Fisting: Can't get it in!

A good position is to be on your four, bottom up, if you can head and shoulders on the bed,

with patience, lube, arousal, hugs, masterbation, very sensual masterbation, stay on the edge !

If he have hands like mines may be better to forget this fantasy, my hands are XL , yeah lucky not huge ;-)))

Thanks guys, my boyfriends hands are not that large, his are a medium actually.

Every lady is different. I've fisted a few women who were definitely not recently post-partum, and they took my hand just fine. I've tried with other women who simply couldn't take my large hands, their vagina and pelvis wasn't wide enough, deep enough, or both to fit my whole fist. A few of them had no trouble with someone with smaller hands. If they're not large enough inside for my hand, we simply accept it, do what we can, and enjoy it.

My advice is to not try so hard. Just relax & have fun putting larger & larger toys in you. You'll open up when you're ready. Have fun & good luck!

I reach the point where any further and she is going to rip open and then we have a real emergency.

Regardless of what is written here, not every woman can accept a fist. This is not a contest and prizes are not given! No elbow? No wrist? No fist? If she is on her back and with her eyes closed, she just might feel full with four fingers. And just be happy for her!

I really don't know the answer for her question but I know with myself I had graduated to larger and larger items that required a lot of relaxing and stretching and I have used a multitude of lubes and soaps and made sure the anal canal was thoroughly soaked in them then it was just a matter of relax and insert and I have had some rather large objects which I am proud to say

The OP hasn't been on since 2011. Doubt she will see any of this.