Realistic Play or Fetish/Fantasy Med-Fet Play

I enjoy a mix of both

I am amazed that the med-fet community is so prevalent! Until I came to Zity I did not even realize that such a fetish existed. My sexual tastes are too simple for med -fet. Medical tools and procedures, all kinds of sexual toys and paraphernalia just do not excite me. A simple parental enema is as close as I would come to a met-fet fantasy! It has been interesting reading all the comments. Zity really is an equal opportunity employer! YEA! Diversity!

I am amazed that the med-fet community is so prevalent! Until I came to Zity I did not even realize that such a fetish existed. My sexual tastes are too simple for med -fet. ! It has been interesting reading all the comments. !

Keep on reading on Zity and thinking about what you read and you might even pick up a fetish or two that ends up tickling your fancy ... sexual tastes evolve over time.

I much prefer realism. Exposure is what drives me.

I'm in the 'realistic almost all the way' camp. The tension between on the one hand maintaining the behaviour expected of you as doctor and patient, and on the other hand both parties knowing that each other are getting massively turned on, is a major part of it for me. Then again I don't have any problem with lingering over certain aspects...

Honestly it all depends on the mood. I’m not strictly limited to enjoying either side exclusively. If the trust factor is there and it isn’t a rushed scene, I THINK I’d lean SLIGHTLY more to the realistic side. 😃.

Have posted here before (posts 53, 56, 58 ). A brief addition. As an exponent of exams by correspondence - chiefly as the patient - I am all for 'psychological realism'. My most thrilling exam was by a Dr M who was already highly proficient at examining young male patients in a (fake) clinical setting. He brought to my exam all of his great expertise, including his admirable empathy for his patients' feelings at every stage of the exam. He and I really got inside each others' heads - using our descriptive 'literary' skills! - and I think we both learnt a lot! Very enjoyable it was! - Ken

I mainly like dominant doctor, reality based exams that encroach on, or cross, the line in terms of professionalism, being overly thorough, or causing embarrassment/humiliation.

I don’t need too much reality or equipment to tap into those special feelings of embarrassment, excitement, submission, nerves, joy.

A tube of KY, a glove, a thermometer, a jar of Vaseline, a wooden ruler or dowel, even one statement like “should we check if you have a fever?” Any of these make my blood boil with erotic anticipation.

I'm also a member of the "Realistic" camp. The more real the better - clinic setup, scrubs, medical equipment, etc. One of the best exams I have received was conducted by a real EMT who came to my hotel one night when I complained of "chest pains". He arrived in full gear with his medical kit and everything. He conducted the exam like he was on a real 9-1-1- Emergency call. The experience blew my mind!

I prefer realistic. I always imagine wear hospital gown and bouffant cap as a surgical patient.

I don’t have a play partner and my husband who is a nurse isn’t interested. I would enjoy a mix. Real medical equipment but not the detached attitude that comes with real hospital medicine.

Realistic: There's nothing like being greeted by a male Doctor in scrubs and perhaps a lab coat with a stethoscope around his neck. Or a scene with the Doctor sporting a shirt, tie and khakis ordering me to strip naked. Or perhaps an EMT in full uniform ready to perform a DRE. All of these options set the scene, while the man in the Doctor's garb has a number of options on the approach and bedside manner in the scene. For example, he could be strictly by the book or more Dominant and rigid with his orders and direction during the exam. Think of the fun....

I like a good mix of both, but it depends on my patients desires. I'm quite a strict doctor so crossing the line from realism to a more fantasy style exam is easily done if that is what is required. I always like to start with a realistic scene whatever the end scenario. Each to their own though, as with all aspects of medfet! As long as you're both on the same page. It's all good.

Dr Nash always gives his males a comprehensive and realistic physical exam. Having said that though, it is important that the exam also fit the medfet needs of his patient. In conversations with his patients BEFORE the exam, I always want to know what triggers him - and I encourage him to be open, honest, and unabashed about what those are. This becomes "material" for me to think about while designing his medfet exam. I have had patients who have wanted to be spanked, have an enema, be restrained, and for me, it is all okay. Knowing this ahead of time allows me the chance to make his exam as thrilling for him as it is for me. It charms Dr Nash when the young man hesitates when being told to lower his underwear to his knees for his rectal temperature almost as much as the young man who wants to hold an enema in front of his doctor until he can't hold it anymore. Maybe he is wanting to have nipple clamps put on while being auscultated - why not? The end result I want is that we have both have had a great medfet experience.

It's all fun and as long as it is safe, why not? Just be sure the communication is clear and that the boundaries are well defined.

I think a lot of medical play can be made very kinky but still be grounded in realism, or at least in the spirit of being played out in a realistic fashion. Med fet, for me, will always be a sexual experience, but I don't think it is as fun when there is no sense of order or clinicalness to it. Its certainly for everyone an individualized experience and one based on experience and preferences.

I prefer more realistic play, especially if it's in a visual medium (photos or video). That said, I don't think the realism should get in the way of the mood or pacing of the scenario. I also think its totally alright to bend on more realistic elements as long as it's agreed to before hand! I've found there is often a way for it to "make sense" if you're really one of those people who likes to have logic behind everything in a play scenario (of which I am one). So in short, realistic play with just a touch of imagination is where I tend to fall on the spectrum.

A real hospital and doctors do not excite me, because it means that there are health problems. Therefore, I am a supporter of the game form, where I am calm for my health. But at the same time, the" doctor " must look realistic, have real tools. The survey is able to combine reality and the game. The most important thing is that it is pleasant and painless. And Yes, it's important to me that the doctor is a pretty young girl.

I prefer the fetish side, e.g. Doreen videos

Manly fetish fantasy but I do like realistic as well

Anytime I imagine this type of scenario it’s mostly realistic, but possibly with some tweaking. I’d like the “doctor” to be in a traditional outfit, but certain rules or procedures could be different. Like taking more time on the abdominal and internal exams, taking my temperature rectally, etc. Nothing super bizarre, but still different from typical reality.

It seems like most of the posters here want realism and I'm no exception. I think most people who are seriously into med fet appreciate the kinds of nuances and details that aren't going to be found or touched upon in the more fantasy/casual realm. That stuff seems to be for people that just want to mix it up in the bedroom or maybe want some overall variety to settings in their mainstream porn.

No judgement, just an opinion also.

I don’t care for fetish wear in my med play. My play doc wears a lab coat over either scrubs or a shirt and tie but I like my play to deviate from reality. Instruments are used as they’re supposed to but the doctor does procedures on me that no real doctor would except maybe Masters and Johnson or the like.

I don’t care for fetish wear in my med play. My play doc wears a lab coat over either scrubs or a shirt and tie but I like my play to deviate from reality.

Same here I much prefer realism. As a play doc I have a white lab coat with 'Dr Philip' embroidered in blue over the front pocket, and I normally wear this during a play exam appointment. Although sometimes I just dress smartly as some women prefer that. I use genuine medical instruments purchased from a proper medical supplier, a nice Littmann stethoscope, speculums of course together with a smear test kit with brushes and slides etc. I do the examination just like a real one, but yes I too deviate at the end and it becomes more sexual because that's what women want. Most of my play exams finish with an orgasm or two or more for the woman.

As for videos and photos, again I much prefer ones of real exams or as real as possible like a training video. But some of the fake ones can be nice if they are made to look realistic and don't become silly...

I believe that the combination of realism and fantasy should be reasonable and depend on the professional knowledge of the partner who plays the role of a doctor. If this is a person who is related to medicine in life, then he can quite realistically carry out many procedures without harming the patient. Conversely, if I know that my knowledge of medicine is zero, I will not allow myself to try to conduct a realistic study. I will use a realistic environment, tools (similar to a real office, couch, medical instruments, clothes), but this is all in order to make an impression. I'll use something that won't actually do any harm. This is necessarily a stethoscope, a neurologist's hammer, medical gloves and similar things. Of course, in this case, there will be erotic moments.

Realistic is fine with me as long as there’s a stethoscope involved 😃

Both of can get a doctor or nurse to make a house call to me

For me, this is purely fetishistic in nature. I try to separate real life from my fantasies. But it's not always possible to deceive myself when I see a stethoscope.