Wife

I would love to bring my wife into being examined but alas i dont think it will happen but live in hope

John, there are many people here who have the same issue as yourself. Please read what the others have to say and maybe you might get some ideas to help fix your situation.

I feel safe saying that probably 98 percent of us, maybe not that many, but close are in relationships where our partners do not share our kinks. You then have to make the decision as to how important it is to you.

If you are into medical porn, then I"m guessing you can probably live without it, can be satisfied watching medical porn, and goodness knows there's a lot of it. But if you really do have a medical fetish, living without it is very difficult. Not impossible, but very difficult.

The decision then becomes for you, are you going to sacrafice your true happiness and who you really are, or are you going to finally be true to yourself? It's a decision only you can make my friend.

Good luck!

I also would love to roleplay with my wife. But I'm not shure if she has a medfet, so I don't try. I think, it is not possible to convince somebody to medfet.

As I said in some other thread:

start with the gloves, put them on when touching her vagina, say that it's safer that way... ask her to do the same, and after few times go for more, in a small steps. Tell her that she would really look sexy as a nurse/in a nurse outfit and that you would be sick all the time if someone like her would work in the hospital. That's the way with most women: SLOW.

I eased into the conversation when I was giving her a massage and she was horny. Much more receptive at that time. I also didn't spill my guts with everything. Made it sound safe like when I went to the doctor and didn't realize she was female til I got there. I told my wife it caught me off guard but was surprisingly very erotic. Now sometimes she will role play and introduce herself with that doctor's name.

Clever1: -that's exactly how I started!! 😃)))

My wife and me once, just for fun, was looking at a website with different sextoys. By a "coincidence" I clicked a link there with medical fetish stuff, just to see how she react to this subject. Unfortunately she found it disgusting, speciallly the gyno things, and I decided not to mention anything about my fetish for her. Anyway, I am not sure what I would had done if she had looked interested in the subject.

I would love for her to do it also