Honest Question!

Would you, even though with your Lifestyle Choice to wear diapers for fun and sex, would you have a mate who really did need diapers 24/7. I ask this because of a friend of mine I met at the Hospital Supply Store. She wears and needs diapers 24/7 due to damage from a motor vehicle accident at an early age. Her diapers have caused her to have many breakups with a lot of men that she did truly love.

We have all wished for incontinence and the need for diapers 24/7. Do we really know for what we actually are asking for? Do we really know what these folks go through in the Real World? My friend is a happy lovely young Lady that is very lonely and wishes she could be treated like a normal adult, diapers or not.

It makes for some interesting thoughts of the plight this young Lady goes through. Put away the fetish fun thinking and put yourself in her possition, it is really tough.

In all hoesty here "YES" mot a problem. I understand about things of sickness and would never never judge some girl by her sickness. some things are hard to think about yes such as m.s or a major sickness that will require me to help out with her care. Not that i wouldnnt but it makes things a little more complicated. But if she was incontinent and needed them 24-7 so what!! it will not stop her from being a great person to know or date or marry even. Love has a blind eye about things. if the worse she can say is she needs diapers for life..... well that not that big a dealk in my book. We can have sex and ill just re-diaper her after and then we can cuddle and relax. if she pees during sex.. who cares in the heat of the moment i dont care if her head comes off and then re-attaches LOL!!! its all good in my book.

I much expected that kind of an approval from you Buddy you have been there. I have for short periods of time to recover and be continent again. Could you imagine high school in that condition, also being pretty and have everyone looking at you. She is one tough Lady.

If it happend at h.s i would have probably killed myself !!!! that ainmt no joke either!!! h.s in chicago is brutal pall.

Hmmm, this is a tough one. I think it all comes down to what I like to call "depth of feeling". I have some physical "issues" that include amputation and nerve damage. From time to time, other challenges have reared their heads. I have to give my partner credit; he takes them all in stride and remains the loving man I have come to know and trust. However, we are not together on a daily basis. I wonder if the situation would be more taxing on our relationship if we were together on a steady basis but I would certainly like to think it would be something we could work through in the long term.

We are also "mature", I'm in my 50's, he in his 60's. My challenges have come to me only few years ago so I can't even imagine how life would have been if they had been present during adolescence. I know parents who have cared for, and struggled with, disabled children. I know married or long-term couples where one is disabled and the other not. These relationships, when successful, are a wonder to see. I can only imagine that there is a depth of feeling, a love and respect, that overcomes all the trials and tribulations involved in this kind of relationship.

For his part, my partner will have my unending admiration (and yes, my gratitude) for dealing with my problems with true grace. He has no problem asking a direct question and not "beating around the bush". He says I am one of the toughest, most courageous women he's ever met. Even when I used a wheelchair 80% of the time, he says it was just part of me, he hardly noticed. He has taken great care to treat me as he knows I want to be treated. I guess when you come right down to it, that's all any of us able-bodied or otherwise can ask for.

Naghty Elf and mamasboy, I have to say that you two gentlemen (and I'm sure there are others out there as well) do this lady's heart a world of good. Your generous attitudes should be shared by more of us. A Karma for both of you.

Play On!

LadyDoc

AWWW thankyou ladydoc 😘. I wouldnt call it being a gentlemen but call it being a grownup. There are things in life we go thru , all of us here that we hate or get embaressed by. However we soon relaize its not the end all of things in life although at the time it may feel like it is. We realize things in life are not always smooth and we hit bumps along the way. But you and your partner are getting thru those bumps along the way the best you two can. It never changes who you are ladydoc, he sees the girl he loves and nothing else. In his eyes there is nothing worng with you , your just the love of his life and thats what matters to him.

Life is a funny thing sometimes in that we all sooner or later need the care of another person i.e. nurse, doctor, husband, wife, mom , dad. We may be emabressed to accept it or hate that we need assitance for whatever but the other person only sees some they love or care for and that person needs help

"MY HELP"!!!

And if i can offer my help to make them feel better no matter what it may include, i.e. changing a diaper, wiping after the toilet, bathing , dressing feeding I will do it becuase it's the least i can do for someone who brings me pleasure in life and has helped me out at times also. Your partner is this guy ladydoc, he sees nobody handicapped ! he see the woman he loves and she is in need of assitance for something.

He does it out of love wich you in turn bring him by just being you and caring for him. OK im done here. thankyou for the karma point ladydoc always like to think i can use them for something in life LOL!

P.S. Just remember no matter how bad we think we have there is some poor soul going thru alot worse then you at the same time.

Sincerly , mamasboy 😘

If they need them they need them. I wouldn't go for them simply for the fact they wore, but them wearing wouldnt make me run for the hills either. Its the person that they are that matters, not what they wear or do. If we can compliment one another emotionally and can be real close friends then i see no issue.

Like I have always have said the ones that make fun of the people that are in diapers are closet diaper wearers and is to scared to even say anything about it. Yeah it is so wrong to judge people that has a bladder problem, they cant help whats wrong with them. its better to have a diaper on then going around in wet smelly pissy pants all day.... so I still say if you have to wear them wear them with pride and don't be scared either.

Only an idiot can judge someone by this fact! You have to get to know a person before you start making judgments about them. If she is a good person,so what if she wears diapers?

I think mamasboy is correct it's called being an adult. If we can't accept someone that has a problem or is different how can we think someone may understand the way we are. My wife accepted my kink for what it was when I told her shaking in my boots out of fear of rejection. No matter what comes along or what problems arise it doesn't change the person so to me if it's family or friends or people in general "it is what it is"

Scotty

I have never understood why someone would wish for incontinence. Is it because you feel that society would have to give you a free pass to indulge your fetish? If so, it seems like you would have some serious guilt and shame over your desires. I have definitely been there, and it's not an easy thing to get over, especially when you've felt guilty your whole life over what you want. One of the most powerful things Mick has ever said to me, and this is when we first met, was not to be ashamed of my feelings. Which in some cases is easier said than done. It takes alot of effort to get past shame and guilt, but it's worth it. It's so much more empowering to CHOOSE to indulge your fetish (rather than have no option at all) and tell society to go to hell.

Or I am missing the point all together? Is there another reason to want to be permanently incontinent?

Anne there is absolutly no reason for anyone to want to be incontinent in life! I know most here think well this way i can indulge my fantasy of diapers 24-7 and not feel weird or guilty about it. Sadly these same people have no clue when it comes to incontinence. Trust me peeps when your in diapers 24-7 for medical reason it suck and it sucks badly.

Like i always say just pretended to be incontinent it's alot better then actualy being incontinent. I cant recall how many times i was out and wanted to not be in diapers. Had no choice at the time. Now you guys n gals figure well if i was it wont be as embaressing to be caught .....WRONG!!!! its just as embaressing and the real problem is you cant just run and take it off because you are caught! Just enjoy your diapers, anne and everyone else and pretend your inco. but dont ever wish for medical problems to indulge your fantasy of needing diapers 24-7.

To answer the question: if I loved a woman, incontinence or any other medical condition would not keep me from loving her. In fact, I'd do everything in my power to help her feel wanted and to handle her issues while maintaining her dignity. To further the discussion, I must agree with mamasboy, if you like wearing diapers, you could just wear them 24/7 without being incontinent. However, if you really do need diapers, you don't have many options. It would be obviously inconvenient or even embarrassing. Not to mention any underlying causes such as nerve damage, diabetes, heart disease, prostate cancer, kidney problems, traumatic stress and the list goes on. I wouldn't want any of those issues and I know that there are many people out there whose incontinence is caused by such things. Plus, that's got to get expensive.

The answer would be yes. A lady friend of mine was having some problems and for a week she had to wear and use diapers. She was afriad of people at work talking about her. I told her that I would stick by her, and then show her i was wearing them myself. I told her no one knew and if they did, oh well. She ended up needing them just for a week.

Yes, absolutely and without reservation. I was fully diaper dependent for nearly four years (for urinary incontinence following surgery) and have frequently continued wearing diapers since for convenience and for pure relaxed pleasure at home and thereby have an understanding of all factors involved.

Women wearing diapers are especially attractive to me regardless for their reason of need. I do have years of experience in shared diaper play, but to find such a partner I truly love to share a permanent relationship that includes her wearing diapers has been an elusive dream. Having such a partner to lovingly care for would fulfill both our lives.