My wife always tries to aim for my bum... and with the paddles and hairbrushes and riding crops, she does well. I am not into pain for the sake of pain – I want the kind of pain that comes with pleasure... or rather the kind of pain that cums with pleasure. So she warms up my bottom before really laying on the heavy strokes. Sometimes I indicate for her to hit harder or softer but she has gotten pretty good at gauging how hard she needs to hit and when she can hit harder. For the most part, she accurately strikes the fleshiest part of my rump... with 30 of the spanking implements.
However, with the 30-inch Delrin cane, not so much, especially when she swings with greater intensity. The 30-inch Delrin cane is the most flexible and willowy and the most painful of my 31 spanking implements and every so often, especially when she is not careful and/or when she is swinging harder, the thing sort of gets away from her and goes north or south of the intended target.
When the errant stroke goes south and strikes the upper thighs, especially when I am not ready for it... and I am never ready for it... the pain is excruciating, because the upper thighs are especially tender and because she is swinging harder and hence, the inaccuracy.
When the errant stroke goes north and strikes the kidney area, the pain there is also excruciating because, like the upper thighs, the skin on the lower back and kidney areas is particularly sensitive and again, because she’s swinging harder. In addition to the pain, striking the kidney area can be dangerous.
When my wife first started using the 30-inch Delrin cane, she was wildly hitting all over the place with almost every stroke, even when she wasn’t swinging very hard – which still hurts, mind you! So, to protect me from pain and possible kidney damage, we placed thick, folded towels on my upper thighs and on my lower back so the only exposed skin was the desired target area on the bum cheeks. Invariably, the moment the towels shifted due to my movements or to her striking them with the Delrin cane, her very next whack would be a wild whack with her driving the tip of the 30-inch Delrin cane directly into the tender exposed skin of the upper thighs or the lower back — invariably.
Kinda makes me wonder if she’s really all that inaccurate or precisely accurate.
@Denise observed:
I think the upper thighs are just more sensitive to "discomfort"! lol.
I believe with time and lots of smacks, the skin on the bum thickens up and becomes tougher so it can take the hard whacks. The skin on the upper thighs rarely sees any smacking action and so the skin is still soft and silky smooth and thin and tender and delicate and sensitive so any smacks are going to sting a lot more than on the bum.