Are male enema users gay or at least latently gay?

I always wondered if I had some latent gay gene because I enjoyed enemas (solo) so much. when I finally discovered this website, I felt as if my "fears" were eliminated. Not that I have anything against gays, I just never felt I was except for my liking of enemas.

Thanks, enemas4fun, for relieving my anxiety. and for greatly heightening my sexual arousal from enemas!

I always wondered if I had some latent gay gene because I enjoyed enemas (solo) so much. . . .

ARE YOU SERIOUS?

Not a chance!

My husband won't touch or be touched by another male (real male physicians are fine) and he LOVES things up his butt--plugs, nozzles, enemas, fingers, my arm, dildos, but NOT a guy's real penis.

I like dildos and enemas in my ass but I will not do anything with another man.

I would like to hear from other men who wonder about their sexuality and enemas.

You don't need other men to validate your personal pleasures.

If you enjoy something that doesn't harm anybody, who cares, and why are you questioning this at this time in your life? You enjoy it. If it ISN'T other MEN you want up your ass, you're NOT gay. ENJOY YOURSELF. Life is too short to care what others think.

Look at all the men here. Practically all of them are all horny bastards who like things up their asses, and most men here are straight as an arrow.

In my case i am not gay, but as a male, stimulation of the prostate brings should i say enjoyment, but i dont have no desire myself for another man to do that. but i will not put down another male that doese enjoy another males company should i say.

100% straight here. I have no interest in another male doing anything remotely sexual to me or with me. I am not homophobic at all, I just like ladies for this and all other things sexual.

I love everything enema related, but even thinking of intimacy with another male sort of shuts off all my interest. The biggest problem has been convincing women that I'm not gay. After introducing them to my kink, the question has always come up.

It's no longer a problem for me, because I'm older, and my current wife will go the distance. But, I can imagine it's going to come up for you younger guys.

Straight here but if no female partner is available, I would consider the right male...but boundries would be set...no sex.

But i'd like to underline this issue .... why when a girl discovers that her man loves to keep something (possibly large') into the anus hi could be gay... Probably it's really fault of the society and it worked also on me. I can remeber when i was about 15 year old and I inserted a finger into my bottom - just good curiosity and surely other good quality - I was enough afraid about the possibility to be gay!!! and at the end i'm nothing more that a very horny male. I have to report that my principal friend from the age of 4 years up to now is really a good horny gay ... yes along the time we made just some good masturbation together, and some good comment on our very big penis .... but at the end we follow two really different streets keeping our great lasting frendship. Dou you think there are places where people grow up with just a bit more open mind?

I grow up in italy ... bye, Dado

😃 sorry i lost just two starting words

I'm also stright but ......

ciao, Dado

II dont think we need to be gay to play anal.....i think anal play is part of the erotisme,i liked so much when a female wanted to play with my anal hole as well i always like to play with female ass hole.I think the joy of sex include to play with female and male. Playing male with male or female with female doesnt mean to be gay if the purpose is to reach the joy of sex. 😉

To be bi is different from to be gay.

I love all things anal but the thought of making out with a guy is a turn off. Maybe if I had my tongue in a ladies asshole I could handle a cock in my butt especially after an enema or two. I would have to have my head totally involved with female parts though.

I think gay is the men who love men but enema its like any normal sex . u must dont worry to be a gay its not bad

No, I don't think there is an correlation between sexuality and desire for enemas, they seem gender neutral.

I love anything anal; enemas, rectal play, whatever, and I started at a young age. Gay? I don't know, maybe or maybe not. Doesn't matter that much to me either way. I do know that sex has to include my butt, whether it involves a woman or a man.

OP seems to have got over whatever fears he had, so it’s not clear that he even had a question.

But as a gay man I can say that what distinguishes a gay man is not that he enjoys enemas, or even that he enjoys anal stimulation, but that he finds other men sexually exciting.

Well-kept secret: plenty of gay men don’t even like anal sex and never do it. Those who go in for enemas would be a very small minority.

Pne-eyes said:

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. . . . Well-kept secret: plenty of gay men don’t even like anal sex and never do it. Those who go in for enemas would be a very small minority.

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I have spoken with a number of gay men, and they seem to agree for the most part that ORAL is what they most enjoy.

I have a number of very good friends that are gay and very proud of it. It took me a long time to get by my own Homophobe thinking and become the friend to these Gentlemen I should have been all along. We now talk openly and share the things we like, love, and play with. Sexually speaking they have shared with me, that it is not anal sexual acts or stimulation that is the basis for their relationship. They love the male form and enjoy the simple touching and interrelationships between two men.

I am very much into anal play and I can guarantee you that I am very heterosexual. My friends have often asked if I would like to join them to try a little bit of the darker side of sexual relations with another man. I could never do this, but I guess that is the difference between a Gay Man and a Straight Man. Or as my friends say an Inexperienced Man.

😃 Susie I have to see that arm insertion, for your Husbands health and limited dilation, big guns could be interesting.

I have loved enemas for about as long as I can remember and I have never even gave any thought to it making me gay,not that there is anything wrong with being gay.If I was I wouldnt be ashamed to tell anyone but as it is I am a straight man(Because I am in no way ever attracted to men)who just happens to like enemas along with other anal play,I fail to see how getting anal pleasure from someone of the other gender or from yourself makes you gay,I have let my ex use a strap on on me and always enjoyed it.I never ever wished it was the real thing and if it was I wouldnt want it near me lol.My view is enjoy what you like and dont care what anyone thinks,if you think enjoying anal play makes you gay you are more than free to have that view but I disagree with it,its being attracted to people that are the same gender as you are that makes a person gay in my opinion.The only penis I have any interest in touching is my own and the only people I would allow to play with my ass are female thus I consider myself straight regardless of if I find anal play exciting.In my mind its who does it not what is done that makes a person gay.

Most of the other contributors to this thread have gotten it right: men who like enemas and anal play don't have to be gay. I am gay and I think "gayness" is genetic. Our brains are wired differently than straight people's. The male form is visually sexually attractive to me, more so than a woman's. Anorectal stimulation probably is appealing to both straight and homosexual people but there is some variation. Some homosexual men love anal sex and some will not have anything to do with it. There are "tops" and "bottoms." Straight people probably fall into the same classes. As long as whatever sexual gratification you are into doesn't do harm, it is probalby OK. "It's all a matter of taste," said the dog as he licked the cat's ass!

I have many friends gay and straight that enjoy enemas - Sexuality usually does not come into play with regard to enemas - If a man is straight his preference will usually be a straight partner - Some straight men who enjoy enemas will get an enema from someone who is gay, and vice versa, but there is no sex involved - At least htat has been what I have encountered

It's not what you do, it's who you do it with!

I am married to my nice female wife. The whole gay thing is why enemas fell out of fashion to beguin with. Its also the reason why none of my friends will ever see some of my most prized toys ( 4qt. silicone bag, 750 cc balloon nozzle, exam table Ect.) I Enjoy getting this stuff used on my by my wife, but could never see that happening with a man.

My SO and I have a number of gay friends (of both genders). I have no desire or feelings to have a sexual experience with any of them. They are, however, very good friends. Being anal erotic in itself does not mean that you are gay.

I crave prostate centered orgams triggered by anal toys.

I bond with my fellow golfers and enjoy going bowling or to a baseball game with them.

I get a lot of pleasure out of a good solitary enema and make an art out of picking nozzles, solutions and bags.

Going to the local adult store and buying anal or enema toys is a real hoot.

I like massages from either my wife or from a male masseuse.

I like to be pegged by my wife and am totally turned on by the feeling of her breasts rubbing back and forth along my back as she thrusts into me.

Do some guys look good. Yes. However the look of a tight female ass in a pair of snug jeans really does it for me. I look at that butt and immediately fanticize what I'd do with it ! I know which fingers I'd use to reach around and caress her breasts and where I would kiss her on the back of the neck.

If I wound up on a deserted island with only another man? Yes, I'd figure out a way to seduce the guy.

Gay?--probably not. Bi-curious?--perhaps. But these aren't on my list of things to check-out today, next week or this decade.

If I were gay would I like to be a top or a bottom? I have no clue.

Both gay and straight men can be anally erotic. It does not mean they are gay. When they do solo enema sessions they probably fantasize about some pretty young female enema giver and not some young hot studly man! Just as gay men think of the young hot studly and not the female!!! Barry

How do I do enemas without it affecting my chemistry and leaving me feeling homosexual afterwards?

nancie said

How do I do enemas without it affecting my chemistry and leaving me feeling homosexual afterwards?

I'm going to guess you are being facetious about the homosexual part since you have been a member for five years and have only this ONE post.

How do I do enemas without it affecting my chemistry and leaving me feeling homosexual afterwards?

You have got to be kidding. That question implies that you believe that homosexuality is something that can be 'contracted', like a disease or something infectious. The sort of idea that scared parents can be tricked into believing or that unethical politicians love to spread around to get more votes - or so they think ...

If a person's bio-chemistry affects being gay or not, then theoretically a pill/injection/compound could be invented which when taken, could turn a person temporarily or permanently homosexual. Have you any idea how nonsensical that sounds? A gay pill?

That is even more nonsensical than 'praying away the gay'. With this last there is at the very least an element of will or consciousness involved.