Best Position for a First Time?

Hello all,

I have searched some of the previous post and didn't find exactly what was looking for. If this is a repeat of any questions I apologize.

I have never had an enema but have recently become interested. I have recently been chatting with a woman and I mentioned about my curiosity of having an enema. I think at first she was surprised and maybe even turned off a little. later I think she has gotten use to it a bit and has even mentioned the possibility of helping me with my curiosity.

I have recently fantasized about an older mature woman giving me an enema. Her being the mother and me her little boy. In my fantasy I am across her knee while she administers the enema. The though of being in a submissive position for the first time in front of a woman is very exciting, as I am sure you all probably already know and have experienced.

My questions are that as I have mentioned I fantasize about her taking me across her knee and giving me an enema. Is there any problem for someone receiving an enema for the first time in this position? Are there any positions that are more comfortable for a first time? Is it any easier or harder to hold the enema in in any given position? How about the amount of fluid that would be able to be accepted? Since this would be my first I don't think I will be taking much fluid in so maybe this is not a concern. Will the over the knee position have any effect on expelling the enema and or the contents of what is expelled?

Again, since this would be my first enema, I want this to be an enjoyable experience since this is the one I will probably most remember. I want this memorable for good reasons not bad reasons.

Thank you all for any advise you can give.

Unless you are of small build, you may find over the knee to be a bit uncomfortable. Remember as a child you are not nearly as large as you are as an adult.

You may find a slight modification of being over her lap but laying on a cough or bed to me more comfortable for both of you.

Since it is your very first you may want to consider using a bulb enema rather than loading up a bag and finding out it's a lot more than you want to try and hold. It also makes it easier for the person administering it as they can play with the insertion and squeeze in a tiny bit of water just to loosen things up a bit.

You probably should be ready for a less than stellar experience, but don't get dissappointed. I could not begin to remember my very first. I am sure it was more of a shock to me than those I do remember.

If you have an experienced giver, then you can expect much more. They will certainly massage your butt hole first, lubricating it slowly and relaxing you in the process. They will also know how to fill you slowly so you can be assured of the fullness experience so many of us enjoy.

It sounds like you are going to go on an adventure with both of you being new at this, so just take it slow and don't expect everything to be perfect. Don't venture too far from the toilet!

Slow2Start,

Thank you for the advice! She is a bit experienced (giving to her children when they were growing up and she has received them for medical purposes in the past). I of course am completely new except for what I have read. I look forward to and am excited about the whole experience.

When i was growing up, my mom always game me enemas in bed with me laying on my left side. I think this is the best position!

For a first timer, I'd suggest either the left side (Simms) position or on the back with the legs spread for easy access.

I would suggest taking your first enema with your chest on the floor and you ass in the air.

That was the position I used when I started...It seemed to help me hold as thing run down hill.

Yes, left side (Sims) is good for a newbie

All of the positions recommended in this thread are good. Sims (left side), knee chest, all fours, lying down (supine or prostate), standing etc.. The best position for a newbie, I think, is the position they find most comfortable. After the first couple of times they should try another "standard" position till they find the most comfortable and satisfying. Does that make sense?

I think you should consider the comfort of your partner, you are an adult now and heavy? How about getting your partner to sit on a sofa near the arm. You stand at the side of the sofa and go over the arm of the sofa and her lap. With your thighs on the arm support your body with your elbows on the seat (pile of cushions if preferred). That way your weight is not on your partner and your stomach is free of pressure. If using a bag, my preferred method, hang it behind the sofa with the tube out the way.

I would use no more than two pints warm brine to start with. You should be able to hold that.

The first time should be a series of small (1 pint), followed by larger ones as you can tolerate them. Starting with the sims position is good as a first, then go to a knee chest position. Another popular way is to start on your right side, turn to your back, then go to your right side. This enables the water to flow to different parts of the colon. Go slow, and enjoy.

I remember my first time. I found that the most comfortable position for me was on all fours with my rear up higher than my chest. Judging from the date of your forum I would say that this has already happened. Hope you enjoyed it.

It's more comfortable to be on your left side less cramping

Rekon the best psoition on chest and knee position because it reminds my of doggy style... my favourite

I found when I first started out, that lying on the left side and having a bulb used made it much easier to take.

Good Luck, Relax and Enjoy!

I believe that the classic lying on left side with the right knee drawn up towards the chest would be the best for a first time, but anyway you do try it be sure to relaxe and enjoy.

I think just laying flat on your tummy on the bed with the bag hung on a bedpost and an adult nozzle pushed in as far as you can take it, is very sensual. Your tushy cheeka could squeeze and release as the water enters you adding to the pleasure. Just keep it simple the first time. Aussie Matilda.

I believe that the classic lying on left side with the right knee drawn up towards the chest would be the best for a first time

I agree. Just lay the bag on your hip for a nice, slow flow. Raise it with your hand if you want. Water about 100 deg -- just above body temp.

Laying on your left side will give you the gentlest experience

The left side is the least revealing, which might be good for someone who is modest. The legs-up diapering position is the most revealing but also was recommended for children especially in home care books during the enema "golden age."

Three keys:

1. Let gravity do the work;

2. Keep to abs contracted;

3. Be completely undressed.

Therefore, best position is on elbows and knees, butt in the air. Keeps to transverse colon low, and keeps the abs contracted. You'll need a partner to control the flow and keep the nozzle in position, but it's the best, even though it's a little embarrassing.

The position for a first enema is no different from the position for a 100th enema! Knee Chest! Teach that first, then you can do Sims' on less-than necessary enemas.

My first time was lying slightly on my left side with my right knee bent up, it worked well for me.

My first enemas as a kid in the childrens hospital were administered while on my back which I loved because I enjoyed watching the nurses pour the green soap solution into the enameled white funnel.Therefore,my fav enema position is the twisted position whereby my shoulders are flat on the bed while my butt is turned on the left side.This way I can watch the red ball on the flow meter spin around as the solution disappears from the clear 3.5 qt enema container hanging from the chain above my bed.

I think thats for the first time best position is ON BACK. Because in this you are may relax very very well... And feel the REAL PLEASURE...