Must I be blunt... Or is there another way?

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, the relationship is great etc etc.

He knows I have a thing for sexy nurses and stethoscopes. He has bought me a a hot medfet DVD and even used the stethoscope I left strategically on the bed to listen to my heart beating while we had sex, but I am still left wanting more.

I want him to be my play doctor and examine me but because it's my ultimate fantasy I feel really shy about saying it flat out...it is the one thing in out relationship I am not being open about.

To make it even more complicated I feel like if I tell exactly what I want to happen, action by action/word by word it will retract from the fantasy. Maybe because one of the aspects of medfet exams I'm aroused by is not knowing what is going to happen next.

I know it's not fair to expect him to know exactly what to do when it comes to my fetish and I know it may sound more logical to tell him straight up, but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas of how I can tell him subtly or leave him more hints?

Thanks

Being subtle might leave you not getting what you want.

Most guys would love to know what drives their lady wild. Just an idea...but maybe prepare a box or small bag with everything you would like used as part of your exam (stethoscope, speculum, or whatever). Along with that, perhaps leave him a little note telling him how much you want HIM to examine you. If you can somehow incorporate it into some sexy/kinky Valentine's Day play...even better.

Who knows...maybe he wants to take it to the next level but is afraid of crossing the line. Open the door for him, be a little forward or forceful in letting him know what you want and how you want it. Don't expect him to do everything perfectly the first time. Just know that practice will make perfect...but someone has to make the first move. 😃

Good luck, and keep us posted on your progress!

Get a play doctor's bag and greet him at the door handing him the bag with "Be my doctor tonight?". Dress appropriately.

Men are not mind readers, stuff most of what you want him to use in that bag.

Good luck!

I have to say, what the gentlemen above have posted should work a charm. Let's face it, short of whacking your guy over the head with a 2X4, this would be the preferred way, and the perfect time to give it a shot. As ably pointed out, men are not mindreaders, but they are great!

Play On!

LadyDoc

The being direct and asking does make things go your way much easier. I just did this with watersub. I told him a fantasy that had been bothering the heck out of me for over a week. He was so nice, he made my fantasy come to life. I was such a happy patient afterwards(for days actually).

I definitely agree with the other ladies. Tell him what you want. Expecting someone to read your mind will not yield a satisfying result. NEXT TIME or the time after that, once he has some experience, you can see if he can read your mind.

I like the idea of giving him a doctor's bag filled with toys and telling him to make use of them all.

You might even give him a cheat sheet of what you would like to experience. That way he can improvise on the order and content a bit and still give you what you want.

The doctors bag is a great idea, good luck

I'll admit that I haven't read all the posts in this string so there may be ideas that I could try, but I am truly fearful of the reaction my significant other would have. I really believe she would share the fetish or at least excitement based on things she's said but also believe she would be way too embarrassed if she thought I knew and worse if I had posted about it. I'd Like to think I'm creative but can't think of a way to open the subject.

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I'll admit that I haven't read all the posts in this string so there may be ideas that I could try, but I am truly fearful of the reaction my significant other would have. I really believe she would share the fetish or at least excitement based on things she's said but also believe she would be way too embarrassed if she thought I knew and worse if I had posted about it. I'd Like to think I'm creative but can't think of a way to open the subject.

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There are seven posts in this thread before yours. Why haven't you read them? You might find something helpful.

My mistake, for clarity there are 2 index pages of subjects on this specific topic,"How to get him/her to share the joys of medfet?" I chose to post my response in this thread in response to the title containing, "is there another way" I found NOTHING that would be helpful in the 7 responses. Thank you though.