Having a real nurse/caregiver

In 1989 i had my 4Th spinal surgery and while i was in the hospital my wife left me and my three young daughters ??? (she got into drugs and no longer wanted to have to take care of me and our small children) when i released from the hospital the state provided a live in home nurse/care giver (it cost me 100.00 a week and the state paid the rest) one was a approx 35yr old woman and the other was a 40 yr old guy. they both cared for me and my daughters dressing and helping clean house and fix meals while also changing me and dressing me (i was paralysed from the chest down) the woman loved my kids 2,4,and 6 yrs old and was just a caregiverthe male nurse was also gay so after the kids went off to daycare he had figured out i was bi and was into being treated as a sissybaby. 😉 so he treated me accordingly >😄 during diaper changes i was usually treated as he or i wanted and usually given a bottle or pacifier (and sometimes something else to suck) for 6 months this went on until he went back to school and i started to get around better.

if you have it in your medical records and a doctor or rehab specialest says there is a medical need you can get a home nurse/caregiver at some cost paid by the state/government

now 21 yrs later I'm walking again and doing the constant (and frustrating) search for a daddy 😢 😳

I am spinal cord injured and I have an aide in the morning. She helps me with my diapers, but it's very businesslike. I'm not remotely attracted to her.

I did have a different aide a few years back that was cute. She took her time at making sure I was dry and applying powder before taping me up. At first I was embarrassed because my penis would be so erect, but she was really cool about it.