Pinching/Stopping the flow during an enema

I like it when the flow is regulated so that water come in as you exhale. A girlfriend of mine was a master of temperature and flow control. I miss that!

I sometimes do stop or speed up the flow when giving an enema. It just adds a bit of "surprise" to how the enema feels to the receiver.

I try not to do that!

Usually it's counter productive.

Sometimes, on a 4-qt enema, if I get in a hurry, I might have to, but that's a sign I didn't relax enough.

Not me,once its uncliped it stays that way until I'm done.I have never been one to stop and start the same bag.

Once I release the clip I like to get the entire bag in me. Sometimes if I stop, I cant take the wlole bag without running to the toilet.

I think you often have to stop after the first part of the first enema, because there is stuff low down blocking the flow. After that, some deep breathing and serious relaxing, then finish. For the rest of the session, I try to take each one in one go.

I use a bag with an in-line Higgenson bulb. A real help when the flow becomes slowed down and also provides a great stimulating feel.

If I'm giving a larger enema or if someone I'm with is "new" to enemas, I'll stop the flow half way through the bag and just let them rest. I have found that a one to three minute rest actually allows their colon to "let go" and relax just a bit so they can take considerably more when I restart the flow. This is compared to not stopping and trying to administer an entire 2 qt to 2 and a half quarts in one continuous flow. That is hard for some people. So the "rest" allows them to get their breath (sometimes literally) relax and let their tummy relax. The next half of the bag goes much easier.

Also if I'm giving a 3 to 4 qt enema (which to me is quite a lot) to an experienced sub I find the halfway "rest" really helps them take the entire bag. Without it, sometimes that much in a continuous flow just overwhelms them. And they usually are so "proud" if they actually take the full bag. It's interesting and a nice way to share part of the intimacy of an enema session. It also shows you have some compassion.

Now punishment enemas...that is a different story.

I generally let the flow continue until the bag is empty. If it feels good, why stop! That said, sometimes it helps to stop the flow for a few minutes. I relax inside, or the water flows around solid matter, but then I can continue the flow with no discomfort. It seems that after a pause for things to readjust inside, the water just flows much easier. Like enemas in general, people take different quantities, different flow rates, different positions, and it all feels good. There is no prize for finishing first, or most quarts, just the prize of enjoying an enema.

Miss Stress the enema flow can also be used to control the behavior of the receiver. One of my favourites is to insert a Higginson syringe inline with the tubing. As the enema flows it goes in normally until the Higginson is squeezed and that causes a spurt.

The same thing can be done with a 'ramp clamp" that allows for adjusting the flow during the enema. If a sexual partner is involved, it can also be used as a form of positive or negative feedback, i.e.

"Yoiu're doing such a good job I'm going to slow down the enema so it will last longer"

Or, "You better put a little more action into your work here or I'm going to have to raise the bag."

I hope you don't think I'm a pervert.

😉

H.

I tried not stopping the flow as I took 2 qt enemas yesterday. It was hard, I had to stop and squeeze my rectum tightly together and wait until the water went up higher, or I'd have squirted after a few ounces. After that, I could push the tube up higher and take the rest in one uncomfortable go.

Each time I did that, I got more aroused. I pretended I had someone controlling the flow, and I had to do what they wanted. It was HARD to let go of the clamp, I guess I need more practice in submitting to the process.

Harry: I thought the Higginson was something you had to pump all the time? Maybe I need to look at one again.

So, 10, you handle a punishment enema differently, I take it that means you give a 4 qt without the same consideration. I've never had an enema that way, not sure I could do it to myself. It's interesting to read all these interesting techniques.

Also if I'm giving a 3 to 4 qt enema (which to me is quite a lot) to an experienced sub I find the halfway "rest" really helps them take the entire bag. Without it, sometimes that much in a continuous flow just overwhelms them. And they usually are so "proud" if they actually take the full bag. It's interesting and a nice way to share part of the intimacy of an enema session. It also shows you have some compassion.

Now punishment enemas...that is a different story.