Old question but I just have to ask?

The oldest sexual question around, does size matter? I have learned this is one of the most honest places to get the straight facts about old tales or fictions regarding sex.

Why I ask this is, an old Friend of mine had a nick name, we called him Inch. He had a penis one inch shorter than a foot. Honestly in the showers the man looked deformed. I honestly believe he could satisfy a horse with that monster penis of his. His sex life was a revolving door of Ladies that had heard of his sexual prouess.

Inch married a wonderful Lady who did not break 4 feet 11 inches and very petite. Go figure. So that is my old question. In our wonderful old World of Kinks and sex on the darker side, does size matter?

Isn't the reason that size is important to make certain the female doesn't gag too much?

:-))

And here is the proof!

www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/the_truth_about_size.htm

"If she wants to orally stimulate her partner she may prefer a small penis because a large one either causes her to choke or makes her jaw muscles ache."

I always consider my penis was very small compared to other men, but my wife says its the right size for her

From a lady's point of view, and just this lady, yes it does very much I have never wanted an anaconda I'm extremely happy with an average size man as a matter fact anything larger just hurts me I know there is a very thin line between pain and pleasure but guess where that line is drawn with me? As for ladies that like a large man I say more power to you but most of my friends feel the same as me I don't need my cervix beat to death just to enjoy intercourse, and I would sure not want to try anal with a man that was anything near large, as for oral who wants to gag all the time eventually I’m going to puke if that happens. So all you guys out there who are average or less more power to you!

irme

Irme,

You are now the Honorable Judge for all Zity.BizLand!

Yours is "The honor and privilege of being a judge!"

I humbly kneel before you

I am a big guy at over 6 foot tall and 250 Lbs. I have a smaller then average penis. My wife is small being under 5 feet tall and 100 Lbs. She had to be on top but never had a concern with size. I do not think size is an issue at all between loving couples.

I'm also on the short side, 5 inches or so when erect, but fairly thick. There have been no complaints, any more than I would mock a woman for small breast size.

Luvanal

While you’re down there...................

Here is one more point crude as it may be I have heard women speak of how large there man is, and all I can think to myself is did you not just admit to having a large pussy if you can handle all that?

Also the men I have been with that are large (Only once) have always been lousy lovers Not to say all are (CYA) but the ones I have had were I kind of think they think a big dick is all they need to satisfy a woman well here is a news flash guys with big dicks You ain't all that! Again I am just giving my opinion I would never want anything more than what I have at home and he is nicely average

irme

Thank you Luvanal for you complament, and average to small guys you rule!

As you wish Irme,

He says while licking his lips - and Hers!

I've heard that size doesn't matter from some and that it does from others. Ususally it matters when it's too big. I'm a bicurious male and to a point, the bigger the dildo in my ass, the better.

A friend did a play on some old saying, It's not the size of the wand, it's the skill of the magician which counts.

Yeah, Irme, if it's too big, the guy might indeed rest on his laurels rather than learning to please.

I CAN say that I have a recurring fantasy about having a Large-Dicked Lover just once, because I suspect I'd come the moment he entered my vagina. Instant g-spot orgasm, game over. But after that, he'd have to have some genuine hard-earned (pun intended) skills.

I was told by my gf that my size is perfect for her. Now I dont know if size really does matter, or that old saying its how you use it make more sense. To me a big penis, doesnt do much if you can use it right, plus, most women have canals that are only a few inchs long. So say if the vagina is 6 inches long speaking theoretically, and you have a 10 inch penis, some of that length will never get in. I know the vagina can stretch, but really would a 10-12 inch penis feel that good????

The only reason that I can see for having a large penis (lengthwise) is if the man or woman is obese and the extra inches are necessary for even REACHING the point of entrance, In the matter of girth, a woman's primary erogenus receptors (beside the brain) are near the forward entrance to the vagina, running only a short way back. The length of the stroke may excite this area more, but they would be overcome by Rapidity (if there is such a word) of the piston.

If you look at a charts side view of the internal female genitals or digitally feel past the cervix there is a space beyond it. Whether nature intended this to be a 'runaway' zone for penises that are too large we may never know, but if it weren't there, the G-spot may never have been reached. Essentially, even an average sized penis when it nudges past the cervix will cause discomfort in the female, although some say afterwards it intensified the pleasure. (pleasure/pain paradox) Though I'm average sized, I've had women of average size almost bolt upright when in the missionary position when driving it home. Whereas when doing it in the 'doggy' position or side reclining rear positions, there's no such reaction, though in these varied positions it is at least more likely to hit the G-spot with the penis.

On a final note: I've noted that for those struggling with trying to procreate that the doggy style is nature's way of telling us that if it's worked well for animals for millions of years (though less intimate) this is the way it should be done. Generally an erect penis arches upward or ejaculates upwardly as it exits the head. If the penis slips past the cervix as in the missionary position just as it spurts, instead of being aimed square at it from in the anterior position, that the odds of getting more sperm into the uterus are diminished. Though the success is governed by the strongest swimmers, you don't want the effects of gravity (and all the juices you've stirred up) to overcome your guys before they can even get in the 'door'. For those having trouble conceiving, every guy counts, especially for those with low sperm counts. Good luck.

Ah, I see we need to define terms. For me, a big penis is more about girth than length. Yes, a really too-long shaft hits the cervix, and if it's too hard a slam, the pain can make you jump right out of bed.

My husband's cock is just a little too long, and when he would a long slow shove in as far as he could, then hold it, I came more than once as he held it. I have NO idea why. This worked with me lying flat on the bed facedown, or doggie style or missionary, but it was best with me flat on my stomach, arching my back so he can get in, then closing my legs, with his thighs lying on top of and aligned with my thighs. ANY movement would set me off, and him soon after, very little exertion possible, or needed.

When I think of a big penis, in my head I see a thick cock, which fills you so full it is exquisite. A thick cock reaches all the places which make me come hard, and each stroke pulls on the labia, which in turn pull on my clit.

I think you could say I'm an equal opportunity cock lover.

Being "average" I have had no complaints. In face, with a few ladies I have been with, I have been told I was just the right size and as for anal sex, they saiid I was big enough to satisfy and not to big to fit without pain.

Speaking as a bottom I do like my men to be big and have stamina. But years ago I found big cocks intimidating. Fool that I was 😢

Well, so long as you asked, I tend to agree that too big is not good and I have to admit I've never experienced too small. If it is enough penis to make me have an orgasm it is enough.

My fiance and i recently had a conversation about this. she said that in talking with some of her friends alot of them were disappointed in the size of their partners. I asked her is she was happy with my size. she is very happy with me, and after talking to her friends shes even happier.

I wish I were a bit thicker. Then again, I'm glad I'm not thinner than I am, or shorter for that matter. My 6" suits me fine. Even at that average length, missionary position usually allows me to bottom out in my partner on long, deep strokes. I enjoy that feeling and never go to hard for fear of injuring her.

But still, I'm sure most average guys wish for a little more. And, I'm no different.

Yes indeed, size does matter, and it matters to everyone,male or female. But size to everyone is different. And I have said many times about finding the right fit, some people don't fit at all, some fit okay, some fit good and great, then sometimes you get very very lucky and find the one and only perfect fit. Not to brag, but I have done this. We are a perfect match.

I like my men at least average, Doc happens to have 7 inches, but I don't care about the length, I like the girth and he has that too. I like and want that full feeling, and to be honest, because we don't see each other all that often, I want to be sore for a good few days to a week after I leave him, and he doesn't let me down. ANd he says any tighter and he wouldn't be able to either get in at all, or he would be very sore and not be able to go multiple times a night, then all day, then all night, .......you get the picture. So for us, it's just perfect all the way around, no pun intended.

Mashie

She said "who ya gonna please with that little dick?"

He replied " me baby, me "

>😄 made me post it!

There was one of many that her doctor told her my penis was too big for her, she was 5'4 and the tightest I ever entered, I left her like a jerk.

It matters to me. I like to feel my man deep inside and I need girth. Yes they can be too big but that's only happened to me once. Too small has happened more times than I care to remember 😢

In my personal experience I have seen that size does matter. What matters more though is being able to use your dick for something other than just pounding into something. I know that one woman I was with her old mate had a longer dick than I did but mine had more girth than his so it made up for the length. I am not small by any means but I am also not 12" as long as the girl can feel it then I think that is all that matters. You don't want something too big that will rip.

My mate now, not trying to brag, but I am the biggest she has ever been with and I can tell that I am because she has the vagina of a virgin still. She also had never had an orgasm from a guy before me either. Again I am not bragging just stating facts.

So you don't want too small and you don't want too big. Average is good in most cases.

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Skybear, I love it when the devil makes you post things, they are always so naughty, or totally funny. Either or, both are fantastic. lol.

Mashie

I suppose that in reality the oldest sexual question worldwide is not: "Does size matter?" but rather: "Is he fertile without any hereditary disease?"