Ben Wa Balls

Bought a pair of ben wa balls for an afternoon of intimate lovemaking. They came in an ornate box and were beautiful to look at. Each ball would at the slightest movement set off a chime and vibration. She was dripping wet from just holding them and after I inserted both we proceeded with a very passionate afternoon of ecstasy. Now the interesting part. We could not get them out! My fingers were not long enough and as hard as she tried they would not budge! I left her for the hardware store where I purchased a magnet the size of a dime on a collapsable stick. She called and said she had one out after sitting on the toilet and the other one came out as I returned home. Remember, always read the instruction and do a little research on bedroom activities before forging ahead.

Vagina balloons out when a woman gets aroused - the first third tightens and the rest enlarges. That's why it's best to wait till the genitals go back to the non-aroused state and then gently push the "lost" balls out. Of course some members of this forum would prefer to go treasure hunting with a speculum in stead of waiting - that's a fun option too 😉

I only have exercise balls from Mae B. They are much larger than the Ben-Wa so you can't have intercourse with them in, they are joined with a bit of silicone and they have a retrieval string. The Mae B. balls are not very exciting for me. They sometimes jiggle a bit but it's really subtle.

I've also got Chinese exercise balls for training hand muscles. They are even larger than the Mae B. but very jingly. I've never played with them sexually. I think I'll insert one of them - the second would be too much and my muscles would push it out.

Thanks WildOrchid. I think we have the chinese exercise balls that you talk about. Two were a comfortable fit and very very stimulating for her. The jingling combined with my oral stimulation sent her over the top many times. When it was time to remove them we had a bit of a scare. Like you had mentioned after our session together ended and she had time to relax she was able to pass them. We will definetly do this again.

I got mine from Chinatown for five bucks....I had to get slightly smaller ones than I already owned for hand use...by the way, if you have them inside and jump up and down, your partner can just hear them chime!

I sometimes have one in me for a bit longer than I want, but trust me, women can give birth, so it won't stay for too long!

Also, if you use a vibe with these in, it can be a really good feeling...

I was told once that a woman is to sit in a rocking chair and rock with them in. What other activities can be done and how do they stimulate the vagina?

How 'bout a ride on the exercise bike with the balls inserted?

Gardening outside. . . use mine more for exercise purposes in keeping things tightened up.

I have seen ads for Ben-Wa balls, but never actually had a partner try them. I just I had the concern about not being able to get them out..but I guess going in after them would be a lot of fun!

One of my nurse girlfriends would go wild with the ben wa balls in her vagina while I gave her a nice hot soapy enema.She also loved the Sybian while a double balloon was in place

Been years since I've heard that term...wonderful!

I don't know how it happened, but I have them in five different sizes! I'd be glad to share with any willing woman.

They seem interesting but I've never tried them. How does one work them anyway? Come to think of it, I may have had something similar years ago but I'm so snug inside that nothing moves around much. My pussy is so tight that it's pulled condoms off a few lovers. Does squeezing the PC muscles cause them to move around or does it require vigorous "exercise" to move them around?

First off don't insert round things that have no retrieval string.

The idea of ben wah balls exceeds their performance in my experience. I found them to best be thought of as a twin vibrator with dead batteries.

There is no risk of losing something in the vagina. It's a closed-end orifice, unlike the anus, so anything that slips from one's grip can easily be retrieved by a lover or oneself. It may require a little patience, relaxation, lubrication and interesting physical positions and manipulation but it can be done.

My GF tried them, in a big size, and she had no problem in get them out. The stimulation is very weak, however. We get annoyed very soon with them.

I suggest you to try with your GF a egg(vibrator) with a remote control , to increase the feelings she can use two eggs one front and one rear , with two separate controls, the surprise will happen when ths speed of the two vibes will be very close ...

Or I suggest you electrostimulation vaginally, anally, both, with a remote control , this is very hot and can be very wild !

Since Ben Wa balls can be expensive you can use golf balls and condoms for initial exploration of the sensations of experimentation with round objects. I posted an assignment for a sub I was training at Zity.Biz/Forum/In English/Dominance and Submission/Forum Boards/New story and text submissions /Sub assignment from nadia -…

Several subs I have trained found this exercise and the use of golf balls...shall we say "arousing".

Dom in mesquite

If you thinking of trying ben wa balls and cannot find them think about the produce department again....I thought grapes would be good...make some asswine later...lol...But favorite seems to be roama tomatoes...their firm and disposable...remember if it goes in it will come out...if your worried about an exit time run the water line up in there it will all come out together....the roamas are shape is a little tapered just fine but they do not chime but sure rings my bell....

Golf balls seem way to big to use. At least to me. And tomatoes or grapes just aren't my thing. I have a policy not to play with my food because I worry about introducing foreign bacteria to an area of the body not prepared to deal with it. LOL, I guess my pussy and ass are just high maintenance. Besides, I thought the point of Ben Wa balls was the internal components that move around and jingle inside them. Is that not so? Geez, I feel like a virgin in this arena.

Whoa! I suggested golf ball(s) not softball(s). I have tried the training exercise with multiple subs and their reports indicate they can handle two or three inside a condom with no problem. The subs ranged from in their 20's through those in their 50's so I think the sample size was large enough to be reasonable. Regardless, each sub reported high arousal so maybe the magic of Ben Wah balls is not in a hollow ball with something rolling around inside. Maybe some of the other readers can give us some feedback on whether two or three is reasonable or much too large for them. I'd enjoy hearing from others too.

Snicker....solf balls vs golf balls....nice one, Dom in Mesquite :+)

If I can't fit it in my hand, I'm not going to put it in my vagina. And my fingers do not enclose around a golf ball. Look, I'm a wuss. I'm weird like that.

Although, come to think of it, it might be interesting. Who knows. Maybe I'll try it someday.

I just ordered some and I can't wait to use them!

Be careful of inserting golf balls. I was at a nightclub with some friends and a waitress based on a dare, inserted a golf ball into her vagina. The following day she went to the ER to have it removed after a night of unsuccessful efforts to remove it. Seems the dimples on a golf ball stick to internal tissues which makes it difficult to extract.

Need to practice muscle control to help keep them inside. The music they make when moving is nice.