Problem expelling

I'm kind of new to large volume enemas (2 qt). I want to do a series of 3 but find that I have trouble expelling the 2nd one, not a strong urge to go (then I have an inflated belly). I have no problem at all expelling the 1st one. I use castill soap for the first one, the second one is use tap water with 2 tbsp salt. Any suggestions??

Try crushing 5 or 6 Dulcolax tablets and mix them in 4oz of water. When the troublesome enema is almost all in, pour in the water with the Dulcolax. You should have no problem expelling.

That would be a bit too harsh for me, but you could certainly try it. Have you tried standing up and moving around a little bit? I find that it helps to move everything through the lower intestine if gravity can do its job. And, as a doctor-friend of mine says, "Tincture of time generally cures everything".

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LadyDoc

I don't think when using enemas people can have problem with expelling

They say that using cooler water on the next enema helps. Not cold water, but a little cooler water, like 70 degrees causes the colon to cramp just enough to get everything out. My first wife,R.N, did this to me and it worked very well.

Jim

Thanks everybody for your advice, I love this website! I'm gonna do as jimmyt44 suggested and try the second enema with a little cooler water. (I have tried getting up and moving around and that helps somewhat but just not enough) I'll update y'all on how it goes.

Jimmy 44 is right on I have used cooler water with the second enema and everything went well.. I also was told this by an RN who was a personal friend. Be sure that you do not use cold water.

Try to relax and gently rub/massage your anus. Place your arm up as if to be reaching and alternate between arms. But you must relax.

I find that sometimes stretching and twisting round to the right is good at helping things move.

I also like putting a towel round my waist and pulling it in tightly as I push out.

RELAX!! it's going to take a while to get that much out.

You can get off the toilet after 20-30 minutes, when the frequent expulsions are done. You WILL still get more movements.

A high enema might take me an hour or more to release fully. Add pure sea salt to the enema so your system isn't absorbing too much solution and impacting electrolytes.

Another alternative is to add more water! You say you're using 2 quarts, which is an average sized enema for an average sized person. Refill the enema bag and give yourself more water until you feel you are overwhelmingly full and get an overwhelming urge to go! Depending on your size & experience, that might be another half quart to a quart, maybe as much as two quarts. You'll have to test yourself.

I often find my volume is lower on the first enema because I am full of poo and gas. After that is cleared out I can take more water. Perhaps you can too.

If you are "filled to the brim" the water will gush out of you without a problem.

First of all, a 2-quart enema is not really a large-volume enema. I know the size of people's colons vary significantly, but I'm also convinced that most people can take at least 3 quarts, albeit with significant cramping. Large volume or not, I've been doing enemas for a long time, and it sometimes does happen that after an initial expulsion it suddenly stops. No real urge in my gut to get rid of the rest, although I know there's plenty more water and gunk to be shat out. If I strain, it will come out in dribbles, maybe a squirt here and there, but no real satisfactory "gush" to empty me out. Kinda frustrating when it happens and the enema feels stuck.

Through the years I've attempted to read up as much as I could about this phenomenon (and it was really difficult to find much useful info), so I mostly had to take what I read from other people's experiences on a site such as this, try it out and then decide as to whether it really held true for me. I believe there are 2 "opposite" reasons for a stuck enema to happen:

A. The colon becomes overly relaxed by the enema (temperature or whatever is mixed up in there) and peristalsis is suppressed in some way or another;

B. The colon gets "knotted" (for the lack of a better word) by a kind of spasm in certain places (particularly at sharp bends in the colon like at the rectosigmoid junction), and the enema won't come out until this muscle contraction releases.

What to do about it? I believe there is a 2-fold approach which should work most of the time (it does for me, at least):

1. Use gravity to get the enema into the descending colon (your left side) by lying on your back, pushing your lower body up with your legs so your body rests on your shoulders and feet, with your buttocks raised as high as you can. Massage the water on the right side of your belly in this position (which is downhill) towards your midriff. Then you have to perform a bit of a contortion. Rotate you body towards the left, while keeping the right side high and dropping the left side down, until you lie completely on your left side. Pull the legs up, and remain in this position for a while. Most often you'll feel and hear the water gurgling towards your left side. Then get up while in this position (don't roll over on your back again) and go for the toilet.

2. Get yourself in the best expulsion position, which I have found to be either a squatting position (get a footrest of some sort to raise your feet about a foot off the ground while sitting on the toilet), or simply by bending forward as far as you can in the sitting position, grabbing your ankles or touching the ground. Don't be in a hurry here, it may take some time but this is a particularly good way to go from stuck to a gusher. You may have to repeat these steps a few times, to get it all out.

Let us know if this works out - good luck!

If you get really blocked, it can cause REALLY awful cramps. But, I'm guessing that isn't what is happening to you. If you can walk up and down a flight of steps a couple times, you will almost CERTAINLY get another load of water to come down. Twisting to one side and holding it for 10 seconds or so can often help. You want to twist far enough so you are looking over your shoulder. See which side gets the best effect. Also, if the first castille soap enema is too strong, that can cause the colon to cramp up and make it hard to expel.

I'm glad for the helpful advice in this thread. In fact, Situations in general has been a great asset for me when it comes to enema and anal play. I run into expulsion issue sometimes and the best solution had been to play with a toy to massage the opening to the sigmoid, usually rapidly. However, that never seems to get it all. The idea to use cooler water makes tons of sense but I never considered it. I always use warm water because the colon is more accepting of it. Now I realize that it can be too accepting. Several warm enemas will relax and distend my colon to the point where I can take 4 or more quarts very quickly, like in under 5 minutes. I'll just do that with cooler water instead. The rapid fill should allow me to take it all before the water temperature has the desired effect. In fact, I'm excited by thinking about how pleasurable it will be to expel more in a single expulsion. It's always great when the large ones last for awhile, rather than a series of smaller ones. I'll report back.

I accidentally found out that a hollow butt plug will let out alot of water you may not have known you were holding.I also suggest ya keep some towels on the floor and don't stray to far from them,because you never know when its coming 😃

If you put your right hand on the toilet seat under your upper thigh, lower buttock and relax like that, the enema will come out better within about 30-60 seconds

I had a female friend give me an enema session. She started out with a small chemical enema( enema eze) to clear the lower colon. Then two soapsuds enemas of 2 qts and then 2 salt water enemas of 2 quarts each. I was really cleaned out. We sat around for another half hour and then I had to leave. About half way home, I was 10 miles from home and on the freeway), more water had to come out. I barely made it off of the freeway and had to stop at a McDonalds to expel. thought I was going to let loose in the car. The water goes up really high and takes time to work it way out. It was a lesson learned for me.Now I take one soapsuds enema, one salt water enema and one coffee enema for my weekly series. Never more then 2 quarts in each enema. The coffee enema is only one quart.Sometimes I put peppermint oil in the 2nd bag. Works well

As some other responses have said, two quarts is not a very high volume enema. I practice Gerson therapy, which is a two quart coffee enema every morning, and will follow with a four to five quart salt/soda enema in the evening. The first enema will be fully drained in a half hour or so, but the gallon enema will usually take the rest of the evening to completely drain. The best advise is to plan your enema times around a schedule that allows you at least two hours to empty all of the enema.

Years ago I started taking enemas that were mostly water, or salt water. It would take over two hours to completely expel, making it unsafe to be out of reach of a toilet. After a few soap enemas I found these seem to empty much quicker. So, now that's all I do anymore. I think that very mild enemas that are mostly water get trapped in areas of the colon. Good soap enemas are the answer, or any enema that would cause the colon to cramp a bit.

I don't do large volume enemas but I do want to expel what I take in. Even though my enemas are not large volume, they do travel high up into my colon which always takes longer to expel. I have had success in finishing my enemas sessions being able to expel all of the enema at the end of my session so I can leave the house with confidence that I won't need to have an emergency to release a remaining enema.

So here is a trick you can do which does help get the last bit of the enema out. I like to usually finish off with some kind of anal toy at the end of my session. I do my enemas in the laying in the bathtub. I will insert the toy and have a great orgasm but when the toy is removed often the last remaining bit of the enema will be expelled. I quickly wash away what comes out for easy cleanup. Using an anal toy, dildo, or anal beads really seems to stimulate your bowels for that last push to expel the remain enema and it has been very effective for me.

No problem. The secret is only one: move move move on toilet during expulsion. Left-right-left-right and massage your belly. Relax!

RELAX. The rest will come out in a couple of hours. Don't worry about it!!