Do you do most of the housework to feel submissive?

I wondering do many of the submissive husbands/partners, who without being ordered or directed, subconciously do alot of the house work to fulfill their submissive desires when outside of the bedroom hierarchy.

My husband and I don't go in for servitude as part of our S&M.

We both do what is necessary in the house, although in the course of the week, he probably does 10% (which is mostly outside work), I do 30% and the housekeeper does the rest of the heavy work--vacuuming, bathrooms, windows, laundry for towels, bed sheets and linens (she doesn't do any cooking) two days a week. I like to wash my own clothes. I can't complain about what he does around the house. He's a wonderful husband and father and he keeps us well provided for.

My husband and I only change our own bedsheets if it appears that some really disgusting sexual activity has been going on! ! ! 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

I'm the main cleaner of this house. Sub will help with the cooking(grilling is his job, not mine), the laundry, and the yard/garden. We don't usually carry the Miss and sub into daily life, the kids might wonder about the behavior of Dad doing Mom's work.

I agree MissStress. The parents' S&M and sexual fantasy activities should be kept out of view of the children. . . . . Well, we did it as long as we could. The girls suspected the truth about us for a long time, and we're fully out of the closet with them since last Thanksgiving when our older daughter came home a day early and walked in on us during a fairly severe S&M scene. 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

I take care of the outside and also the kitchen. It has nothing to do with being submissive. I have always done the outside work and started taking care of the kitchen when my wife started nursing school. She drives an hour each way to work so with doing kitchen duty ..it makes things just a little easier on her. I do some cooking but not all of it.she does the laundry but has a cleaning lady every couple of weeks.

I do almost all the cleaning. I am always naked, usually wearing a cock ring, butt plug or both. My wife is not into domination so this gives me some sense of submission. I enjoy being nude and the task completion.

As the cook/cleaner in my house its down to me, plus also I seem to get landed cleaning the girls accommodation at times. When first married we used to take it in turns to do the housework but of course his standards were never mine and as such that didnt last long. Couldn't bear the thought of someone calling round unexpectedly to an untidy or dirty house, whatever else thats something I pride myself on. Everything in its place.

I dont like house works.. and again Liz, please would u marry me? I need a wife lol

I would help my mom with the housework from a pretty young age because she was always complaining about the mess my dad made. Of course I could never do enough to make up for their marriage struggles 😢 This is why such a thing would have be be negotiated beforehand; I want to do it without complaining like my mom or without the feeling it has to make up for something that's lacking or wrong. I would also love the fact that I wouldn't have to think about it anymore; I would just do it because I agreed to beforehand. Plain and simple.

Hi I do most of the chores but I wish she would make me do them either naked with say ball weighs on ,or in various degrees of a maids uniform, from just an apron to full black short skirts will full white apron .

Personally, I believe home maintenance to be an androgynous necessity. I think in the main it's not part of the D/s scene, though I could imagine some elements might be included, for some folks.

I so enjoy doing housework for local Dommes. i wish one would "rent" me out to other females

Wow, some of you really have it made with a spouse who participates in the household chores! I'm so jealous! I do all the cleaning, all the cooking, I grow all the food, and tend all the animals, and work a 40/week job that is an hour away from my house. On top of all of that, I handle all the battles with the 18 yr old daughter (usually about her boyfriend) because she and 'hubby' don't speak. They both love me, but they hate each other. Lucky me, eh? I have to say, cleaning the house does not make me feel submissive. If anything, it empowers me because I know I am a better person than the 'couch potato' in the other room. I know how to take care of things, get things done, and he sits there on his computer clueless to the world around him. I grow my own herbs, make herbal teas, dehydrate and can food, and raise chickens. He doesn't have a clue how to do anything like that. He can't even clean the gutters when I ask him to! My neighbor comes over and does it because my neighbor feels sorry for me. No, my friends, housework has nothing to do with submission in my mind. To me, I do it all, and it gives me power. *wink*

We are in a switch relationship, we also share the chores ;-)

We practice a HOH relationship so I (the wife) do all the housework.... cooking, shopping, laudry, cleaning. My husband is the sole money maker and should not have to worry about coming home to a clean house with a hot, home cooked meal. Punishment is given if chores are not done daily - usually a good, hard spanking and corner time. I scrub floors daily, do laundry daily, iron clothes daily, shop for fresh foods daily, cook daily, dust daily, wash/dry and put away dishes daily..... as well as whatever else he would like done in the bedroom 😃

Wow, are you for hire?

Mashie

We share most of the work as she lays out my jobs.

I'm almost to the point of being a full time homemaker and love it

I as the male do a good percentage of the house work. I wash the bed linens weekly and make the bed everyday. I do some of the regular laundry, with the exception of my wife's clothing that she says I would not do properly I clean the bathrooms, garage and basement. We have a hired cleaning person that comes every week to do all the regular dusting, vacuuming, etc. I also do the outside landscape work and keep the vehicles clean. We have a hired lawn and snow removal service. I tried to make an agreement with my wife when we first married (almost 30 years ago) that I do all as her domestic slave and give the money to my wife (to use however she wished) in the same amount that we are paying outside help. My only compensation would have been to be physically punished by her if not done correctly and made to do incorrect work over along with paying her again for that part of work. She turned me down. I had the same arrangement with my first wife for 13 years we were together and she loved it.

I spend time with a female partner we do not live together but whether we get together at her place or mine I am the one that does all the house chores..vacuum,dust,laundry..make the bed do the cooking and cleaning and if it isn't done to her liking I am punished and told to redo it... she will also make a list of chores for me to handle along with daily chores like small home repairs and things like that.

My kind of gal. Do the house work then submit after dinner on the table.

My wife does more than her fair share of the housework but I'm trying to do more. I change the bed sheets when necessary and make the bed every morning, I make the coffee every morning, vacuum the carpet, she does the wash and folds the clothes, and I put them away. We have a recliner in the family room, and if she walks into the family room to watch TV, I give her the recliner, bring her something to drink or eat, her phone, or anything else she may need. I know I should do more, I just want to make her happy.

I think the housework should be shared by both especially if you both work. I love the idea of being punished if not done properly, and cleaning in the nude with a butt plug, but the idea of a couch potato on the computer while i work my tail off, no thank you. When my husband was alive he did a lot as he was ill and at home while i worked. It was nice to come home home to a clean house and him cooking dinner, but i never demanded it. He did it out of caring for me and knew how hard i worked.