Real vs Play?

Ok. So it seems like anytime I chat with someone from here they're always asking about my last medical exam.

Is it just me or do other people not find real life exams erotic? To me the medfet interest is only during a play exam. When I go to see the real doctor it's because I'm sick or wanting to get checked out....there's nothing kinky about it.

How do others feel?

For me, it all depends on the reason for the real doctor's visit. If I'm there because I'm sick, then there's nothing erotic about it. But when I go for a full physical exam -- that's exciting to me.

I like going for my annual physical. I don't get too excited, though. I always hope she would take a little more time, though.

You're not alone at all, Zebra. I'm the same way. My appointments with my real doc are just another appointment on an already busy calendar, something to be gotten out of the way and definitely not erotic in the least.

Appointments with my play doc are a different kettle of fish entirely.

Play On!

LadyDoc

I get routine physicals for my job and have been doing so for 25 years. When I was younger, I looked forward to them for the hernia and rectal exams by the female doctor. Now that I am older, I dread them for fear of them finding a real problem and risk of losing my job.

Seeing a real doctor is a "have to do". Seeing the play doctor/patient is a "want to do".

Yes, Zebra, I'd say you are right about getting medical attention in real life. I think there's an overwhelmingly large majority of us posting here who are able to differentiate between fantasy medical situations and real life.

Sometimes, hearing about medical procedures/exams/tests that happen in a real setting turn people on. On a personal note, the more authentic the exam is, the better it feeds my kink. However, I echo that real exams/procedures are not typically fun and are most likely done to find out if what is happening is bad or good.

For example, I have had to have two transvaginal ultrasounds recently (both within the last six months). At the time of the initial ultrasound, it was nerve-wracking and generally uncomfortable, but a necessary test. Something bad WAS found and treated medically with me... The follow-up scan was equally as anxiety provoking, mainly because I wanted to learn that what was going on with my body was "ok" and that the medicine I was put on had worked and done its job.

Now, there are some procedures and tests that in my mind are thrilling; however, when I'm having them because of a medical necessity, they are NOT kinky and they are the furthest from being kinky to me. That's not to say that afterwards I sometimes think of certain procedures that I've had and replay them in my mind once I have peace of mind that my body is ok and they BECOME somewhat kinky.

For me, when I'm in a doctor's office, it's strictly business. I'm there to have a problem solved/looked at/etc.. I'm not there because the kinky side of me needs satisfaction.

Most of the studies are still needed by a doctor. So whether an intervention or someting else is kink depends on how you feel.

I agree with Phoebe: when the skin is yours and the problems real, all become damnably serious and worrying and certainly you have not the time and the mood to joke; play is play and real a very different thing.

M2000

For me, play & real are at opposite ends of the spectrum.

Before my accident, medfet play only consisted of uniform fetish, no medical play just the naughty nurse in the bedroom for sex.

After my accident I had real problems coping with the physical medical procedures I needed to endure as part of my daily living. It was only a close friend who introduced the idea of turning things around & playing medfet games that helped the situation & has become a big kink.

That was a long time ago now & medical play is just that, PLAY, as for being in hospital or seeing my GP, medfet is the last thing in my mind, no enjoyment to be found & while in the professional environment embarrassing & scary procedures are still that.

I am very nervous EVERY time I have a physical, which is twice a year by a doctor certified by the FAA for flight physicals. To hear the words "HMMM, you have a problem!" equals in FAA speak, "YOU DON"T HAVE A JOB!"

Ok. I am being a little over the top here, but it does happen to us older pilots. The nurse hooks you up to the EKG machine and the FAA gets the printout in Oklahoma City immediately. 24 hours later you get a envelope canceling renewal of your medical.

Play Doctor is the other end of the spectrum, Relaxed, stimulating, fun, erotic with the right person and always a happy ending.

My primary interest is my health when I see a doc.

That said, I wish I could find real doctor who could understand that I have fetish. I would feel more comfortable just knowing that they know. But I am sure that malpractice is high on the minds of care professionals and I wouldn't want anyone to feel that their livelyhood is in jeapordy, so I have never discussed it.

Like others here, my fetish really depends on authenticity. Sex is actually outside the fetish. (I guess fetish is a strong word meaning you NEED it to get off- "kink" might be more appropriate).

It is so cool reading about this. I was always very anal erotic (since I was introduced early in my sexual life) and I read about enema play maybe a couple of years ago and it kind of lurked on the corner of my consciousness but has come to life with a vengeance 😜 . I see medical play being separate both from a necessary medical but also as a distinct erotic experience and not a sexual experience as such although I find it deeply erotic and...at the moment cannot stop thinking about it!

For me the real is generaly the basis for the play. have had a couple of surgeries and it really depends on the anesthesiaologist. being put under can be a really great experience. Care can be care and have found it to be quite variable.

I like real better than play actually. If the partner cant be very realistic and professional it just not exciting

The only time I was naked in front of a doctor (and actually sick) was when I was a kid with a bladder infection. That was embarrassing, but not erotic in the slightest (in fact, it was, repeatedly, VERY painful).

I do enjoy going to my doctor (a lady) for annual exams and being naked then. I find it very exciting (even though I don't actually get erections while I'm there).

I think it's the idea of experiencing that kind of vulnerability in front of someone of the opposite sex who I really don't know very well.

I admit, though, I am sure I would feel different if I was going there and was sick. But to me, an attractive woman holding my testicles in her hand is sexy and exciting.

I never have actually participated in a play exam before, while they sound like they would be fun, I would still know in the back of my mind that it isn't the real thing, so I do not think it would be the same to me. The psychology is just too different. (not saying I wouldn't enjoy it, but not for the same reasons that I enjoy getting a real exam)

Bulk of the fetish is pretty much around play exams and the obvious lack of limitations with them. Real exams are less fun except of course for those who enjoy the true embarrassment and vulnerability during them. We do of course need the real ones to feed our ideas and supply us with new toys for the play exams : )