It is hard for me hold it in

I find a big problem for me is keeping it in i get to excited and feel a little scared i might leek any one have any ideas lovelee

Lovlee, your concern is understandable, as is your excitment. May I suggest that you take a small enema first and expel before playing with your partner. It's always a good idea to protect the bed with a waterproof crib sheet and/ or absorbent pad, easily purchased from any drug store. An inexpensive shower curtain-liner works equally as well and can be discarded afterwards.

Furthermore, there are several techniques that you can try. One is to use a long, soft rectal or colon tube. This not only gets the solution up past the rectum and sigmoid colon where it is more easily retained, but is soft enough to prevent injury should you or your partner become overly excited. Finally, a warm wash cloth pressed up agains the anal opening following the enema is usually sufficient to keep the water in.

Some individuals will recommend inflatable nozzles "very expensive" or inserting a large but plug "often painful", neither of which in my opinion completely prevent leakage. Just go slow, have fun, and remember.....it's only water, so a small amount of leakage, providing you protect the bed is no big deal.

Even accidents can be fun. I remember years ago lying over my lovers lap while she gave me a soapsuds enema. Just as I was reaching my limit, she exclaimed that the clip broke and that she could not shut off the flow. In a panic, my friend pulled the still spurting nozzle out of my bottom flooding both of us with warm soapsuds. I still recall the feeling of my erect member sliding against her slippery soapy, thighs, and climaxing right there over her lap amidst our laughing and yelling....Ah to be young again....

Go slow and you will find you can hold for much longer.

A butt-plug is also usefull.

We started out useing a balloon put on a nozzle with a rubber band to hold it in. Inserted and blown up with a air bulb.

Double balloon rectal catheter enema nozzle is the best! The internal and external balloon create a seal so you can take the enema then retain it without the concern of leakage.

A double balloon rectal catheter can be expensive but when used properly, it will last a very long time, and worth every penny. I have the silicone double balloon rectal catheter now and it's very durable.

Chalet

Believe it or not, a super-plus tampon works wonders with retention. Lubricate the end of it, insert it, then insert the nozzle past it. Have fun.

It you do a coffee enema and have diffculty holding it in (as I have)

Use Mollasses (1tbs to 1 qt of coffee).

It helps and I can tell the difference if I haven't added the Mollasses.

Thanks.

I'm holding my peppermint enema right now with an inflatable butt plug, and a diaper with plastic pants. MMMmmmmmmm.. feels so good. Nice peppermint tingle in my diaper to.

Probably the best way for me is to just hold on tight. The strong urge usually lasts for just a few seconds, and if you can tighten up for that short time, the strong urge usually passes. Holding during orgasm is pretty tough, and may take some practice.

Try different positions while taking your enema. I find sitting up a bit helps me

What would be the best size butt plug for a beginner to use?and for how long should an enema be held in by a beginner?i am new at this and need some help before trying it.

I would think smaller that 2" in diameter for begining

I think 'holding' differs from person to person, and also the quantity of water in the enema bag. You must start with a little water and practice as you build up capacity. Only you will know your capacity.

I have to agree with you on that one.it takes a lot of practice to hold it in and after all as the saying goes practice makes perfect

Why hold it? I have no interest in holding it, usually. Just lose it all, and fill again. That's fun; for me, holding it is not.

Can the tampon be used as a butt plug to hold a retention enema or does it become saturated and slip out?

It was hard for me to hold it at first when I started doing the bag enemas in my adulthood.

The more experience I get, the easier it gets.

Plus, I've gotten much better at judging which cramps I can ride out and which cramps mean involutary expulsion.

Abdominal massage helps spread the water through my colon and ease the cramping and pressure.

So does changing positions sometimes.

Practice makes perfect!

Your right.positions help in retention!! Laying in fetal position can help at first

Unless it is a very small volume there is always a chance that a cramp will overpower your sphincter. Massage and generally good muscle tone can both help. But nothing is perfect.

It is not only practice, position and tools such as different nozzles and plugs, but the very rate of fluid flowing in. Very slow rates, with head down and butt up tend to not set off the nerve endings in the rectum to influence expulsion. Temperature of the water also can have an increased effect on the expulsion reflex. Massage does relax the colon and reduces the peristalsis that tends to force the water out. A gloved finger making circular motions inside the anus and rectum between fluid insertions, while the recipient is still holding the enema in is very effective, even more so that thumb pressure on the anus. Of course, adding salt to the enema does prevent some fluid absorption into the body, keeping the volume of the enema at max, where non salted fluid will aloow more to be taken in as some of the volume is absorbed, giving the recipient a kind of false measure of how much volume is still in the colon before expulsion.

I've also found temperature to be a key element here. An enema that is either to cold or hot for you is very hard to hold. When you find the temperature that works best for you, holding it will be much easier.

If you are taking a cleanout enema, you should hold 15 minutes if you can!!

Decide on a position, either knee-chest or Simms. Get in position at least 5 minutes before insertion. Relax as much as possible. Deep breathing during retention also helps.

I find it easier to hold it a long time if I stay under the full 2Q... try less and maybe work your way up?

It's sometimes hard for me to hold it, especially if I feel an involuntary need to push. I solved this by using a double balloon silicone retention nozzle. I inflate the inner balloon to a bit smaller than a tennis ball and the outer to 2/3 that size. Then, I don't have to 'hold' it. I can simply relax and the inner balloon 'holds' it for me.

Rennie, That is the beauty of the double balloon. You can lie there and relax and let the balloon do its job, keep the enema in. I love my double balloon!

Excitment is the key word here, and when it gets to much we just want to enjoy the fruits of our wares why not go ahead with the first one and then after that go ahead and cosintrait on another one a nd enjoy all of the feelings you have missed but go ahead with the first one and get excited love it 😜

I try to imagine holding it in longer but feel the need to expel to quickly - is it okay to just let go and fill up again?

Have a good old fashion full size metal hospital grade bedpan nearby can be a great help when a accident about to happen. The clean up of a bedpan is a lot less than that of a bed and floor.

I'm glad i read these posts... having my first enema next week with my play dr. and he wants me to hold it... i'm kinda nervous, but i found some helpful suggestions here! thanks for sharing what works for you.

Gosh! It is soooo much fun to give someone their first enema. Just wait until you are lying there naked watching that bag fill up and the nozzle get lubed!

Steve