Safe Urethral Play for Newbies.

So I'm new to the Urethral play arena of medfet, and I'm looking to play with my lady friend, and her with me. What should we both do to be safe, and does anyone have reccomendations for the kind of equipment we should look into purchasing to maximize our fun?

Thanks for all your help in advance all!

Drak

If it were me, I would start with catheterization using a foley catheter. I believe that because sounds are rigid, they can do more damage in the hands of a novice. Before you even think about doing this to yourself and each other, study the anatomy involved. That is absolutely vital in my opinion. There are some instructional videos on YouTube and other public outlets that discuss proper insertion and sterile or aseptic technique. For heaven's sake, don't just buy a cath and go flailing away in there, get a catheter insertion tray that has all the supplies you'll need and is sterile. I recommend that you check out Allegro Medical for your supplies. Lastly, there are lots of good resources in this board that will give good information. If you have questions, ask. Contact a moderator, if we don't know the answer, we know who does.

Let me know if I can help. In any way.

The master words are : be clean and steril, do insertion and removing very slowly and be gentle!

I think the catheters are a good start. Don't use too big one (12FR to 16FR at max). The use of caths in girls had more UTI risk than for boys. Keep in mind that such of game are not to take lightly.

Last, buy your devices from medical shop. Avoid ebay or sex-shop to prevent non steril or perempted packs.

Play safe...

bbMichel

Isn't it good though to see someone thoughtful enough to ask for information before he plays rather than after a problem has arisen.

It's far to late - and sad - when I read posts such as 'why am I bleeding?' or 'why does it burn when I pee?'

ladydocisin and the other Moderators will be aware of how keen we are to call out on dangerous practices - it needs to be said quite forcibly that most of what people do in medfet is dangerous - when you have no idea of what you are doing.

You need to know some anatomy first of all, then about sterility. ladydocisin refers to the use of sterile catheterisation packs. They are ridiculously cheap and I won't go near a urethra, male or female, with catheters or a sound, without using a pack.

drak refers to maximising pleasure with his lady - the first step is to minimise risk!

I second ladydoc's invitation to ask questions. I'm always happy to oblige by IM at BigK148@yahoo.co.uk or email karlstone@talktalk.net

Play nice - but play safe!

Hello. As most have mentioned on this post... I did not know that urethral play could be a part of my med fet. I have been catheterized as part of surgery, but never for erotic play. I've read about urethral sounds, are they really used in medical practice? And if so, what for?

Stretching limits is something I find very exciting, so this is somthing I'm interested in, but I don't know how realistic this is. Any info & advice would be welcome.

The first rule of medicine is "First Do No Harm." That goes in spades for "play."

Understand the risks and correct procedures, especially sterility, and be gentle.

CherryLolly

I did not know that urethral play could be a part of my med fet. I have been catheterized as part of surgery, but never for erotic play. I've read about urethral sounds, are they really used in medical practice? And if so, what for?

Yes, urethral stimulation is part of medfet - the feelings are very different from clitoral or vaginal stimulation. It can be delivered by catheterisation, sounds or by stimulation of the (so called) g-spot where the outcome is female ejaculation - or 'squirting'. Ask me why I say 'so called' g-spot!

The erotic aspect of catheterisation is by the stimulation of the urethra during insertion and removal but also the mental aspect of not being able to control your own bladder is a major part.

Urethral sounds were in the past originally used for the treatment of scarring of the urethra (strictures), often caused by STI's. The treatment was brutal and un-anaesthetised with the sound being forced through the obstruction to destroy it and open the passage again. It often had to be repeated as the scar healed again.

Nowadays of course such problems would be dealt with rather more kindly.

The use of urethral sounds these days, in the play scene particularly, is for pleasure. Play patients can orgasm through urethral stimulation which is sometimes applied with a vibrating sound.

It is safe to use coconut oil for urethral sounding???

It is safe to use coconut oil for urethral sounding???

I’m guessing not. It’s not sterile and I’d think that the sugars might lead to a nasty urinary tract infection.

Sterilization is #1

This disposable catheter works great for sounding and catheter play. It’s even pre-lubricated.

https://www.allegromedical.com/catheters-c539/speedicath-intermittent-catheter-male-p551248.html

Play safe

Stretching the external urethra and the urethra are 2 construction sites.

The Meatus urethrae externus is best stretched with a penis plug with longitudinal bore. So that the plug can remain permanently inserted. Method. Insert a plug that just enters the meatus into the fossa navicularis urethrae. After about 2 weeks the plug will go out easily. Because the meatus has stretched due to the permanent stretch. Then you can import a 0.5mm larger plug. After 2 weeks the next and so on. With this method I can now introduce a 18mm penis plug.

To stretch the urethra from the fossa navicularis urethrae. It is best to take Hegar dilators for approx. 19cm long which can be easily inserted through the prostate. Residuals during insertion can cause some urethral strictures (strictures) and the prostate entrance These disabilities must be passed carefully to avoid injury. Cleanliness is absolutely important to avoid infections. Disinfect the dilator and a sterile lubricant is necessary. I use Xylocain Gel 2%. This is called then Sounden. After frequent use, the urethra will become accustomed to it and the initial impairments will no longer occur, so that the pleasant feelings will prevail. After some time you can use the next 0.5mm Thicker Dilator to stretch the urethra. How fast you can use the next size depends on the frequency of use and on the duration of stretching (1-2 hours), but it is still very tedious. It is relatively safe as long as you do not penetrate into the bladder. Because you can easily damage the bladder sphincter and thus trigger incontinence. In addition, you have no germ-free urine for rinsing the urethra more. That's why I usually only sound through the prostate and do not invade the bladder. With this method I have been able to insert a 12.5mm. The urethra makes a 90 ° angle to the top of the prostate, which can be easily passed through a Van Buren dilator, a flexible dilator, or a catheter to reach the bladder. It is also possible with a Hegar dilator but because you have to push the penis down.

I did something years ago that got me a nasty uti. I thought whatever went up there was clean. Apparently not. Now I am a no entry zone . lol

Safe Urethral Play for Newbies.

Safe urethral play for newbies is a non-sequitur.

In the style of Jim Morrison and The Doors in Soft Parade . . . .

there is no such thing as safe urethral play for newbies

there is no such thing as safe urethral play for newbies

There Is No Such Thing As Safe Urethral Play For Newbies

There Is No Such Thing As Safe Urethral Play For Newbies

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

You only think you know what you are doing is safe.

Despite sterile conditions in an OR or other medical office, problems and infections still arise.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

You only think you know what you are doing is safe.

Despite sterile conditions in an OR or other medical office, problems and infections still arise.

I might be a tad slow but I think I got the point. So is there any safe urethral play for oldies?

I would never let anyone who is not a trained medical professional anywhere near my urethra.

These look like they'd be fun to take for a spin

https://www.amazon.com/Urethral-Sounds，Utimi-Vibrating-Stimulating-Massager/dp/B077ZFRWK1/ref=pd_aw_fbt_121_img_3/154-5407546-7695509?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B077ZFRWK1&pd_rd_r=f0c83c13-9328-4285-a6c5-d0219582caaa&pd_rd_w=edORY&pd_rd_wg=tLdNb&pf_rd_p=3ecc74bd-d08f-44bd-96f3-d0c2b89f563a&pf_rd_r=A7W432WGNGGTH7SMQKJ3&psc=1&refRID=A7W432WGNGGTH7SMQKJ3

https://m.dhgate.com/product/silicone-sex-sounds-urethral-plug-7-5-mm/410661113.html#mvdpd-1-9|null:01:r1480397050

https://m.dhgate.com/product/eye-irritation-urethra-stick-small-pull-beads/406917646.html#pd-018

It is quite normal for the urethra to burn a little at the beginning of the sound. But this is getting better and better with the habituation of the urethra to the new strain. When you work clean and plenty of sterile lubricant, we use it better every time. It's good if you're a beginner to use metal dilators that slide better than silicone or rubber dilators and therefore do not irritate the urethra so much. Stretching up to 2 hours a day is quite enough. You will not be able to do this every day because of the pain. It is better to take several days off between the stretching sessions, and only continue to do so when there is no more pain. I always increase in 0.5mm increments with Hegar dilators. If you increase too fast, there is a risk of cracks. Scar tissue that develops can be stretched poorly. So far I have reached 12.5 mm I started at 6 mm diameter. Of course, I also have a bottleneck on the meatus urethrae externus that you have to stretch laboriously. Even a meatotomy does not help. The meatus urethrae externus consists of solid connective tissue. A pain gel is helpful in increasing the diameter. I use Xylocain Gel 2%. Of course you have to be careful that you do not stand too hard, otherwise you can hurt yourself because you feel less pain. So just increase the diameter slowly. For a 0.5mm step, I need about 2 to 3 months, dilators with bore are hard to find in this size. If I want to urinate or ejaculate, I'll just take out the dilator and then introduce it again. Pushing and turning the dilator bring nothing synonymous, and only leads to microcracks which then slow down the desired result. Only with patience will you continue.

Safe urethral play for newbies is a non-sequitur. …

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS SAFE URETHRAL PLAY FOR NEWBIES

You only think you know what you are doing is safe.

Despite sterile conditions in an OR or other medical office, problems and infections still arise.

I don't mean to be argumentative, just thought provoking.

First up is that the term, “safe” needs context to have meaning. What might be safe for one could very well be unsafe for another. Generally, though it can be presumed to mean limited risks or limiting the risks involved.

Next, as appreciated as a warning about the risks and possible outcomes is usually appreciated, screaming and histrionics concerning the “safety” of the same thing are not. At least by many of us.

It has been said, “there is no such thing as safe urethral play for newbies”, and I believe it because the same can be said for experienced practitioners. And for almost any other form of erotic play. Or just driving a car or walking down the street.

Most of us know there are risks involved with our erotic play. There is always a chance of damage or infection in any type of play. My brother, like thousands of other youngsters, broke his wrist falling out of a tree when we were kids on the farm, but that did not deter either of us from climbing trees. One must weigh the facts and act as their own conclusions tell them to.

So, if you want a guarantee you won't be hurt by urethral play, don't do it. If interest is greater than concern, learn how to do it in a manner that reduces risks.

I'd bend the question a little bit to instead ask: How did people find a responsible kink mentor with experience in urethral play to introduce you to sounding and cathing?

As others have noted, this form of play comes with its share of personal injury risks that you'd have to accept. That said, I would never want a newbie to use me to try to get the hang of urethral play. I feel like that's asking for a lot of trouble.

I'm also coming from the perspective of a gay man. While there's a visible kink/BDSM community within the larger gay community in my city, this is such a specialized form of play, I was never sure of how to find a trusted partner.

I only allow medical staff to roleplay with my urethra. As for roleplayers, the safest option is to squert saline up the urethra. A small sterile contact lenses seline bottle, bin it after the session. No risk of solid objects being mishandled down a very sensitive area.

My advise is to start with cathethers and a lot of lube, then with care starting dilatation of the meatus with Hegar sounds keeping the penis vertical and letting the instrument find its way down just by gravity.

I have it done for the first time by a play doctor with medical training but I do not advise following method. She exploited my wetness, a lot of precum. No lube was used. She examinated my glans starting directly with a number 9 Hegar dilator saying I have a large meatus type quite common in uncircuncised penis. The erection did not aid the insertion. She press the tip in the meatus dilating and making the sound slip inside for a few millimeters. She lingered a bit finding the right angle to slide it in the urethra and it was a little painful then finally the sound find its way and slided trought the penis and I feel completely dilated. The impossibility to tray any attempt to expel the instrument or react to the dilatation gave to me a unique and ultimate feeling of violation, embarassment and submission I never trayed before. She then moved slightly the sound to distent tissues and finally said to me I was initiated to the joy of urethral plays. After that I received several different type of sounds and dilators up to no.13 with little pain and without any lube she said it was enough for me. Finally I had a very little bleeding and slight pain urinating for a couple of times.

My only advice would be, like other responses have noted, would be to avoid this. I tried sounding out of curiosity years ago because I was somewhat intrigued by the idea. Uh,uh, no way, not ever again!

I must not have been sterile enough, even though I cleaned everything with alcohol, I got a UTI and I had a fever, chills and it felt like I was peeing glass for a long time after! Furthermore, it wasn't at all pleasant. I'm out of that game and I now have real empathy for women who generally seem to experience these more than men…

Just adding my voice to those saying don't do this, it's a good way to give a woman an infection or permanent damage and she's not going to get anything but pain out of the experience. There's a hundred fun things to do, this isn't one of them.

I just wanna add my opinion. I've been into urethra play for many years and have been lucky enough to have never had a UTI. I was obviously once a “newbie “ and wanted to experiment. I really believe its all about cleaning whatever your gonna insert. And I mean CLEAN!! And clean it again! Also not inserting anything farther or bigger than u can handle. Meaning if it starts hurting then stop! This is coming from a male perspective so I can’t speak for the ladies. Be safe.

Since this is an area that excites me too I can only echo what others have said about cleanliness and a safety-first approach. For many years playing doctor by myself I inserted a very small (9 FR) catheter into my urethra to collect a bladder urine specimen, and I always used as close to sterile technique as possible. About 6 years ago I must've not been as scrupulous as I thought and I wound up with a very nasty UTI and was an eyelash away from needing to be hospitalized. I completely understand the urge to do this but since my infection I have done very little urethral play (I do have a rosebud sound I use occasionally, but no catheters.) The danger of giving your female partner a UTI is significant due to the shortness of the female urethra and the proximity of bacteria in her genital and anal areas, but getting one yourself is also no joke and can be very serious. Proceed with CAUTION.