In my opinion, I rather love the noise factor, whether it's due to an orgasm on either one of our parts, or the noises from spanking, either the noise the of implement being used to spank with making noise against the surface of whatever it's hitting against, or the noise the person is making from the spankings they are receiving.
I tend to be a screamer when I cum, he used to be totally dead quiet. Before we really got to know each other I actually had to ask him a few times if he came or not, he was just that quiet and still. After being in a situation that prevented him from expressing himself, for way over 20 years, I could completely understand it.
After a few times of this, I got more demanding of him, explained to him what I liked and wanted and I asked him to please try to be a little more vocal. Well, here we are 4 years later and now he does vocal perfectly. And he's sincere about it.
As far as spanking noises, well, I have no problem spanking him as hard as I want and feel he needs. So to ensure the police don't come knocking I use a mouth gag on him. I can get a little loud when he spanks me sometimes, but he really hasn't taken "full" command or owner ship over me yet to make me be loud enough for that to be a real concern....yet. He is coming into his own, and he's understanding more and more what I need, want, crave, deserve, and desire from him as far as putting me in my place verbally first, then spanking me. In the last 4 years he's gone from absolutely refusing to be spanked or spanking me, to begging me to spank him, and to going from giving me love taps on my fanny to starting to set my ass on fire, which is what I again want, need, desire, deserve, crave, and is what's best for me. I think he's strong enough now to do it. I want to see him pull his belt off in front of me while I am standing there being made to pull down my pants, bend over the bed, and count them out, one by one. And if noise should be a problem, well we have three different mouth gags, he can take his pick. Also, on an added note, I usually will be right up front with the hotel peple and tell them the truth. I say something like, "okay, here's the deal, first of all, we are night people. We usually don't go to bed until at least 3 AM, and we usually sleep until noon. Also I only get to see my man every 3 months. We don't need housekeeping services because we never leave the room and seldome have any clothes on anyway. Um we both tend to make noise, okay, I'm a screamer, (they are usually laughing or in a hard chuckle by this point), so I lean in a little closer to them, make close eye to eye contact, smile and then say, "umm, I'm not joking, so it might be in the best interest of your other guests that you give us your nicest room as far away from the other guests as you can." Then I back off a bit, so as to still have the upper hand in the conversation and then I say, "so, I want the best you got". So far it's worked about every time.
What I say to him is....You think you are man enough? Think you can beat me at my mastery of mental berating, come on my big studly hunk of man meat, show me what Daddy can do with his belt. Hehehehe.
Mashie