Men and women

Just wondering why there always seems to be so many more men then women interested in wearing diapers. Every site you go to whether diaperspace or this one or any of the others and the men always outnumber the women. Why?

Actually there is a very good reason why, and i believe that there are near similar numbers of men and women interested in diapers, but i can not proove it. However many women dont reveal themselves for 2 reasons, 1 often times women are less likely to reveal kinks and such openly, 2 is the men, when men find a woman into it they flock to her like lost animals and try to cling to her like a fungus, so many women prefer to indulge alone than to deal with others who wont leave them alone.

Actually, there is a more scientific reason why there are more men into adult baby/diaper things than women, and yes, there are way more men into this than women.

Without getting too technical about things, putting it in laymans terms, here's the deal.

Men in our society today are to be strong, macho, or whatever you want to call it. Women traditionally take the more submissive role. This is the way society says things should be. I am by no means saying this is the way things have to be, should be, or are 100 percent of the time.

Think about it though, a man who doesn't fit the profile of what a man should be like according to society, a man who is sensitive, submissive in public or what have you is considered weak, a "pussy", whipped, and other such things.

A woman who also doesn't fit what society feels she should be as in submissive, caring, motherly, "nurse-like" is by societies standards considered a "hard nosed bitch" and other terms along these lines.

We also all know that for the most part men marry women that remind them of their mothers. Most men want a woman to take care of them, nurse them so to speak. They want us to baby them as it were.

Most women on here will tell you if they have had any relationship for any length of time with a man that when men are sick with a cold they might as well be dying. This isn't an insult or a crack by any means, just what seems to be more often true than not. Women on the other hand often times could be dying and still are going to work, taking care of the kids etc.

This isn't quite coming out the way I have intended. Usually men are in control of the family group outside in public, and once behind closed doors, most women rule the roost.

Men have a basic need to be cared for, babied and pampered, no pun intended. They see us women as nurses, care takers, and mothers, whether it be to them or their children. Men get tired of being in charge all the time and is the reason for the role reversal. Likewise women get tired of being seen as the weaker sex and is often why we like to be in total control behind closed doors.

I hope this makes sense. I am not very articulate this morning, sorry. I guess what it all boils down to is domination and submission, what roles are expected out of us per society standards, and what our basic needs and wants are when alone out of public eye and or scrutiny.

I agree with MASH 4077th but think there are other significant factors for diaper interest trending more towards males than female.

Anatomy differences and menstruation are two factors. Most of the male genitals are outside the body and have considerably more contact with the diaper. Men probably have more sensory contact with warm pee and poop and may get more erotic input.

Women contend with menstruation every month and may loose any attraction to pads and bulkiness in the crotch over the long haul.

However, the long-term side effects of childbirth do cause incontinence in many women.

Lastly men tend to have more interest in anything physically erotic due to stronger libidos. Most of us are willing to try anything to get an orgasm. Diapers can give a man continual erotic feelings for hours as the diapers get wet and warm.

In the end, there seem to be many factors and its always an interesting discussion.

WinStuart

😄 spot on Mashie ( I resemble that remark)

The very act of putting on a diaper gives you permission to lose control (to pee or poop in a place you don’t normally do so). Men are usually in control and do not like to give up control. Wearing diapers allows them to be out of control for something, even if it only the bladder. I think for that reason, many more men than women prefer to wear them. This also may be why so many men wish to be dominated.