Rimming

My husband has rimmed me several times, but I don't like it, mostly because I don't want him sick from E. coli of something like it.

My husband has rimmed me several times, but I don't like it, mostly because I don't want him sick from E. coli of something like it.

@JillyBot I can understand your concern. No one wants anybody to get ill from this. I can also understand his attraction to your ass and his desire to rim you. Maybe invite him to the bathroom/shower to help with a lengthy cleaning and purifying ritual. You can work up a lengthy list of steps for cleaning inside and outside, back and forth, different soaps then shampoos. Squeeze bulbs, wash cloths, fingers… cleaning and teasing go well together. After a ridiculous amount of backdoor cleaning play you may feel slightly more comfortable and be able to relax later when it’s just his tongue wagging around.

@JillyBot Agree with @Hookajoe, if you clean well and you and your husband are healthy, I think the risk is small IMHO (I’m not a doctor, just my opinion). While 90% of us have E Coli bacteria strains in our gut, most strains are perfectly harmless and relatively few strains are harmful. Chances are if someone has a “bad” strain of it, they’d be experiencing some symptoms. Still, it’s your comfort level and decision to indulge or not with rimming. My wife and I did it for years and the only negative effects were sore jaws! 😀

I’d be cautious with recreational partners, ( if I played that way), but I’m guessing you and your husband are most likely fluid compatible and share a lot of the same bacteria.

https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/what-is-rimming#safety

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7523338/#:~:text=In%20cross%2Dsectional%20studies%20of,%25%20of%20individuals%20(7)

Actually every healthy human has Escherichia coli (E. coli) type bacteria living in their guts. Only few strains are harmful and those who carry them in overwhelming majority of cases suffer from infection. Rimming is safe, unless person doing it has compromised immune system or person being rimmed is sick with harmful harmful E. coli, but that would rather make them not interested in sexual activities, or is rare freak of nature that is immune to harmful strains.

I have been rimming women since i was a teenager. I don't ask them to clean up or do anything besides enjoy the sensation. The taste nor the smell bothers me. I have even ingested some of it over the years and have never had any ill effects. Not even an upset stomach and honestly i believe in my maker and when he decides it is time to go i will go because i am 62 and have outlived many of my friends. Keep the faith friends

@JillyBot Agree with @Hookajoe, if you clean well and you and your husband are healthy, I think the risk is small IMHO (I’m not a doctor, just my opinion). While 90% of us have E Coli bacteria strains in our gut, most strains are perfectly harmless and relatively few strains are harmful. Chances are if someone has a “bad” strain of it, they’d be experiencing some symptoms. Still, it’s your comfort level and decision to indulge or not with rimming. My wife and I did it for years and the only negative effects were sore jaws! 😀

I’d be cautious with recreational partners, ( if I played that way), but I’m guessing you and your husband are most likely fluid compatible and share a lot of the same bacteria.

Got to agree (mostly) with @Rigel here. Actually, 100% of humans are colonized with E coli, and if you're living with your husband, the likelihood is that cultures of your stools would be almost identical. He's safe rimming you, especially if you take some precautions with cleaning beforehand. If either of you had harmful E coli strains, it's likely that you'd have symptoms.

Nothing more sexy than licking a nice clean ass

I have done it actively and passively several times. And it was always very stimulating an intense.

@GraceT

I perfectly agrees with you it is very intimate and private.

For one woman I shared rimming jobs with it was the most intimate you can get.

My wife and I have been exploring rimming lately. She finds anal stimulation REALLY pleasurable so I started introducing rimming. We only do it after showers so everything is very clean.

Sometimes we do it with her prone on the bed as foreplay for inserting a butt plug. My favorite way though is with her bent over edge of the bed with her ass in the air. Then when I’m fucking her and getting too close, i can pull out, drop to my knees and bury my face in her ass. Usually I pair this with two fingers pressing/rubbing her g-spot.

Agree with the other posters though, this is super intimate and I’m glad my wife can open herself up to me this way. I also enjoy anal play but I’m not sure I could get over my self consciousness to enjoy being rimmed.

I rimmed my wife once a few months after we got married. She had an irresistible little pink balloon knot of a butthole that I just couldn't resist. Only she wouldn't let me anywhere near it for the sake of intercourse until later in our marriage. But this particular day she had been to get a colonic. She took a shower before coming to bed, and I often gave her back and tushy rubs. Knowing her rear end was nice and clean, inside and out, I decided to try and tickle her starfish with my tongue. I did it few minutes into the tushy rub. I spread her cheeks and dove into it, raking my tongue across it. I could feel her instantly tighten up against my tongue and she shrieked "NO! WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!!??? I told her I'd always wanted to try it. I calmly said "you're clean back here, no harm done", but she said "It's still gross!". I told her "yeah, but you stick your finger up my butt sometimes", and she said "with gloves on honey, and only after I give you an enema and you have a shower."

That said, I didn't press the matter, but at least I got to try it just once. Didn't taste anything gross by the way. It smelled and tasted like the shower gel she bathes with. Feels kind of like pushing your tongue into the stem pit of a warm plum, only she tightened up.

I remember my dirty talking cousin, joking about rimming girls' assholes in college. He said "it's just like touching your tongue to a 9V battery"🤣 I laughed and asked "will it make you jerk your head back?", and he said "no but hers will!" I asked "so how did it taste?", he said "like licking an old Canadian penny"🤣

I particularly enjoy having my booty rimmed. I take a full enema and shower beforehand because I want good partners to taste me deeply without fear of offending and I want to be confident he'll enjoy the session.

There's something about the excitement of opening my booty for a man to see, sniff, breathe onto, lick and taste my most vulnerable space before he tops me.

Do you do several enemas to get really clean, or just a quick one to empty the lower colon/rectum? I worry that either way some enema might leak out during