RT introduction to significant other... Suggestions

I take topless and thong pictures of a female friend of mine and we both have a good time, but i would really love to take a few pictures of her with a thermometer sticking out of her ass. I bought a thermometer a few weeks ago, but i can't think of a good way to ask her if she would do it. any help?

I know this is going to sound obvious, but here it is. Just ask her. It's going to be hard to beat around the bush (sorry, I couldn't think of any other way to say it) where that subject is concerned. If she seems reluctant, you could assure her that her face won't be shown and that she can leave her thong on until she gets used to the idea.

The worst she can do is say "no", at best she might be very enthusiastic about the idea.

Play On!

LadyDoc

Well, you can go 'up' the direct route as ladydocisin suggests and simply ask if she would allow you to take an anonymous picture - just watch out for any recognisable tattoos etc being included.

Or, you could take the route of feigned sympathy and concern, suggesting that she looked 'flushed' and maybe she had a temperature?

Whatever - you're going to have to put it into words eventually! Courage dear Nick! If she's gone topless for pics I'm sure you're not going to get a clip round the ear

I'm going to suggest that you just ask her. You are not sure of her response and maybe she will surprise you.

If you're in a sexual relationship with the woman, you should just ask your friend if she will do it. If she has allowed you to take pictures of her "privates" she may allow you, BUT if topless photos are all she allowed in the past, I wouldn't be surprised if she declines thermometer in the butt photos.

Topless photos are an entirely different ballgame from med-fet and fetish pix.

I want to thank everyone who has given me advice so far. I'll be meeting with my friend in a week or two and we plan on taking some more topless pictures. Do you think i should ask her now about the thermometer or should i wait and ask her when we meet in a few weeks?

Ask when you meet with her Nick - and when she is topless. Its a smaller step for her to agree to then.

Good luck and do let us know!

Nick,

Maybe I am missing something here, but you seem to be getting the cart before the horse. Do you have a sexual relationship with this woman, or is she just a friend who models for you? If she is just a friend who models topless for you, you probably will have difficulty getting her to pose for explicit fetish photos. If you have a sexual relationship, have you engaged in any sort of anal stimulation? Start with a finger and if she responds suggest that other objects can be very stimulating, perhaps even more so because they are smaller. If she allows a thermometer, point out how hot that looks and ask if you can take a photo.

Any women out there who are into RT play. How do you recommend that I bring my interests up to my significant other? How have you made your interests known in the past?

The individual I currently play with is all about making sure that I am happy and satisfied at the end of our session together. We have a very open and intimate relationship and if there is something I want to try, all I need do is bring it up. What's the worst that can happen? He would simply say "no thanks, not my cup of tea" but that hasn't happened yet. By the same token, he's introduced me to some areas of play that I never thought I would experience because I like him to be happy and satisfied as well.

I think the more you make a big deal out of something, the worse the reaction is likely to be. It seems pretty easy to me to say something like "honey, it would really turn me on if I could take your temperature" and then tell her why (because you just love her bottom). Or "honey, I would be really turned on if you would take my temperature. It makes me so...". You get the idea. Another tactic is to pull up a video with a temp scene and watch it together, that way you can gauge her reaction and ask her if anything in particular interested her.

Just remember, the Erotic Fairy doesn't read minds, you have to bring it up. You won't get your wish if you don't rub the lamp.

My fiancee is in healthcare. I happened to have a cold during one of our first phone calls and relayed my temp to her. Rather shyly I also mentioned the word "rectally." There was a pause on the phone and then she simply said "Ok." She came by after work and immediately spotted the uptight red thermometer case on my bed stand. Its been rectal ever since!

I agree with ladydocisin -- simply ask! I remember when I was dating my wife and I brought up the subject of things that we used to do/have happen to us when we were wee ones. It was easy to bring up the subject of how we were treated when we were sick. When I asked her about her temperature being taken she recalled how her mom used to take her's rectally. I asked her what she thought of it and she shrugged. Long story short --- before the night was out I convinced her to go to the closet and find that very thermometer. I had her on her tummy/undies down just like her mom used to do!

My wife and I were just dating at the time, and both of us in our forty's. She came over to my apartment after work one day as she quite often did. When she got there we sat on the couch and started talking about the days events when she said she hadn't been feeling well all day. With that I put my hand on her forehead and said it feels like you might have a fever. With this grin on my face I said I think we need to take your temperature and I said you know how we are going to do it. Her face got red and she said the old fashion way, I said thats right now get up and lets go to the bedroom. In the bedroom I made her lie face down, unsnapped her jeans and pulled her jeans and panties down, what a sight. I retrieved the thermometer and some lube, lubed it up spread her cheeks and inserted it into her rectum. I held it in place far about four minutes. I could see she was getting wet. After I pulled the thermometer out we had great sex. She confided in me that because of a childhood experience with having her rectal temperature taken she had always had this fantasy but had never played it out until now. Needless to say she has her rectal temperature taken often now.

I actually introduced my significant other to rt's one night when she said she wasn't feeling well. I felt her head and she was burning up. I asked if she had taken her temp and she said no she had just finished drinking some tea. I told her I could take it rectally and she was a little reluctant but agreed. I told her to roll over on her tummy. She did and I returned with the thermometer and vaseline. I lowered her panties and gently inserted the thermometer. After it was over she said that it wasn't bad at all and she got a little aroused by it. Needless to say, that's the only way now.

Over the years I've taken temps on 19 different women.....some were really into it...a few were so-so and only two didn't care for it. But the critical issue is you have to be willing to ask..and wiling to be turned down. If you're persistent...you'll generally succeed.

My experience has been that women really welcome having rt taken. The anus is intensely erogenous for them, but a penis stretches the opening too much. The little smooth thermometer has all the advantages they want.

For the experience that I had I would recommend you throw it on the game. The classic "to play doctor" or something like that ... maybe allusions just mentioned ... this way you can see his reaction and maybe make him "guess" who are you interested in things that

Over the years I have taken the RT of exactly 19 attractive females. Sometimes it is in an actual "clinical" situation e.g. you feel warm, let me take your temp and this way is the most accurate. Of the 19 I've only had two who confided afterwards that they didn't like it. The others tried to find reasons for me to bare their behinds and insert the thermometer.