped, and I can use a vibrator to masturbate hands free without a trace of an erection, (and hardly a trace of my penis.) One day I had six wonderful orgasms while taped up—all of them hands free with a vibrator and no penis in sight. The easiest way for me to cum while taped is to straddle a Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator (final two images) so the vibrator head presses firmly into my taint just below the top of my penis head. I was amazed when I discovered how easily and how frequently I could cum this way.

Yes. - last night.

If I'm able to cum hands free from just anal stimulation, such as fucking myself with a suction cup dildo or butt plug, it's almost always without an erection. I have noticed that it's a body orgasm more than a penis-focused orgasm, particularly if the anal stimulation is with a long enough dildo to penetrate a few inches past my inner sphincter.

If I give up on hands free masturbation and start using my hands during a primarily anal masturbation, I'm still limp. The orgasm is just as satisfying, maybe more satisfying than masturbating with an erection.

A couple of times when totally limp, I've pressed the head of my penis straight down to make it telescope into itself and disappear into my body. I then pressed the head of my Hitachi Magic Wand hard into to place where my penis disappeared inside me and flipped the switch. That's a fun way to masturbate.

All though, I have had multiple orgasms with out ejaculation “edging”, it has always happened when I am hard. I think it's like a pump, the pump has to start working prior to actually pumping anything. Sometimes I can see my cock throbbing as the “pump” is working in concert. I've had such strong orgasms that I loose all interest in finishing. For me, I can't see having an orgasm with out an erection as it will be hard by the time I have an orgasm. So now, I'm going to go and try this without a hard-on and we will see what cum's of this.

I dabble with e-stim and have brought myself to orgasm while flaccid. With e-stim, I don't get erect but fooling with the settings on my device, I have brought myself to several, really powerful orgasms. It's actually a turn on for me to shoot a load while soft! It doesn't happen every time, actually it's quite rare, and all the “stars have to be aligned”, but I think that's why I enjoy experimenting with it. I tell myself each time, when I do hit the high note, that I should take note of where the settings are at, but I never have and I do like the intrigue of adjusting the dials and possibly getting to the finish line. It does take patience and the right mindset…

Mid 70s with no prostate. However, as you describe I can achieve that same type of internal orgasm. It is incredible. Seems more powerful than those when I could get erect. Today's produce no semen via the fairly flaccid penis. I seem to only be able to accomplish them about once a month with the help of a strong hot shower spray on and and around the perineal area. Not as often as I would like, but delightful nonetheless.

If I can't get Mr Stiffy to rise to the occasion, as happens more often than I like due to diabetes, I have no problem having a flaccid orgasm with the help of a nice warm mouth, or good old Mr Hitachi. 😃

Fortunately ED is not a problem I have - yet! I need a joy stick to hang on to!! Not sure I could do it with a flaccid penis.

Yes can cum hard or semi hard, just need to work at it a bit. Anal play helps!

It actually feels better and I cum faster when I masturbate while I'm flaccid or semi-erect. I find the nerve is better stimulated.

Recently I had an orgasm while I wasn't fully erect. Without going into the whole story I was in a place I had never been before and was extremely nervous. That I hope had alot to do with it.