Will my boyfriend play along?

I want to get my boyfriend into playing doctor with me but I'm nervous to ask him...I know he would like it once we got going but I'm just not sure how to start things up...

In his roleplay do you prefer to be patient or Dr ?

My girlfriend won't play along with me, but I at least learned that she never holds it against me to ask. Darnit - Some day i'll find a patient!

I hope that my finacee will want to play along when I suggest it eventually, she can be a bit restrained at times so it will be interesting.

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I want to get my boyfriend into playing doctor with me but I'm nervous to ask him...I know he would like it once we got going but I'm just not sure how to start things up...

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To batman

Buy a rectal thermometer and leave it where he will have to notice it. A discussion will begin. - Vicki

Never hurts to ask. My wife's not a huge fan but she plays along, and seems to enjoy it in the end.

Simply ask him...he will play along...

It never hurts to ask. He should certainly realize that there's no harm in it.

I think most men will play along with anything that allows them to see you and touch you in an erotic way...just ask! As a starter...perhaps you could email him a link to some gyno porn such as the preview site on doctortushy.com!

I have no idea why I haven't admitted this fetish to my husband. We get into some pretty interesting stuff, but I've never told him about this. I'm sure I will someday when my curiousity gets to be too much to handle...

I agree, simply ask. A good discussion can't hurt. Plus it might give him the motivation to bring things up with you, and be great for both of you in the end.

It might take some time but I bet he will come around. I told my husband about my fetish long before we married. Even told him of my experiences with a "playdoc". With the excitement of being newlyweds, my fetish kinda took a backseat for a It couple of years. It wasn't long however before it reared its head again. I began to drop subtle hints here and there but I doubted that he would ever play with me. Things changed though and I knew that he was getting closer when making love one night without any warning at all, he gently pressed his lubed finger deep into my anus. A month or so later, on our anniversary trip, he agreed to give me a complete exam. Knowing that he was somewhat uncomfortable and nervous. I showed him how to use the equipment before hand and wrote him a "script" to follow so he would have more of an idea of how and in what order to do the exam as well as what my medical fantasies entailed. The script contained several options so the element of surprise remained for me, not knowing exactly which options he would choose to follow. The end result was incredible. Granted we don't play as often as I'd like because he's not into it nearly as much as I am. But he now knows how much of an affect it has on me. When he brings his lab coat home from work....I know I'm in for a treat.

I think it depends on where your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband is with their own sexuality. Trust me. You can be a total perv to one person and be one of the most unique people to another individual.

Don't leave speculums, and gloves lying around as a hint. Might as well leave a condom on her purse or a dildo on his wallet. Trying to disguise this fetish is the same as ignoring the elephant in the room. It's a unique club of people who have moved on from basic silly sexuality, to another level.

Doctordoctor

Just ask him nicely. Tell him that it will improve your sexual life. If he really cares about you, then he will do it even if he doesnt really want to.

I was very open with it about my wife. If you are both open to tryng new things it really shouldnt be a problem. Its important to try new things and to support each others feelings especially with regards to sex. Im sure that you do things for him. He can definatley try it,just take it slow at first.

I don't know how to suggest it to my boyfriend either. I know he's been on my Internet history and saw my medfet websites... But he's never brought it up.

Always ask, but I think any guy would be stupid to pass up a opportunity of playing doctor with a potential nurse/doctor and getting a full body examination

My new wife will play along a little bit, but only to humor me, and I have not even asked her to play the Dr. role yet. I'll ask her at some point.