Holding his Penis

Not sure if this really show go under the "water sports" section or not. But here it goes lol.

I was reading a post a few minutes ago about a guy peeing and he liked it when his woman held his penis for him while he was urinating.

Well as I have said before several times, we change as we get older. When I was younger I liked to hold a mans penis while he peed because it was fun, almost child-like fun, and it was a cute thing to do.

But now that I have the love of my life, I still love to hold his penis for him while he pees, but it's not for the cutesy kids games and being oh so naughty, but for me now standing behind him, or beside him with his penis in my warm hand, him having that look of nervousness on his face and excitement both at the same time. Holding him like that is a real turn on for me, yes it's a sexual one, but more so it's a very intimate sort of a thing. Doing this for my man and how it makes me feel I am guessing is the same way you guys feel when you see your woman only dressing you dress shirt a few buttons undone and with no panties on. Yes it makes you hot, but in a sweet hot way not in a hard core sex way, know what I mean? It provoked more of a warm fuzzy feeling.

WHat are your thoughts on this topic both men and women. Men do you like it when a woman holds you penis when you are urinating? What does it feel like for you.

And for women, what is it about holding his peinis that makes you feel what you feel?

Please explaine. and thank you in advance.

Mashie

Not really, I do find it kiddish, never tought to have this done by a woman.

However, I must be honest, I tried to do this to my partner more times without good result, but the last time after a playing examination, I convinced her to collaborate for check also this aspect.

This way, with her sit on the toilet, legs well spread, I do parted her labias and said her to start but she was unable to accomplish.

After almost fifteen minutes of waiting, was sufficient a little massage on her pee hole and clit for have success: she was so nervous, but then she thanked me, liked it so much that the next time she want try this layed on the bed urinating in a little basin.

Only thinking it we smiled both and kissed longly, eheheh 😄

M.

Yeah, i loveto hoold a guys penis when he pees. But i'll only do this when he's peeing on me. I dont want any pee to get on anthing i dont want it to.

The only times I ever held my husband's penis while something was coming out was when he was ejaculating! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

Yea, I agree.... Back some months ago, I asked my GF (25 Yrs younger) to hold my penis while I peed into the toilet. I never even thought about the feelings that made me ask for that.....But it was fun to expereince! I've never asked since....... just probably because we always have more erotic sexual things to enjoy while we're together.

She really wants to learn to ejaculate and I cam up with this excercise that I think would help her relax and learn not to worry if she peed on herself during sex. Anyway I think if she would allow me to hold her vulva and even play with her clit while she peed, she would through this exercise get over that worry.

Being bisexual and loving watersports as I do, I have held the pissing penis of two of my male partners. It was a thirll each time. With one man it was always aiming his cock as he pissed into the toilet. The other guy indulged me as I held and aimed him as he showered my body.

Mashie - I understand completely. I love these kind of intimate acts, being totally comfortable with each others bodies and having no secrets. I love being held and touched any time and when I introduce my partners to playing in the bathroom I always ask them if they'd like to hold me. Usually they do and have fun with it, but only a few really made an effort to continue to do it after a few times. Going outside (like out in the woods) is extra fun because then they can aim at the leaves or ants or spider webs. I fully believe that sexual intimacy doesnt have to always lead to sex.

Of course I love to return the favor and touch her while she pees, spreading her open or just diddling with my fingers as she goes. I love sharing that kind of intimacy.

CJ, that's exactly it! You get it. It is about being totally open and comfortable with each others bodies both sexually and non-sexually. For me, it's a love thing I think.

Thanks for your comment, and your understanding. Karma for you.

I once had a girlfriend that loved holding my penis, when I was urinating, it was like a pleasure, and pain at the same time, I remember especially the first time we had been out for dinner and drinks, it was late, and we were at her apartment, I had to go real bad, and she was teasing me telling me to urinate in front of her in the driveway, my reluctance was curred when she unzipped my pants and took out my penis, between the need to urinate and her warm hands, I was fully errect, and it was almost as good as cumming, she held my penis and stroked it until I started to urinate, this continued until I was finnished, all of the time she was kissing me and stroking me I do not know how long we were out there, but once inside our sex lives rose to new heights. From then on she would always ask if she could help when I went to the bathroom, it was great and it lasted untill we seperated, she moved for personal reasons. My loss some other guys gain. Guys dont be shy with the one you share intimate moments with, talk to her, you will never know if you dont ask.

What an interesting question! I have never thought of holding my boyfriend's penis while he urinates...the thought never occurred to me. I agree that it would definitely be something very intimate to be doing for your partner. I did ask my boyfriend if it would be something he would be interested in and he said he might have "performance anxiety" if I were to do this. He also said he would also have to know if my aim was good. 😄 Hmmm, gives me something to ponder.....

Actually, this subject has never come up between me and my partner, until this thread started. I asked him if he thought me holding him while he urinated would be enjoyable. He said not in an erotic way, but in an intimate way, it would be great. So here I am at 51, never having done (or contemplated) such a thing before. You know what they say; never stop learning.

To all the ladies out there MEN, are just little boys in big boddies, All of us want to be nurtured, (some more than others) but most MEN, have this inner little boy that wants to be held fondled played with tickled, (but still feel like a MAN) Even as a baby if you touched a baby boys penis while cleaning him that little thing would always salute.

Let your imagination soar, be nice be affectionate, loving and approach your man with each step and bring him to new heights of arrousal.he will love you even more and if he is made to understand that his reciprocating would be nice there is no telling where it will take both of you. Once started down that path (for most male's) hold on because once he gets a taste of the good life, it will be hard (pun) to turn him off. The best thing about getting started is that you and your partner will find new insights into each others sexuality, and he will want to find new ways to up the anty. I am a straight guy not bad looking, certainly not a hunk, but I have had some wonderfull exciting loving relationships,and I owe it all to watching other Men treating Women poorly, and to a few older girlfriends that at an early age showed me the ropes, and how to please a lady.

Rig and Lady, I reply as follows:

Rig, you are exactly right when you say that men are often boys in bigger bodies. Mind you, that is not an insult. Men need to be nurtured, they need to be cared for. Most real men know and accept this. I don't care two hoots how much of a "dom" they are, psychologically speaking it's pretty common knowledge that men or women in fact who are in control need that rest period as it were to regroup, shut down, and to grow. In one of the psych books I read once they described this time sort of like REM sleep, it's your minds way to pretty much shut down, heal itself, and to regroup. This is a very watered down version, but you get the point.

A common thing that we women say is that when a woman gets sick we get right back up and keep going, pretty much no matter how sick we are. Men on the other hand, get a cold and suddenly they need to be cared for like they are dying. Again, this isn't an insult, it's part of this psychological behavior to be nurtured.

Also another common thing that is socially discussed which is also part of this same behavior class is what is in the psych world kown as "behind closed doors." In this theory it talks about the high powered men in very powerful positions in their outside lives. Jobs where they are always in control etc. Many times "behind closed doors", these men are completely controlled by their wives, and by their choice mind you. And I am not necessarily talking about in a sexual way, but in the house the wife wears the pants, she makes the decisions, she's in control, often times this spills over into the bedroom as well. On the kink side of things, think about it this, ever notice how many lawyers, doctors, judges, pilots, nurses, cops etc are into BDSM or kink? It's all boils down to these high powered people needing basically a "time out" from their lives and from being in control. Lol, next time you will learn not to get me started on the psych stuff. I'm a psych nurse as well as a critical care nurse, and I can rattle on and on, sorry, lol.

To Lady, lol, I completely understand how you feel like duh, why hadn't I thought of that before. That's what I was wondering. I don't think for either of us it's really a sexual thing, but for the both of us it is very much a sensual thing. I think I described it like, when I wear his shirt and nothing else, he's turned on, but not "gotta have sex now" turned on, more of a "Damn, I love this woman", or in other words, it's more of a pulling at his heart strings kind of thing rather than pulling at his penis kind of things, lol.

I can understand how someone mentioned that doing this was childish, well, when you are a child, young or just discovering sex for the first time it absolutely can be. When you both are still in the "OMG, it's a penis" stage, and I'm touching it, hehehe. Well, when you get to be a mature adult as you and I clearly are, and the rest of us who maybe don't agree, but understand, doing this is very intimate, not to mention the trust in each other you have to have. I also believe that when two people really love each other, things like this only bring you closer, and only two people in love would fully grasp the concept to begin with.

Just my two cents.

What an interesting topic, something I havent tried, but reading these postings certainly stems interest. You certainly do pick up ideas on here, like this one, which I now can't wait to try!

After the "penises holding", we will see the next regressive step: the "diapers putting" for big boys, Lol 😁

Personally I sees it done to 4-5 years kids, however I cannot exclude this could please somebody, but I do remain a little surprised hear this from the our "needles queen", very curious, to see like a mind can change, only my two cents ... Lol .

M.

I have owned one wolf and a few airdale/wolf mixes. when they sit with there rear end touching you they are saying I trust you I will watch out for you,when some one holds you when you pee and you can release you are saying i trust you and they are saying you can trust me,If you dont know whats in the back of youre mind you dont know who you are or where you are going, or who might be going with you....

MASHIE;

Thanks for the affimation, I have said it over and over to many a friend that wanted to stray TALK to your significant other, they love you for you and if they are truly a partner in life no matter what gets put on the table, ( or under the sheets) you should be able to talk about it. I dont advocate blurting out what you want or would like to do just take it slow know your partner and be understanding. It really works not only in one on one relationships, but I beleive it can be applied in the business world.

To nytwatch1 Thats the reason you need to talk to find out whats in the back of the mind of your other half, it also tells them that you are sincerly interested in their well being and not just their body, and trust is a very big part of that.

I don't know, maybe it's me. but when a women holds my penis while I am peeing the flow stops, and my feelings start to grow, if you know what I mean.

Rigid & Mashie -

I'm glad you've had sensual, bonding experiences with this and I guess everyone has slightly different motivations for their interest. For myself, I've never felt that 'little boy' or 'nurturing' feeling when doing this or other similar things. For me its more about being totally open with someone, sharing something hardly anyone ever does and just being playful. I used to sometimes put a piece of TP in the water so she could have a 'target' to shoot at!

I guess I just like being touched by a partner and being touched in intimate places just reaffirms that this is a special relationship. I've never had a need for 'personal space' when it comes to physical contact - my SO could touch me 24x7 if she wanted! Like when just relaxing and watching a movie or something - touching each other sensually doesnt mean we are going to stop and have sex, its more like foreplay for whenever the next time is.

I do agree Mashie that a person in 'power' many times likes to give that up at home or sexually. Although I see it more on the womans side of course, because I'm looking for a sub. Women who are single moms and work full time and take care of a household have so much to control in their daily lives, making decision after decision, even if they dont have a high powered job. They have a lot on their plate to deal with in todays society. So, I think many of them gravitate towards being submissive because they are tired of being in control and making those decisions. They want to just be 'taken' by their man and bereft of responsibility during sexual encounters. I think it also frees up their mind to enjoy things more, given that they 'have no choice' and things are just being done to them.

The whole D/S, M/S psychology is really amazing...

More OT - Ladies - if you've never done this with your SO, just ask him sometime. Either lead him in or follow him into the bathroom and ask to help or just do it. I sincerely doubt you'll ever encounter resistance!

I have the sniffles... can someone hold & point my weenie for me? :😃 (MASHIE: Men are babies when they are sick)

My Special Friend likes to hold it while I pee off the swim platform of the boat. The first few times it was a start and stop kinda thing. Now she can aim and swing as I just enjoy the laughter.

The most fun is to see her lean back, pull her lips apart and pee a stream. (It was a dare) The bride would never try that.

Nauti Time (Sea Ray) has seen some kinky things.

Skybear

I had a girlfriend who really enjoyed holding my penis while I urinated. It started in the shower one morning when we were fooling around and she bet me she could pee more that me. She was the one who introduced my to Golden showers. Anyway she would love to hold my penis while I peed and I enjoyed the sensation very much.

The most fun is to see her lean back, pull her lips apart and pee a stream. (It was a dare) The bride would never try that.

Nauti Time (Sea Ray) has seen some kinky things.

I would love a trip on Nauti Time! I love that name! And also love the events on board! If only we were all lucky enough ti have a special friend like you!

I've always been intrigued by the penis. Hard or soft, it fascinates me. I never thought of holding my partner's penis while he peed, mostly because I never see him do his business. But once we were hiking and he had to go. I suddenly got this urge to hold it and asked him if I could. He was startled, but agreed. Have to say, I enjoyed doing it. Since then, whenever we are outdoors on a hiking trail, he lets me hold him. It's become our little act of intimacy, as one respondent described it.

I've held lovers' penises before as they peed but I'm a lousy aim so I'd prefer not to get involved. I do enjoy watching men urinate. I don't know why but it's a huge turn on for me.

When she was in a frisky mood, my former wife liked to hold my penis occasionally while I peed. It was when she started playing with it as well that I had trouble peeing... My fiance likes to do the same.

I suppose women are intrigued with penises for the same reason we are intrigued with vaginas -- we don't have one, but know how good they feel and make the other person feel.

My lover enjoys holding it while i pee [i love it}. she has to hold it very lightly or it will start to grow in her hand. after i've finished she milks it, shakes it, and wipes the end with tp. before she puts it away she gives it a little kiss. we share everything, it's wonderful to be in love with a such a erotic girl, ty honey.

Ahhh, this is one of my favorite plays, I simply love holding my lover's penis when he pees, I even follow him into the bathroom without any "invite"! It is very sensual and intimate, I love to pamper him in any and every way. I'm so blessed to have a lover that permits me to do all these naughty acts.

It's hard, excuse the expression, to pee when a beautiful gal is holding your dick.

This sounds like a very good idea....Its intimate, though playfull...I am certainly going to get my girlfriend to give me a helping hand!

Only had the opportunity to have my penis held while I peed once. I was taring the roof and found my self in serious need and terribly dirty. The wife said come down and I will help you she did. It was very nice but never happened again. I was sorry when we moved into a house with two bathrooms as I seldom got to hear her pee what a lovely sound so very sexy.