Mima57 asked:
And where are the men on this subject?
(the subject is below...)
For myself, I went with my girkfriend to a Fem.Dom party in '09; I knew many of the people that would be there, and thought it would be a great stretch-and-reach experience for myself.
Ssssoooo, the party was very nice, lots of play going on, and at a friend's commercial dungeon space. I was taken aback early on, as a really good friend was doing her girlfriend in a sling with a 'new' double insertion toy; twas so very hot to watch! And, I applaud the woman for having so much fun, and sharing with us all.
Later in the evening, my girlfriend got a little friskie, and asked me to pleasure her toes. I'd never done it before; she has good hygiene habits, and we shared most everything, so why not. I was very much in the mood having been modestly at her beck and call for a couple of hours that evening. I layed her out on a table, kinda like an exam table but hanging from the ceiling by chains, sensually bared her feet, and then gave her the best toe-job I've ever given. It was fun for me, as I always strive to help Nora find her pleasure, and it took her on a journey for several minutes of pure relaxation, including burgeoning tumescence.
Ssssoooo, I say give it a try whenever your partner asks, as long as it is safe, sane, consensual, and non-explotive. And, if your friend asks for it, I say go fer it and do the best job you can do. You never know, it may come back a hundred fold.
And, isn't a relationship, the real foundation of one, so easily established when two people come together and take gr8 pleasure in doing for one another for the pure joy of making the other happy? Think about it; and,
Go out and make it a great weekend!
Hermann