Crying - Spanking

There are lots of stories posted here that mention crying. I'd like to start some discussion around that. How many of you find crying to be a major turn-on when it comes to spankings?

I do, for one.

Some people enjoy the "simple pleasure" kind of experience: spanking as an erotic stimulant, enema as a simple sensual relaxing pleasure. The "ooh, that feels good" sort of thing. Leaves me cold, both giving and receiving.

There's the stoic thing, where you have to keep still and count your spanks, or you choose to be very controlled in the face of discomfort or pain. Also not a turn-on for me.

There's the extreme pain or shock reaction: over-the-top screaming and that sort of thing. Big turn-off for me. Not into outright torture. Not in the least.

Then there are the experiences where you're free to express your distress, and ultimately wind up crying. Crying from fear, humiliation, discomfort, pain. Crying because you thought you were done, and oh god you're going to get yet another spanking, another quart, another enema. Steady hopeless crying as the enemas go on, brief urgent crying as you pass another crisis; crying as a catharsis because you're plain overwhelmed by what you're experiencing. There are lots of expressions of distress that are related to crying, that work for me too: moans, helpless muttered pleas, struggles; if they have the same feel as a good cry.

I saw an enema nurse a few times. At first she would say things like "if you cry I will spank you harder". Later I convinced her to change the role-play, so she became more of a person who liked to hear me cry; who was trying to make me cry.

And of course, when I see, read about, or fantasize women getting spanked or getting forced enemas, the crying type of response is what really turns me on.

Thoughts?