For starters...

Does anyone suggest a basic way to start out with the medical fetish? I hope this question makes sense but is there one thing that most people into this fetish all like. It just seems like a broad area and I'm wondering if there is one "common" element that can help me.

I don't know that there is one "common" interest, although there are areas of interest that several of us have in common. Was that confusing enough? Some of us like rectal temps, others could care less. Some people love auscultation, to others a heartbeat is just proof that a patient is alive.

If you're just starting out in the fetish, a good foundation would be to learn how to do a basic physical exam. You can slant your area of interest depending on whether your patient is male or female. If you want to keep it even more basic, there is a CD-ROM available called "The Apprentice Doctor". It's an Australian educational package that's geared towards middle to high school aged students in either a Biology program or healthcare education. It's not intimidating at all. It was a bit elementary for my taste, but it would be a big help for someone just starting out. If you're interested, PM me and I'll dig up the link for you.

My advice is to start small and work up from there. Don't attempt anything that makes you uncomfortable or that you're not familiar with. Educate yourself and always play safe, and play sane.

Welcome to the forum, you've found a great place to learn. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. There is no such thing as a stupid question, unless it's the one that you don't ask!

Play On!

LadyDoc

You should identify the specific aspect of exams which you find exciting. Think back over exams you have had and remember what part(s) gave you excitement. Also identify the emotion that occurs which stimulates you. For instance, is it embarrassment, sexual stimulation, or fascination with the physical diagnosis process. In my case, the exciting sensation is embarrassment. The particular part of the exam that I focus on is the exam of the genitalia. I get excited by the fact that the doctor is in complete control and gives instructions which the patient has to obey.