Chaperones

Hi, im looking for a girl who i can chaperone when she sees a doctor....partucularry keen to watch a doctor feel your tummy or do a smear test. anyone interested in the uk?

Okay, you brought it up, so I'm just going to call it like I see it.

Are you crazy? If I was in the UK, and had an exam scheduled, the last thing I would want to do is take someone along with me that I barely knew just so that person could get their jollies watching me have an exam and spread my legs for a smear. Maybe I'm just oversensitive and you had another scenario in mind, but my answer would be a resounding NO WAY!

Chaperone? More like voyeur.

LadyDoc

"Chaperone? More like voyeur."

I understand your position ladydocisin but I think yachtie's fantasy is very common... except ..that's why there are medical videos and we share them and that's the kind of thing you do with a girlfriend or wife ( if she agrees).

Concerning voyeurism I think that's a major component of medfet.

As a playdoctor I've examined some patients during my 50 years of life ( most females one time a male), but I never examined a female patient with a chaperone like husband or boyfriend or girlfriend, I must admit I would like o have that experience as a playdoctor...

I've examined several patients with a chaperone present.

Most times it is a dominant that arranges for me to examine a sub.

One occasion the sub was not even aware I was coming to examine her for him. He had her blindfolded the entire time and she never saw me.

One acquaintance of mine has had me examine his girlfriend while she was in town for a corporate meeting.

I have had a couple of patients who have had partners accompany them to their appointment, however they have never been in the exam room during the exam. I feel that what we have is a very intimate experience, and like seeing a real doctor, she must be free to discuss anything she wishes without any concern over another party. I would fear that in cases such as a Master bringing a Sub for an exam, their presence in the exam room would ruin the unique bond which doctors and patients need for a trusting relationship.

I'm going to have to go with LadyDoc on this one! Maybe a play exam is different. Then maybe I would think about accepting someone to accompany me to the exam. Any real exam with my physician would be a complete no-no! For one, some things about my healthcare I would like to remain with my doctor and I! Maybe others see that a bit differently and of course everyone is different and is entitled to his/her own opinions/preferences!

My partner, who is also my play Doc, has accompanied me to several play exams with other Docs. He has watched the entire exam, except for once in a while, when I have asked him to turn him away and face the wall, when the play Doc has had me to do something that I have considered fine, but totally embarrassing for me.

I have wanted my play Doc and partner along for several reasons. One, it makes me feel safer, we don't hide anything from one another, he supports me in my kink and adventures and I am sure there are other reasons as well.

If the play Doc didn't want him to watch, he would gladly stay in the next room and read his book. It is so important to communicate and have everyone discuss in advance how they are comfortable in doing the play exam. Communication is the key point. And, I have found it extremely rewarding to have my partner present during the exams. Or, again, he can also stay in the next room. It all needs to be discussed in advance.

Lady Nurse Teddy

I do agree, communication is very important and useful to keep good and long lasting relations between partners.

M.

So the first issue brought here was a bit "surrealistic", yachtie would like to find a female stranger that accept him as a chaperone to a real life appointment at a GP or a gynecologist, but like germangodess says "everyone is different and is entitled to his/her own opinions/preferences!".

Now after that the thread went for other issue: the chaperone on a playexam scenario and here we have also different kinds of opinions starting with my own fantasy, laddyteddy's experiences and the more strict position of Dr J58 admirable as usual in his coherence and realism...

I interpreted yachtie's post the same way; that he would like to accompany a female to a real-life exam. I bridled a bit at that because it seemed so intrusive to me. I would sooner take my father to an exam than a man I hardly know. As other posters have pointed out, other people may not find that strange or uncomfortable and they are certainly entitled to their point of view.

As for a play exam, I have to admit that I would not mind being examined by another play doc while my partner was present. I would also like to be examined by two docs, as long as my partner was one of them. I would enjoy watching him being examined by another doctor, but I'm afraid he shows no inclination in that department, so that's just a little fantasy that I have.

This is one of those threads that has branched into many different directions. All the posts are interesting to read because of their varied viewpoints. I may have been a little quick on the trigger where yachtie is concerned, and if so, I apologize.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Being spontaneous is part of the dynamics of this forum and when the human and intellectual quality of the members is unquestionable there is no need to apologize ladydocisin! 🌹

Neither myself or LadyDoc intended to deter Yachtie's ambitions, rather we made comments that may elicit further consideration of his expectations. I am quite sure there are a few ladies who may share his desire and be willing participants. In that regard we all wish him and his potential partner the best of luck in finding each other, with the caveat he may have a difficult search ahead.

I appreciate Amaral's comment of my "strict position" when it comes to partners in the exam room. In my opinion, both real and play exams are something which is very individual. The patient must be free to express themselves without any worry of how someone else may interpret it. What goes on behind closed doors is between the doctor and the patient, and if the patient chooses to share their experience with someone else it is their choice as to what details they do share. Patient privacy is at the top of my list of priorities, and always will be.

I think Yachtie means a real life exam and I do understand his interest. I remember an occasion while in my early 20's when I accompanied my girl friend to her GP's for a family planning appointment to get the Pill.

I waited outside in the car, but after she had finished and told me exactly what the doctor had done to her, I confess I did have a very strong yearning to be a fly on the wall in the examination room!

But in reality that was a big ask and most probably still is even in this day and age. The NHS nurses in the UK who do most smear tests nowadays are very professional and serious about their work. They put in long hours and probably won't be very amused if some young guy was hanging around in the room.

Yachtie's best option is to find himself an understanding girl friend, perhaps by way of this board, and have her make an appointment at a private clinic in the UK. Paying hard cash allows you to call the shots a little more, and having your male partner present would probably be acceptable as long as the underlying interest wasn't obvious.

And of course, bona-fide couples are most welcome for play exams...

Dr Philip - The UK Play Doctor.

I'm with Ladydoc. Yachtie is nuts. He should enjoy his fantasy, but bringing this to fruition is going to be tough in a real exam.

If Yachtie wants to "chaperone" or be present during a "girl's" exam, he should get a girlfriend and then ask her if that would be alright with her. I sincerely doubt he will find a woman who will allow a relative stranger to accompany her to a physical exam.

As a male and husband that has medical training(currently an EMT & CNA and in Nursing School) my Wife brought me with her a few times. It didn't arouse me. Do however wish Dr. Julie would have put me on the table and taught my Wife how to examine me And sure wouldn't mind having her high tech table to "play" on either. Have never thought about bringing my Wife with me but it is a thought now...