Do you like both Dom and sub sides?

An enema in a sling sounds like great fun!

Strangely, when I am home, I like to give enemas. When I am at a hotel, I like to receive them. I guess I like role reversal when I am not in my safe surroundings.

I fantasize about being dominant in a submissive role. Confusing? Not really. My fantasy revolves around a story that my wife and I once read. It was about a group of "kept" males in service to benevolent but dominant females. The males were referred to as "golds". They would administer morning enemas to the female royalty on command. And in this capacity they would assume a dominant role under "license" from their female queen. The enemas administered by the males to their queens would be intended to pleasure their queen and they would bring her to several orgasms throughout the process. If they pleased her, then they would be rewarded by the queen administering an enema to them to "prepare" them for an insertion ritual that followed in the evening. The males were required to be "purified", that is - not only were their bowels to be cleansed, their cocks were to also be emptied of all cum in order that the golds would become totally submissive to their queen. Throughout the remainder of the day, the gold was expected to be at his queen's side and to fulfill her every wish and need. Then at the end of the day, the ritual would begin with the queen choosing an implement of her liking and summoning her "gold". The gold would go down on his knees in front of his queen and she would slowly insert what ever toy she had selected deep into his rectum. In the story, most of the males would spontaneously orgasm during the insertion. I loved that story.

I have done both sides of the coin and really enjoy both its hard for me to be dom sometime because the submissive nature trys to take over but there are time when it is good. For my partner and I there are really no set boundaries and we take it as it comes, we both find it more fun that way

Definately enjoy the sub side here myself, either with a male or female. Mom was quite agressive in nature and my wife became that way herself as well.

I fantasize about giving enemas but my wife won't even consider it. She has reluctantly given me a few but isn't into role play. If I can get her to give me a half-hearted dom session 1-2 times a year, I'm lucky.

I would love to find a NSA play-partner who wants to act out some fantasies and have some fun. Hell, I'd even visit a pro domme if there were any in my area.

Either side, giving or receiving, would be good with me. I don't have an enema partner, but when I think about enemas I generally think more about giving more than receiving.

Dom or sub lines up the same way, either is good. Personally I'd rather do enemas as more or less equal partners, rather than explicitly dom/sub. That said, the control aspect of both the dom and sub side of enemas does appeal to me.

I agree with elp430. I wish that I had a female enema partner to share experiences, some dom and sub and others more medical or intimate. I'm only interested in female partners with some experience who can fill me up and share the whole experience without embarrassment.

I prefer both Dom and sub sides

Im a Switch so I enjoy doing both.

Both ~ almost equally. However, as a Dom, I find myself slightly jealous of my sub. As a sub, I am a bit jealous of my Domme.

I guess I enjoy giving pleasure as much as I enjoy receiving it. Like Susie, if forced to choose only one, I would receive. Fortunately, I don't have to choose!

I enjoy both with a woman only.

I've tried the dominant side and I suck at it.

Only sub.

I like to do either, but my Real Life options are limited.

Yes, so long as no pain is involved. I am very much into the erotic aspect of enemas from either point of view.

In the bedroom,I much prefer to play the subbie,playing dominant I can and will do every now and than but is no where near as enjoyable IMO and almost never has been at my suggestion.

Im a switch and enjoy doing both rolls. I guess Im about 58% Sub and 52 % Dom.

I'm game either way ........... and up for pretty much anything.

I'll accommodate a woman in just about any way she wants. And I'm always looking for one.

I'm the dom in our relationship and LOVE giving enemas. It is just THE demonstration of power. One is never more submissive than when holding an enema. "I know you're cramping, sweetheart, but that's just the enema doing its work and I'm not ready for you to expel it just yet. Try to relax and breath deeply" are some of the most powerful words one person can speak to another. And, holding an enema until one's dom is ready for them to release it is a great exercise.

On the other hand, I LOVE being given enemas. It makes sex far, far better.

Both are fun, given the right situation/partner

Yes!

I do not know which I like better. To have one's hiney stuck up in the air awaiting the cold finger of fate covered with a big glob of KY, the cold lubricant then applied to the anus and the finger slides down the chute.

Or to be the one sliding the finger into the upturned bottom always placing the flat of the finger on the anal opening then pushing until the finger is swallowed the knuckle. to be the one sliding the tube in and out a few times the clicking the little shutoff to let the joy flow and to hear the little moans first of pleasure then of a bit of panic as the recipient knows the battle of the bowel is lost and he or she will have little to no control over expulsion process.

On the other had feeling that flow going into the bowel and the expansion in the abdomen, the pressure on the rectum as one tries to hold back the flood by trying to control the uncontrollable peristaltic waves that will soon send you to the throne of humiliation.

Either, both or just to watch, I love it from either end of the hose.

Rob

I love being the strict Mommy, taking care of my little boys and girls, making sure that they get a "good enema" , making them hold it until I hear the panic in their voice begging me "Please, I really need to go!!" It's a feeling of power to control someone's most personal function, but it's also the most intimate act between two people. When it's my turn to relinquish my control to my partner, I feel very different. My submissive side is not so strong but with the right person, the little girl peeks out and I must give myself to his care and allow him to control me. When that happens, I want to feel safe and protected, and know that my partner and I are as close as we can get. I've dropped my guard and given him my trust. Truly, a special moment.

Both are equally fun

If you please her, she will cum. If she pleases you, you will cum. So go the distance then switch and everyone will have fun.

I like both, but it all dependa on the person I play with. I prefer to be the dominant with ages 20 to 30, and be the submisive with older. As a role play I find very arousing the teacher - student, and the doctor - patient.