Have you ever encountered someone you know online?

Hello,

I was wondering if you've ever encountered anyone you know from online or real live on this site or a similar site? If so, don't name names!

I am wondering because I ran into someone I know on another website. This isn't someone I'm interested in but it is a little awkward. I plan to stay quiet about it. Just curious if others have experienced this.

Tinkergal

I have not. At least not yet ! I play in Swinger and BDSM Communitys the SE Michigan area and I just know that it's bound to happen.

Del

It is indeed a small world! I have actually bumped into my ex-husband on another site. He didn't know it was me, thank goodness, and I didn't let on. I haven't been on that site since that incident, I want nothing to do with him or anyone that knows him.

'Nuff said,

LadyDoc

It would be interesting to know if anyone ever had the personal experience related in Rupert Holmes' song, "Escape" also known as the Pina Colada Song.

In the song, the husband and wife are cheating on each other and met though a personal ad, then met up in a restaurant on a blind date not knowing who they were about to meet. After realizing what had happened, they talked and they discovered, that after years of poor communication they both liked the same things.

You can google the lyrics if you don't remember them.

Yeah, poor communications, very often is the real problem ...

Thanks for the responses. I've heard other stories about people running into their exs online. LadyDoc, I would have done exactly what you did if I ran into my ex-husband. I'm thinking I may not go to this other site where I ran into this person.

I remember when the Pina Colada Song came out. It was several years before the internet. They found each other's personal ads in the newspaper. 😃 Remember way back when...

Tinkergal

I have never bumped into someone on this or any site that I know.

Sometimes we discover how small the world is when we least expect to. A short time after I had first joined Erotic Clinic, someone I had met here mentioned that there was another "someone" in my area on one of the sister forums. We had a couple of messages just to introduce ourselves, however being of different interests we never really clicked beyond saying hello. I was saddened to learn this person had passed away suddenly, a very well respected member of the forum was lost. Upon checking my local newspaper obituaries there was only one person who was within the age range, the surname seemed familiar and so did his picture, but at the time I did not recall where we may have met.

A couple of days later I was shocked when a number of friends collected at my local pub mid-afternoon to attend a funeral. It was a brother of a girl who I knew very well, and he was someone who I had met and had known for a couple of years, twice we had a drink together at the bar. Shocked is an understatement.

You never know who that stranger is sitting beside you...

O.K.,but only because said "please". It was on another site, and through mutual likes I began to get curious about her. Turns out we had met years ago online, and then in real life. We got along well and had a few "engagements". We still respect each other and kept our secrets to ourselves. Sorry, but that's all you'll ever know. 😉

I haven't had that happen but I have always thought about that. I guess how I would react would depend on whom it was I encountered. I will also say I'm surprised I haven't ran into someone online yet.

There is someone in the online enema/medfet communities I frequent that has the same nick/handle/I.D. as the yahoo I.D. a close friend of mine in the local community has. If it is the same individual, great, if not, that is OK too. We have known each other for 20+ years and I value our friendship most of all, and wouldn't want to violate that, wait and see.

On another note, as per all of my profiles in all enema/medfet sites I belong to, one of a number of reasons I joined these communities is to see if a girl I grew up with is part of our online communities. She and I got our start playing "doctor/patient" taking turns giving each other rectal temps and enemas. She was as into it as I was and trusted each other completely. We did "doctor/patient" until we were almost 13. Due to local civil unrest at the time, our families moved to different cities approx 2hrs travel time separate. Over the years, I have learned through former mutual acquaintances that she has moved back into the area and according to conversations, is as "experimental" as we were growing up. If it turns out that she is,great, and I am open to re-establishing communication, if not, that is acceptable also.

G.N.

A few years back just after leaving teaching at a college i had a hit on my ad from another site regarding enemas and medfet. a young 21 year old wanted an exam and enemas. when he showed up at my home it was a shocker...one of my former students was standing in front of me asking me to examine his body! ooh la la! we've been VERY good friends ever since. things actually do turn out for the good sometimes.

I am glad that it worked out for you, Dr. Enema. I have never met anyone that I know in my vanilla life on-line and I think that I prefer it that way!

Lady Teddy, Pacific Northwest, USA

@Lady Teddy: i completely understand what you're saying...it was pretty scary when i opened my door and saw him. all kinds of "Teacher touches student" CNN reports flashed through my mind! i wasn't sure if i should politely decline to play or not. i told him that it was a bit worrysome that he knew my kink but he wanted to continue and said it would be like a dream come true for him to have me touch his body. now HOW could i argue with a lad like that LOL. sometimes it doesn't work out, but if you're careful it actually can be pretty nice. 😃

Thank god I haven't. Well, it depends on the person though. But since I am new to Medfet, it's just a matter time before I do run into someone I know. Especially since this is such a small world!

If so, I know it will be on good terms because I always have my patients requesting, MORE MORE MORE! Having this kind of checkup is important and keeps you feeling ALIVE inside 😜

Y'know, there's something to be said for the patients that keep coming back...we must be doing something right 😉 it truely is just like building a practice!

I actually have a couple of times. It's fairly easy to do. The personal ads on here have never worked for me very well so I've placed several ads on craigslist in major cities in which I've lived and I've had several instances where guys who responded to the ad have been members of this site or at least were familiar with it. I often refer potential play docs or patients to some of the stories I have posted here so that they can get on idea of the types of scenarios I like...

Yes I have met 5 people from this site and have never had any regrets . I have never played with them but consider them close friends . It was great to put a face to a name and to be able to talk free to them . Yes , these people have made me feel better about myself and I wouldn't trade this experence for anything . You know who you are , we will meet again . THANK YOU !!!

Yes I like him a lot but don't know how to talk to him in person also some of his family was there so I didn't say much .