Boys and Sissy's

OK this question is about why it seems if you are a boy and a adult baby most want to become a sissy girl! But if you are a girl and a adult baby you stay the same. Now i know the diaper fetish thing is about embaressment a little bit or submisive things or that feeling of being forced thing. But i always thought about why it seems most boys want to turned intoa sissy baby and not a boy baby? I want to become a boy toddler not a girl toddler. anybody can think of reasons why for this let me know

There is just something about being in diapers and dressing as a girl that i constantly crave. i think it's got something to do with how soft and smooth girlie clothing feels. especially when in diapers. satin, silk, chiffon... not just for girls anymore.

For me, It's the cute soggy droopy pink or yellow plastic pantied covered cloth diapers peeking out from under a frilly baby dress and mommies or female babysitters checking for poop or pee

Well they are both taboo thoughts; It may be that many males never allow themselves to discover a fascination for either, because they routinely and powerfully block out taboo thoughts. If it comes to the fore however, through some experience e.g. a dream, the sexual excitement and masturbatory orgasms will undermine and ultimately destroy the thought blocking. I think if you get to the point where you overcome the shame and guilt about openly thinking about, and become excited about being in nappies or diapers and helplessly infantile, its a very small step to acknowledging an excitement about wearing girly things and being helplessly sissy; and in fact they can compound each other.

For me its the being taken care of by a nurturing woman. Wether she is the same age or older does not matter, if she is a nurse or dressed like one that's a bonus. But I am definately a boy, not really a younger boy, but a man who needs to be taken care of. Recently this has kind of taken a form of its own, I have actually had a few "real" accidents when not taking my sleep aids, and my wife has been very supportive. She wants me say something to my Dr., but I am too embaressed at this point. Anyhow, she is still diapering me every night and applying the A&D in the right places while giving me a good dust up with the diaper powder. So I can't complain if she's not, one day I'll find the courage to talk to the Dr., but untill then my self diagnosis will be, this is how I deal with all the stress in my life.

Good question. I guess we boys crave all the fun stuff girls can have, dresses, skirts, flouncy stuff. The diapers are the domina/sub thing, or it’s just longing to be small.

I myself dress as a girl (when I dress up) at home, or for diaper lovers parties. And I wear diapers as often as I can, and I have recently emboldened to wear a skirt outside and going into town. And I always wear diapers with skirts, preferably thicker, because there’s not enough room under jeans for more than one disposable diaper. I do have a pair of sweat pants (or gym/jogging pants), and they’re roomy enough for a diaper and two soakers. But nothing beats a skirt for comfort and style.

I think I am like around 7-10 when I play. I’m no toddler and have really not been much interested in that.

Just my 5¢.

Frankly,

I don't want to be turned into a little girl at all. I'm not really sure most of us do, though it certainly seems like many would like it.

Danny

I think it's because it's easier to show off my plastic panties and bulky cloth diapers while wearing a short baby dress and also looking cute,hopefully 😜 😜 😜 😜

Wearing soft girlie clothes over a snug diaper is total Heaven 😃

I've kind of noticed the same thing. I've never wanted to be babied or humiliated or anything like that. I've always just enjoyed the way diapers feel. Aside from wearing diapers, I'd much prefer to be tough as possible, sort of grizzled or rough around the edges. Really, wearing diapers doesn't even fit my personality at all but somehow, I just like them.

I think it has to do with an element of some flash and excitement to some. For the most part boys clothes are boring, practical. There is allot of pressure on boys, to be boys from the very start. The same might be said about girls too, but it doesn't seem as though there is the same intensity for a girl to be sure she act like one. A girl might be forgiven for being tomboyish, but once a boy shows any sign, real or not of sissyishness, he's a "sissy". Lots of peer pressure. Oh and thank the Victorians for the whole "pink is for girls & blue is for boys" thing. Before the Victorian age, there wasn't much color to gender recognition.

I like to be a sissy baby because you can wear lovely frilly baby pants and dresses over your nappies and it is more obvious you are nappied. Also it is more humiliating to be dressed as a sissy baby when you are a boy

I became incontinent as a result of a surgical mishap when I was 14 years old and had to wear a diaper with plastic pants 24/7 throughout my first 3 years of high school. During that time, I was ruthlessly teased, bullied and often called a "sissy baby." As an adult I try to act as masculine and macho as possible given that I have had to go back to wearing a diaper 24/7/365 for the past 30 years or so. Although I've become a dl to some extent, fantasizing about being a "sissy baby" is the last thing I would ever do.

I too like to be dressed like a sissy when I have my diaper on I have even started buying girls diapers and prefer those over boys ones I Even like to wear girls underwear while wearing diapers.

I got sissybaby dress i wear at the weekend with my diapers and frill plastic pants

I was a sissy first. Diapers are new to me. I feel right in love with them. They r warm and cozy I like the crinkle and the waddle.

I started with diapers because mistress is planning on ruining my back door to catch leaks. She convinced me to try them and I was hooked after me first wetting.

Anal ruin or not I will enjoy diapers

@Shawn_Jessica_Sissy what is an anal ruin?

Wide open gape: The anus would stay dramatically stretched—often 3–4 inches across or more for minutes (or longer with training). You’d see deep into the rectal canal: smooth, pinkish-red mucosa lining visible, sometimes glistening with lube or natural moisture.

• Puffy and relaxed ring: The sphincter muscles would be fully relaxed and thinned out, looking like a soft, elastic O-ring pulled wide. Edges might appear slightly swollen or flushed from the intense stretch.

• Prolapse/rosebud possible: At this size, rectal tissue often “blooms” outward (prolapse)—a puffy, reddish “rose” protruding 1–3 inches, soft and sensitive. It’s common in extreme stretching and can be worn or played with.

• Sensation: Intense burning stretch turning to deep fullness/ache—prostate heavily pressured for waves of pleasure. Afterward: loose, “empty” feeling, possible temporary numbness or throbbing.

Long-Term Changes (With Consistent Training to Maintain 4”)

• Semi-permanent looseness: The sphincter loses tone—doesn’t fully close at rest (patulous anus), staying slightly open (1–2 inches) or gaping easily. Full recovery takes hours/days instead of minutes.

• Ruined/slutty look: Soft, elongated ring; frequent rosebud prolapse on straining. Many describe it as “slit-like” or permanently puffy—visually erotic for size queens but life-changing.

• Functional effects: Higher risk of incontinence (gas/mucus leaks common; full fecal control issues in some). Needs plugs/diapers for security during daily life.

What an interesting question!

Just over a year ago my husband told me he’d like to role play as my little/baby girl, and we’ve been exploring this ever since.

He has a very stressful job, and I think being treated as a toddler/baby, with zero responsibilities, helps him relax.

Part of the fun is the humiliation he feels at being put back into nappies, and I often tease him about “still needing nappies” at his age.

Wearing girly frills adds to that sense of humiliation for him.

I flirt with my sissy side now and them. I'm partial to pink diapers and plastic pants, especially those with girly patterns. I have several rumba pants, with ruffles all over. And I've been called out as a sissy sometimes when I've been discovered wearing diapers. That causes me to get turned on often when my wife or her mother say that to me.